First of all, the first point is the most important self-discipline. Because once you reach middle age, the pressure on your family is very great, especially for some women. At this time, you may not care much about the maintenance of your body. It is a common phenomenon that your figure is out of shape and fat. Therefore, it is very important to exercise regularly and maintain a good mental state at this time. The second point is the importance of marriage to women. Because in middle age, she must have a family of her own, but if the family is unhappy, women have little time to take care of themselves, so they may look tired. However, women with happy families are in the opposite state. They are radiant and radiant, and having a happy family is the most important thing in life for many people. Third, we must have a tolerant heart. Although people reach middle age, they are likely to have a crisis of menopause, and they are easy to get angry and lose their temper. So at this time, we must try to be optimistic. Don't always stare at the unpleasant side of life. We must learn to be tolerant and tolerant. After all, people live in middle age for half their lives. What else can't be optimistic about? Mentality is very important for people of all ages. Keep a healthy and good attitude, even if you are no longer young, your attitude always needs to be young. Finally, a woman with temperament exudes charm all the time. The feminine charm of middle-aged women and young women is completely different. After a certain age, women's personal mature charm is more attractive, which takes time to precipitate and polish. After middle age, the comparison between women may no longer be the collagen on their faces, nor who is younger and more beautiful, but who is more temperament. A dignified, elegant and calm woman, no matter what age level, can shine brilliantly. The reason why women are becoming more and more beautiful 2. The habit of keeping smiling is not to smile but to accept life from the heart, to be brave and tenacious. A woman who often complains, her resentment will eventually be reflected in her face; An open-minded woman, her tolerance will make her radiant. Bi Shumin once said: What is most harmful to women is resentment and guilt. Women, in the process of growing up, must know how to love themselves, no matter whether anyone loves them or not. Love yourself, don't go with the flow, love yourself, don't complain, love yourself and be optimistic! A self-disciplined and beautiful woman is not necessarily the most powerful, but a self-disciplined woman must be the most terrible! If a woman is self-disciplined, she can live to be a strong woman. Outside, work hard and never admit defeat; She is careful about her life, not careless. She is tolerant of people; For herself, she is focused. She can exercise regularly and keep in good shape; She can often read books and keep a good attitude. If a woman is self-disciplined, she will no longer worry about trivial things in life, but will constantly improve herself and make herself more valuable. Knowing self-discipline is also a manifestation of a woman's willingness to open up, which will eventually make a woman live more and more beautiful! The habit of not going to humble Jia Baoyu said: Unmarried girls are priceless. After she got married, she somehow became a lot of bad habits. Although it is a bead, it has no luster. This is a dead bead. Why don't married women live beautifully and wonderfully? Because women care too much about other people's feelings, they always think of others in life and always ignore themselves when encountering things. Too much care about other people's feelings, doomed to live badly, too much love, doomed to be the one who is not cared about. Smart women never lose themselves to please others! Some people cherish it and return more; No one can walk alone. This is the most correct way of life for women! The habit of sticking to principles has some principles. If the other party challenges, women should not be too soft-hearted. In life, we can give in, but we can't give in when others are unscrupulous. Many women turn themselves into "dissatisfied women" in their marriage, complaining that others are not good enough for them, and at the same time continue to do so. Otherwise, stop loss in time and learn to pull away from the failed relationship as soon as possible; Or, just accept the present and change your dissatisfied life from yourself. A woman with energy will live a glorious life, because there is no word "self-pity" in her world! The habit of pleasing yourself I remember a saying in the first half of my life: Never mind what others say, why bother to please others and wronged yourself. To be a woman, if you want to live beautifully, you must have a beautiful mind! If you spend your time on trifles of study and growth, then you must have more and more! Woman, don't be silly and lazy! Don't believe who can make you rely on it for a lifetime, because only a lifetime of brocade can make you feel a sense of accomplishment. Life depends on yourself, keep cheering for yourself, keep moving forward calmly, don't always stare at anyone's body, learn to please yourself, and you will be much happier. Woman, I hope you can be what live high wants! The road of life is not easy, I hope you can be strong and not in a hurry, I hope you can be willful and brave, and I hope you can create your own glory with a lonely heart! The reason why women are more and more beautiful is 3 0 1. It is very important for women to be open-minded. An optimistic and cheerful woman often looks much younger than a woman who is unhappy all day. People have experienced ups and downs in middle age. Most women have a heavy accumulation and precipitation, and they are no longer as flustered and unfocused as when they were young. I know how