A woman with indifferent temperament and elegant temperament must have her own firm beliefs. She is not easily influenced by the external environment and has her own views on the understanding of things. What is a woman with cold temperament? Come and see if you want to be a woman with temperament.

An indifferent woman 1 First, she is optimistic and kind after suffering.

There is a saying that everyone * * * encourages:

"Life is not waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain."

If you are destined to escape from a heavy rain and can't find a roof or shelter, you might as well enjoy the baptism of heavy rain.

In fact, in life, there are many things that cannot be solved by hard work, but what we want to enjoy is the process of hard work.

Because as long as you work hard, you will get something. As long as you can treat the world well, the world will always treat you well. Don't expect everyone to have a conscience, but you must have a conscience.

What you suffer will eventually become your life experience. Maybe life can't be repeated, but you can tell your precious life experience to your children and people who are still confused around you.

Even though you have suffered a lot, please still love yourself, be optimistic and treat life well. That's your unique temperament.

Second, knowing the world is not sophisticated.

Writer Xiao Xu wrote a sentence in "Half Life":

"Being sophisticated and not sophisticated is the kindest maturity."

We often say that people should be kind and understand the world. Explain that you know how to give goodwill, don't go with the flow, and can understand right and wrong.

In fact, there is a lot of helplessness in real life. There are many "hidden rules" in the workplace and many "hidden rules" in communication. You know these doorways well. Some things are secular. Look at them and you'll know. You don't have to fight, but at least keep your heart.

Society is never simple, but many things are simple without intervention.

Try not to interfere in things that have nothing to do with you, and people who consume your friendship will be even less helpful, so you don't need to "reciprocate" with them, because people who consume your energy unilaterally can't get you any benefit from "sophistication".

We have been growing up in the world of mortals and the vast secular world, so don't get lost in the world.

You can look like a mortal. Very delicious.

Third, regardless of age, there is a thirst for knowledge.

When you are confused, it must be right to study.

In fact, whether reading books or learning through other channels, sometimes we don't just want to acquire knowledge, but learning itself, which can point out the maze and make our hearts at peace.

San Mao said in "Send You a Horse":

"Reading more, natural changes in appearance. Many times, I may feel that many books I have read have become the past, and I no longer remember them. In fact, they still have potential.

In temperament, in words, in boundless bosom, of course, it may also be revealed in life and words. "

The books you have read and the knowledge you have learned are ultimately intangible and will blend into your subconscious, become your temperament and become your symbol.

Fourth, keep inner peace.

There is a line in the movie "Braving the Wind and Waves":

"Temperament is very important. The smaller the sound, the bigger the gas field. "

This sentence tells us that some things are not worth caring about, some people are not worth pestering, and unreasonable people don't need to argue with them. Keeping inner peace is the real atmosphere.

Don't make a scene when you meet people, don't correct them, and don't pester them.

Many things, since we know that the struggle has no result, it is better to let the inner lake stop rippling.

Wang Zengqi said:

"Static, is a kind of temperament, is also a kind of accomplishment. Zhuge Liang said,' Indifference leads to no ambition, while quietness is not far away.' Impetuousness can't make a climate. Quiet needs exercise. "

Don't be influenced by the outside world's right and wrong, and don't be led by the nose by unworthy people. If you are cold, if you are quiet, you will eventually get the favor of people around you. That's the temperament that emanates from your heart.

Be yourself and love yourself. When you look in the mirror, all your temperament is hidden in those eyes in the mirror.

In the rest of my life, I hope you are a smart, cheerful woman who never forgets her own initiative, and have more happiness and indifference.

A woman with indifferent temperament 2 1, never show off: showing off is to make enemies for yourself.

A woman with real temperament never shows off things around her easily.

Yi Shu once said that a lady with real temperament never shows off everything she has or tells people what books she has read.

Where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex.

Once, writer Mitchell attended a writers' forum. She has been sitting quietly at the meeting without speaking.

Later, a man came to talk to her. He boasted about how many articles and books he had written. He was satisfied to see his wife nodding frequently. I feel really great.

When he finally left, he suddenly felt that he knew nothing about Mitchell, so he gently asked his wife if you had written anything.

I didn't write as many books as you did, but I only wrote one, that is Gone with the Wind.

The man was ashamed of his boasting when he learned that it was a famous writer Mitchell.

A woman with real temperament doesn't like to show off, because the more she knows, the more she knows what she doesn't know.

They know that the silence of the mountain still does not affect its height.

And from a social point of view, showing off itself is easy to make enemies for yourself.

There is a classic book "Hidden Rules of Words and Actions" that tells us that if you really want to show off your success, please attach your anecdotes to solve the embarrassment brought by success and prevent jealousy.

Showing off is the enemy of a temperament woman, and it is also the internal expression of a person's lack of literacy.

Faye Yu is an unusual beauty in the entertainment circle, with a natural temperament.

Perhaps it comes from the fact that her parents never deliberately praised her appearance when she was a child, which gradually made her feel that she ignored her appearance.

Her own life is to learn to read and try everything she dares to do. Her temperament is cold, but she has her own taste for many years.

Never break your word easily: only in this way can you win the support of others.

