Generally speaking, you should contact him 2-4 weeks after breaking up. Early active contact will only make him feel that you miss him very much and can't achieve the purpose of making him miss you.

Contacting him immediately after breaking up will only make you feel desperate and regret ending the your relationship. If you want him to miss you, you should first avoid thinking of him.

This little trick will cause a chain reaction. When we first broke up, he was probably sure that you would compromise first and then contact us. If you still don't move after a week or two, he will start to feel strange and even angry. In a week or two, he will often think of you and he will start to miss you.

Don't return calls or text messages.

Don't call him back a few weeks after the breakup, even if he calls you first.

Within 2-4 weeks after breaking up, don't respond even if he takes the initiative to contact. He may want to use this quick and short way to calm the pain caused by the breakup. If you want him to miss you from the heart, let him wait a little longer, so that the feeling of missing will expand even more.

Don't mope in public.

You may be sad after breaking up, but you should avoid publicity and let your ex know not to post sad content on social networks.

At the same time, you can tell those friends who can comfort you and vent in front of them. If you have friends and you suspect that they may reveal your thoughts to your ex, you'd better not tell them.

4 don't follow your predecessor.

Even if it won't be found, it won't help Thinking about him in your mind will only make you unable to improve yourself and create the confident and charming temperament that makes him want to stay.

Tracking includes on-site tracking and online tracking. The former, for example, stays outside the door when he goes out or goes home, and Ling Chang calls at three o'clock but doesn't speak or follows closely. The latter, such as entangled in his new photos on social networks, peeking at emails after knowing the password, and so on.

Go on with your life.

1 Let the whole world know that you are happy.

More precisely, let everyone on your social network know that you are happy. Send a happy message, don't express your sadness.

Posting should not be too obvious or intense. For example, don't say "I'm 10,000 times better single now than when I was with my lover a few weeks ago" or "I like being single". It seems that he is repeatedly showing off his so-called happiness to his predecessor in a high-profile manner. Not only will he not miss you because of this, but he will also think it is an immature performance.

You should express it in a more subtle way. If you send a smiley face emoticon, you can even upload something that you like but has nothing to do with your predecessor, such as "I have a great group of friends" or "I like staying with my brothers and sisters".

Cultivate a hobby.

You need to rejoice in your new life again, and at the same time you want to be remembered by your ex. Strange to say, being a brand-new self and having new hobbies can make your ex miss you more.

This trick can make your ex jealous because you can live a richer and more interesting life without him.

This kind of behavior will make you familiar with him become strange. By showing his predecessor a charming and naughty side he has never seen before, this may promote

Make him want to appreciate the people around you more.

3 Create a new image.

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You don't need a brand-new suit or a complete change. You can change your hairstyle and imagine yourself as a brand-new person. This high mood will infect people around you, and my predecessor is no exception.

Be careful not to overdo it. You can make a little modification to make yourself look more energetic and beautiful, and make your predecessor look forward to it, but if you are in debt for cosmetic surgery, you will definitely regret it later.

This way can also make you become a strange acquaintance in front of your ex, who will see a brand-new you and secretly expect more.

4 Make new friends.

It is important to keep in touch with old friends, but going out to meet new friends is equivalent to telling your ex that you can have your own social circle without him.

Try to make men and women your new friends. If there is only the opposite sex, it will make people think that you are frustrated and fooling around with others. And only the same sex, although it can also make the ex jealous, but this jealousy is not enough to expand to your advantage.

5. Smooth development

After breaking up, you may want to eat some comfort food that is harmful to your health to seek comfort. Don't give in to your appetite. On the contrary, you should pay more attention to your body shape and make yourself better than before.

Of course, you can't lose weight or have plastic surgery regardless of your health. Shaping your body is to make yourself look and feel the best, so that even if your body is not perfect, it will emit charming light.

6. Double-tube method

Your goal now is to make your ex miss you, and you may want to get back together with him after your goal is achieved. But at the same time, you don't have to act as if you are still his boyfriend/girlfriend. You can always go out with the person you like.

Look around, you may find a new love, and when you wake up, you don't want your ex to miss you or get back together with you.

Third, the first contact after breaking up

1 behave appropriately.

When you meet again, you must be polite and behave warmly and appropriately, which will remind him of your advantages and prove to him that you have got over the shadow of breaking up.

If you are rude or even violent to him, it will only make you look immature and he will be happy to break up.

Start with a substantive topic.

When you decide to contact your predecessor, you can send him some or talk about some substantive topics. The first meeting after a month's separation should be conducted in a comfortable atmosphere so as not to cause embarrassment to the other party.

For example, you can say, "There is a sequel to a movie. I know you like the first song very much, and I want to tell you as soon as I see it, or "I heard your favorite song on the radio today, which reminds me of you, just to let you know that I like it very much."

Forget about breaking up.

Bring up the happy old days. You can talk casually in the future, and you can casually mention the good memories before, reminding him of the good side of this relationship.

For example, "I just saw an advertisement for a restaurant. Do you remember when we went there and ordered dessert? It is still my best color.

Act in the way he likes.

When we meet for the first time after breaking up, we can behave differently. Show what he likes, and it will help you win back his love.

Of course, the result depends on how different your manners are. If you want to please your predecessor more than before, the result should be good. But if your behavior takes a 180 degree turn, changing from a decent person to a rude person will only make him think you are crazy.

5 keep calm

Even if you contact your ex again, you should avoid looking for him too often. Let him know that you miss him, but don't act eager to step into his life.

Make sure he contacts you more often than you ask him out.

Express your concern on a special day.

Blessing him on special days, such as his birthday or Christmas, can subtly convey your feelings. These little moves can not only express your concern, but also show that he is not the only one in your life.

These special days do not include the various anniversaries between you.

Gifts should be subtle. Christmas cards or birthday cards are good, but expensive sports tickets or jewelry are too grand.

Fourth, make clever use of his jealousy.

1 Don't do anything to get his attention.

It is good for you to make others jealous properly, but if you do it too often, your intentions will become naked, not only unattractive, but will make you look sadder.

If you are not interested in a certain opposite sex, don't date or flirt with him, which is unfair to him.

Don't show off how great you are after dating someone else.

Tell him something about you and your friends.

But don't specify the gender. If it is done skillfully, there is no need to say too much to imply that he is shopping with friends of the opposite sex. This way, he will start to think, and it will make him look less depressed.

For example, "I saw this romantic movie with my friends before, and I think you will like it."

Pretend to mistake him for someone else.

It's a little tricky, but it's really effective This makes your ex feel jealous and honored at the same time. Pretend to ask him if he has been anywhere before and praise him for looking great.

You can say, "Did you go to the concert on Friday? I seem to see you, but I'm not sure. It would be great if I did. You look great!