to deal with many things, and I have long learned not to compete with myself, because changing my way of thinking may make my life smoother and happier. Don't care too much about those bad things, solve them if you can, and face them calmly if you can't. Having a good attitude makes you feel unhappy and looks calmer and better than complaining easily. A person's heart is full of bad things, and naturally he can't escape a sad face. Even with the best cosmetics, he can't stop his haggard face. When people reach middle age, they learn to look at the world calmly and understand that there are too many things that they can't do, and there is no need to persist for a lifetime. And an open-minded woman, the body will be much better than a woman who is always sad about the autumn and hurts the moon. How many women suffer from diseases? Most of them are puzzled and entangled in inexplicable emotions. You know, happiness is a lifetime, unhappiness is a lifetime, but if you can keep an optimistic attitude, you can not only use your emotions to drive people around you, but also be good for your health. If you want to spend the rest of your life carefree, healthy body is the first condition, so I hope every woman can be alert. 02. Independent women with independent and confident personality are the most beautiful and appreciated by others. Some women often think that men like innocent girls best, so they have ideas before marriage, but they put men first after marriage, thinking that women should be attached to men to be cute. Gentle women will certainly attract men's love, but gentleness does not mean independence, but many people confuse this concept. People have experienced emotional difficulties in middle age. Women should have understood that people in this world are the most reliable only by themselves, because only they will not betray themselves. It depends on a man, who may be obedient to you when he loves you, but people's feelings are very unreliable. If he doesn't have his own unique attraction, he loves you today and may fall in love with others tomorrow. Middle-aged women have long understood the true meaning of love and marriage. It is better to be yourself than to please men. A confident and independent woman knows exactly what she should do and what kind of person she wants to be. And the ultimate goal of people living is to be themselves. Women can have ordinary facial features, but the gas field displayed by confident women is enough to leave a stunning impression. Beauty depends not on cosmetics and plastic surgery, but on the charming temperament in the bones. Those who attract others only by their looks will lose their looks one day, but those women who exude independence from the inside out will never get on the stage. A woman who makes people feel more and more beautiful must have a full heart and the ability to think independently. If she doesn't go with the flow, she won't easily doubt and belittle herself. 03. Allow yourself to tolerate others. As we all know, milk tea Rene Liu had a long affair with Chen Sheng when he was young. She even secretly confessed in the program: "If I fly away, you can pull the string and the kite string will always be in your hand! I'll come back as soon as you pull the line! " She once humbly asked Bobby Chen for a hug, but it was a pity that her husband had a wife. Despite all his love for her, Bobby Chen still held a responsible attitude towards marriage and rejected Rene Liu. However, her series of behaviors have been criticized by thousands of people. It was not until the news of the marriage was announced that the rumors slowly subsided. When I was young, no one was crazy about love and no one was impulsive. But the more you grow up, the more you understand that life is not satisfactory, and everyone has their own joys and sorrows. Finally, I know how to let go of my obsession and reconcile with myself in order to live a more exciting self. Rene Liu made a complete confession with "Later Us" and youth, and told us in her own way that she had completely let go of that past. She always believed in love and finally married it. After marriage, Rene Liu lived a full and wonderful life, singing her favorite songs, filming, writing her favorite words, traveling to her favorite places, and taking care of her career and family. She said that the best way for people to get along with each other is to maintain a complete self while flourishing. She has been madly in love for so many years, and now she has finally become what she likes. Rene Liu, who has reached the age of knowing her destiny, is still intellectually beautiful, delicate and gentle, and looks much younger than her actual age, as if she were still a gentle and pure woman like milk tea. Have you ever found that the more beautiful women live, the more self-disciplined they are, and whether they are married or not, they have never lost themselves because of the ease of life. Secular prosperity is too easy to get lost. When they are young, they may be stubborn or sad, but with the increase of age and the passage of time, they understand more and more what their life is like. Actor Chen Shu once said in an interview: "I like the way I am today, because I think I have a good attitude. When we get old, this kind of light can be created by ourselves. Over the years, I have never given up this self-demand and never given up the pursuit of beauty. Age is really not the most important thing. " Having passed the age of no doubt, she is not depressed because time has stolen her youth, but exudes attractive charm. She used her own aura to explain what a woman who is getting more and more beautiful in middle age looks like. There are many kinds of beauty in women, but the face value is too narrow. You are the most beautiful when you dare to pursue your life regardless of your age.