A woman with real temperament never breaks her word. They take their promises very seriously.

Perhaps many people despise the power of language. A person who takes what she said seriously will respect himself more and safeguard his holy heart more.

In their minds, if they can do it, they will agree. If they can't, they will definitely refuse.

When I was a child, Deng promised her classmates to go to her house on weekends. Later, it rained heavily and Deng's family told her not to go.

Deng Ying Chao insisted on going. She said that she must do what she promised others. It was this trust that was built up since childhood that later made Deng a woman that everyone trusted and admired.

Temperament of women abide by their words and deeds, they respect their commitments, in fact, is to be consistent.

It is to let everyone know that honesty is a person's moral bottom line and a principle that we need to abide by.

Never say anything too absolute.

The third characteristic of a woman with temperament is that she never says absolute words.

Absolutely, they will never say that you never have a future, nor will they say that your life will be like this.

They know that life is impermanent, and if they don't say absolutely, they actually leave a way out for others and themselves.

The road of life is tortuous. Who can tell whose fate, rather than absolute words, represents their wisdom and generosity.

It is also the trust and expectation they give others.

In their eyes, words are absolutely powerful, and most of what they say is full of hope and strength.

This kind of absolute words sometimes bring harm to others.

I know a girl with great temperament around me. Every time you chat with her, you will find that her words are full of dialectical power.

She said that she was deeply influenced by Lao Tzu, who once said that fortunes depend on each other. The same is true with people.

Often we don't choose what we say. If we say it too absolutely, we may be retaliated by life.

There is a person beside her who has never lost anything herself. Later, she said unscrupulously, look at you, it's all caused by your carelessness, so I will never lose anything.

Not long after, there was also a theft in this girl's dormitory, and the girl's computer was missing.

In a sense, if we don't say absolute, we are actually telling us that there are also mutual transformations between things.

There is never an absolute thing in this world, so we need to pay great attention to our words when we treat others, and have we ever got carried away.

From a psychological point of view, words and subconscious are interlinked. Only by paying great attention to the inner subconscious and guarding against procrastination can we be truly safe.

A woman with real temperament actually knows that life is impermanent, so she won't say absolute words, break her word and show off herself.

Because life is always changing. Only by tolerating others in your heart, adjusting yourself at any time and making full preparations can you truly live up to your mission.

A woman with indifferent temperament is 3 1, well-proportioned and graceful.

To see if a woman is doing well, you only need to look at her overall state to get a general understanding. Especially the facial contour and figure posture of a woman after 30 years old is a direct portrayal of her real life. If a woman's face is full of anger, her life must be full of intrigue and unhappiness. If her eyes are clear and her facial lines are soft, most of her married life is happy.

A woman's figure and posture reflect her heart to a great extent. A woman who has kept a symmetrical figure for more than ten years must be self-disciplined. Such a woman will keep this style at work or at home, and a woman who knows self-discipline will have more love and understand that some things can only be brought to herself by self-discipline.

2, dressing and matching have their own opinions, not following the trend and not chasing the trend.

Almost all women's aesthetics can be exposed in clothes. A person who puts all the popular elements on her all day, likes to follow the trend in life and has no opinion of herself.

And a woman with temperament, on the basis of keeping a well-proportioned figure, will slowly explore clothes suitable for her style in practice, and then choose clothes according to this style. They won't follow the trend, and they won't wear all the popular elements on themselves. They also make mistakes, but in the end they can always find a dress that suits their figure and temperament to make themselves better.

To make yourself beautiful, face value and face are on the one hand, and clothing is also an important factor of disharmony or lack. After all, when many people meet for the first time, the first impression is the overall temperament.

3. Keep the good habit of reading and keep a piece of pure land in your heart.

Some people will ask us that after reading so many books, most of them have forgotten. So what is the meaning of reading? I once read a passage in Weibo: knowledge that remains unchanged after death brings the best benefits to people, that is, when the living and changing world is no longer warm, it provides some constant, compassionate and calm warmth.

I think reading is a woman's greatest significance. Reading will give you a quiet mind in an impetuous world, and there will be something quiet and indifferent in your temperament, which is the biggest difference between you and other vulgar women.

4. Know how to communicate and maintain spiritual independence.

A woman with a pure heart will understand the importance of communication. When two people have conflicts, they will not make trouble without reason. They think that men should naturally give way to women and compromise. Instead, we should pursue the principle of equality between men and women in love, tell the truth, express our feelings in time, find out what is unreasonable, and then find out the solution to the problem in combination with the environment of the two people at that time.

They are independent in spirit, can't listen to other people's suggestions, have their own independent judgments on anyone and anything, and won't be blinded by one eye. They know that everyone behaves differently in front of different people, and they don't judge a person from what others say.

5, not secular, do not go with the flow.

Temperament of women are generally spiritually cultivated, they are not secular, no matter how old they are, their hearts will not be contaminated with secular greed and meanness. With such a woman, you can always feel a refreshing feeling of the breeze, even if people reach middle age, they don't have that greasy temperament.

They don't get together with neighbors to talk about their parents' shortcomings, and they are not interested in that kind of gossip. They know the importance of being immune to it, and they will get along with the right people.