Two days ago, Han Xing Han Suyuan talked about the painful experience of losing a child in the program.
In 20 19, they welcomed a daughter, and then Han Suyuan began to prepare to have a second child. Because she is old, it is not easy for her to get pregnant.
Naturally pregnant, Han Suyuan actively sought medical advice ... but she did her best, but she still failed to get pregnant.
Just as the couple gave up, the second baby came unexpectedly.
It was only at that time that the couple had constant contradictions and public opinion was under great pressure. Han Suyuan didn't find out she was pregnant in time.
When she found out that she was pregnant, the doctor told her that the baby had stopped developing!
Fetal arrest? The child is missing? Induced labor? These words struck Han Suyuan's heart like a heavy hammer, which she couldn't bear or accept.
So when the doctor told her the result, she didn't want to accept it. She feels that she has survived all the difficulties when she is pregnant, and so does the second child.
Han Suyuan is confident that she and her children will survive. She postponed the operation with a glimmer of hope, thinking that the child would recover his heartbeat.
But in the end, Han Suyuan didn't expect a miracle, and the aborted baby left her forever.
Later, she had an operation under the persuasion of her husband Chen Hua, and their second baby left them in 12 weeks. ......
Although this experience has become a thing of the past, when Han Suyuan mentioned this experience again, she couldn't help but burst into tears: If I had found out that I was pregnant earlier, if I had paid more attention, I might have been able to keep the baby!
Every mother who has experienced abortion has collapsed, blamed herself and cried bitterly. ....
But I want to say to mothers: abortion is not your fault, don't blame yourself!
Abortion is a big blow to every mother.
Many mothers who have experienced fetal arrest are in pain.
Dong Xuan once mentioned his experience of abortion in the program. After 50 days of pregnancy, the baby suddenly has no heartbeat!
"It is obviously pregnant, but the fetus has stopped developing."
"At that moment, it collapsed and I felt that the sky was falling."
Although it was a long time ago, Dong Xuan's eyes were filled with tears again. A baby came once, but TA quietly left. That kind of collapse hit her heart.
On social platforms, many mothers also share their heartbreak experiences.
"In the face of fetal arrest, it is ok to cry!"
The long-awaited baby stopped, and everyone comforted me. It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, there is no fate.
I can only smile and say: Never mind, I accept.
I think it's okay for me to cry.
"If there is no fetal stop, my baby will just turn 2 years old."
I never thought that fetal arrest would happen to me, so when the doctor said this word, I really felt very dizzy.
The plan is to buy small clothes, buy supplies for labor, and think of the baby's name. ...
The result is hospitalization, induced labor and surgery ... if there is no fetal arrest, my baby will be 2 years old.
"The fetal heart was measured a minute ago, and the doctor said that the child was dead the next minute."
Fetal arrest was found in 38+5 days of pregnancy, and fetal heart rate was measured one minute ago. The doctor said the child would die the next minute. Three days after delivery, there was a lot of milk and it kept flowing, which broke my heart.
Induced labor is very painful! This is physiological.
But the pain of losing a child psychologically cannot be healed for many years!
I went to the birth check-up with joy and was told that the baby was no longer born. I don't know any reason, there is no warning. Only when I have experienced this kind of experience can I understand the sudden collapse of the baby!
Abortion is not the fault of pregnant mother, and it can't be forced!
A mother who has experienced abortion will ask:
Why did the fetus stop?
Did I do something bad that affected the baby's development?
The tire has stopped. Can it wait?
Fetal arrest, as the name implies, means that the fetus stops developing, that is to say, the heartbeat of the fetus is gone, that is to say, the fresh life in the stomach disappears unconsciously without any clinical symptoms!
Most of the abortion occurred around 10 weeks, and some occurred at 16 weeks, 20 weeks or even 30 weeks, especially in the first trimester.
There are many reasons for fetal arrest, but unless there is a history of multiple abortions, most of the time the reasons are not clear and it is difficult to be related to the living habits of pregnant mothers.
Therefore, mothers must not blame themselves too much if they encounter fetal arrest. Fetal arrest is mostly an abnormality of the embryo itself, which has little to do with the pregnant mother herself.
How do you know if the fetus has fetal arrest?
In fact, many fetuses are found during pregnancy tests. Generally, after 8 weeks of menopause, fetal heart rate fluctuation has not been detected by ultrasound, so it is likely to be fetal arrest.
If B-ultrasound does not detect fetal arrest, then the only sign may be that pregnancy symptoms disappear, such as nausea, breast pain, fatigue and other symptoms, and all are fine.
If this happens around 10 weeks of pregnancy, it may be a sign of fetal arrest.
Some people will feel uncomfortable during pregnancy for a period of time after abortion, that is, the body does not respond immediately, and even there will be signs within a few weeks after abortion.
Can we wait after the abortion?
If the examination shows that the embryo stops developing, the doctor suggests timely abortion, and must not be forced.
If there is no timely surgical abortion, it may not be discharged for a long time, resulting in missed abortion.
This situation may cause coagulation dysfunction, cause massive bleeding and increase the chance of infection!
What caused the fetal arrest?
