I have a friend who has many moles on his face and a brown birthmark on his forehead, which is half the size of a fist. You can't tell with your hair. ) She is a girl, so I feel inferior to death. I am nearsighted. At first, I looked at her from a distance and thought she was a beauty (because she was good at dressing up). Later, I got closer to her .. I was shocked, not because she was ugly.
In fact, appearance is not particularly important, but personality is the most important. People will like you only if you have a good personality, not because you are good-looking. After all, there are many good-looking people. Can they all be happy? In fact, for girls, anything that looks like Shuai Shuai is a thing of the past. What girls care about most is not the appearance, but the sincerity and sincere love of boys. If you do a multiple-choice question, A marries a handsome but romantic handsome guy, and the handsome guy beats him and scolds him. B marries an ugly husband, who is honest and willing to do anything and sacrifice everything for her. I think most girls will choose B, fall in love, and fight for the truth, not face. After all, after 30 or 40 years, who is different from who? Moreover, it is in the story that people can remember the eternal true love, but it is not the love that beautiful and handsome men can't put down in the street. Who wants the former?
For men, appearance is not the most important thing. Ma Yun, the president of Alibaba, is ugly, but he has a successful career and many women want to marry him ... Why do I say that? Because when we were chatting in the dormitory at night, a girl said that the Saudi prince bought a special plane himself and said that even if he grew up to be an ugly man with few arms and legs, he would marry him ... (Although I don't quite agree, women have to earn money to support themselves)
Actually don't feel inferior. You must always feel that girls don't like me and don't talk to me. It's not that you're ugly. What's the use of looks for boys? You must have a low self-esteem and dare not talk to them. Girls are very reserved. If you ignore them, they naturally can't take the initiative to talk to you.
My girlfriend (the one above), she is very confident, everyone likes her very much, and many boys have confessed to her. There are many things that you always feel bad about yourself. In fact, others don't feel anything ...
What about you? You don't need to feel inferior at all. People, what you value most is internal quality and personal accomplishment, not appearance.
I can't even take off my clothes when I say I have a mole on my back. In fact, having a mole on your back means that "people will have money all their lives." If others want it, why do you hide it?
Be confident, confident people are the most attractive, don't care too much about appearance, only charm can convince people.
I'm not sure if I can get rid of the mole. I just hope that even if you can't get rid of the mole, you can face life with confidence.