There are various reasons for fetal arrest, or some reasons are * * * together, but in many cases, unless it appears repeatedly, it is difficult to find the reasons behind fetal arrest. The most common reasons are:
① Fetal chromosome abnormality
More than 50% of embryo abortion is abnormal chromosome development. To put it simply, this embryo is of poor quality and unsuitable for further growth, so it was eliminated.
The complicated conception process requires that everything should be completed in perfect time and consistently, so that a healthy pregnancy can continue. An egg must be fertilized with sperm. Father has 23 chromosomes and mother has 23 chromosomes. After passing through the fallopian tube, it undergoes rapid cell division and then implanted into the uterine wall. Even if a little thing goes wrong, pregnancy may not continue.
② Hemagglutination disorder
Mother's coagulation disorder (thrombosis disorder) can lead to the formation of blood clots in tiny and fragile blood vessels in placenta or umbilical cord. These blood clots will hinder blood flow, leading to fetal arrest due to hypoxia and ischemia.
③ Umbilical cord torsion
Umbilical cord around the neck or limbs may cut off the blood supply and oxygen supply of the fetus, and if it occurs in the early pregnancy, it may lead to fetal cardiac arrest.
④ Maternal infection
Sometimes the mother's infection with some diseases may have harmful effects on the fetus in the early pregnancy, leading to fetal cardiac arrest, including toxoplasmosis, cytomegalovirus, herpes and rubella, as well as the mother's own immune factors, endocrine factors, anatomical factors, infection factors, environmental pollution, bacterial infection or abnormal male sperm, and may also lead to embryo abortion.
⑤ Progesterone deficiency
After pregnancy, the body needs progesterone to get pregnant smoothly, but if the progesterone level is too low at the beginning of pregnancy, it may hinder the growth and development of the fetus and make the baby's heart stop beating.
⑥ Age factor
Age is also an important factor leading to fetal arrest. With the increase of age, the function of the reproductive system of the body gradually declines, the quantity and quality of eggs are also declining, and the abortion rate is also increasing. According to the survey results, the abortion rate is about 15% among the diagnosable pregnancies in the whole population. At the age of 35, the abortion rate is 25%, at the age of 40, it is about 35%, and at the age of 45, the abortion rate has reached 50-60%.
⑦ Unhealthy lifestyle
For example, smoking, drinking, or taking drugs, these bad habits may also cause the fetus to hang.
What if the tire stops?
The doctor will choose the most appropriate way to deal with it according to the diagnosis and physical condition.
If the pregnancy is less than 12 weeks, the doctor will provide three different treatments: spontaneous abortion, drug induced labor and curettage.
If you are pregnant for 12 weeks, you can do the following treatment: drug induced labor and curettage.
The specific treatment will be formulated by the doctor according to each person's specific situation.
Many mothers have emotional breakdown after abortion. Allow yourself to be sad, but don't blame yourself too much and don't lose hope. Pregnancy is a complicated process, and every link needs to be perfect so as not to make mistakes. Don't blame yourself too much. It's not your fault.
Fetal arrest is mostly abnormal embryonic development, which has little to do with the mother. The natural survival of the fittest is to have a healthy baby in the future, and the most important thing is to raise your body.
After abortion, when can I get pregnant again?
Usually, doctors will suggest waiting for 3-6 months to get pregnant, giving the body a time to recover, and the most important thing is to adjust your emotions.
When you get pregnant again, doing these things can help you get pregnant more smoothly and healthily:
① Do a good job of pre-pregnancy examination in advance. Don't worry too much about abortion. Both husband and wife should have a routine pre-pregnancy check-up. If it's two or three miscarriages, you need to see a fertility expert for a detailed examination.
② Have a good rest. Rest is very important. Adequate nutrition and sleep will make the body recover faster and help to give birth to a healthier baby.
③ Protect yourself from infection. Don't put anything into the vagina within 4 weeks after abortion to prevent infection, and don't use tampons.
④ Take prenatal vitamins. Taking prenatal vitamins, especially folic acid, before pregnancy again can not only reduce the chance of miscarriage again, but also prevent fetal dysplasia.
⑤ Have a healthy lifestyle. If you want to have a baby as soon as possible, you must adjust your mood and body to meet the arrival of a new life in the best state.
Keep a healthy diet. Eating fresh fruits and vegetables and a healthy diet can reduce abortion by as much as 50%.
Give up harmful habits. Quit smoking, drinking and illegal drugs, and at the same time properly control the intake of caffeine.
Relieve stress. Excessive stress will cause many problems, which is very unfavorable for pregnancy. Measures should be taken to relieve the pressure.
6. Maintain a healthy sex life. The first four days of ovulation and the day of ovulation (usually 14 days in a 28-day cycle) are the best time to give birth, and efficient sex life is helpful for pregnancy.
Finally, if the fetus stops twice, you should cooperate with the doctor to check whether there are any health problems before the third pregnancy!
More importantly, mothers should not blame themselves for abortion. Most of them can't find the reason, and it's not the fault of mothers. If you lose your baby, please be sure to get out of the pain and don't fall into guilt and self-blame!
As a netizen's mother said:
The babies must all like their mothers very much.
Every mother is chosen by TA herself.
If TA can't meet you smoothly for some reason,
Don't blame TA, and don't blame yourself.
TA likes you so much that we will meet again one day!
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