Psychological Counseling on Marriage Emotion: 12 Key points of maintaining the relationship between husband and wife in the secret of happy marriage. Every woman is eager to have a happy marriage, but the reality is not as beautiful as we want, so how can we have a happy marriage? For a long-term marriage, couples need the following 12 points. Have an independent social circle. After marriage, will you take your husband to your girlfriend's party? Especially when the other person is dating alone? Please wake up early if you don't want to lose your friendship! You don't have to share your circle of friends. The bachelor party with good sisters can not only make your topic more open and interesting, but also provide you with an opportunity to escape from the role of wife for a while and enjoy a beautiful afternoon simply and easily. Restore childhood games. Occasionally return to naughty big children and get the simplest and most exciting happiness from simple games. Take off bright suits and dazzling jewels, and play games with your partners, such as water gun fights, fighting for small toys, playing sticker poker and so on. In a pleasant atmosphere, they got rid of the fatigue and troubles of the day and gave the green light to their intimate behavior. However, pay attention to the game for fun, not to avoid creating tension in order to win or lose. Create surprises. No one doesn't like surprises. In marriage, surprise is another manifestation of romance. After all, for most people, life is always complicated, and it's time to create fun with surprises! Play humor in an argument. Try to make a face when the other person is angry, imitate his expression or laugh, and smile. Remember, your intention is not to laugh at each other, but to entertain yourself and ease the atmosphere. After all, using humor to express humor is to increase the positive energy of the family, make yourself happy, and make the person you like happier.

Marrying someone else, no matter what, does not mean marriage, nor is it comparative marriage. Just as a person's appearance is deceptive, so is marriage. You never know whether someone else's marriage is happy or not, although they seem to be a perfect couple, so it's best to take time to manage your happiness. Keep the habit of dating. Many couples give up the habit of dating after having children, which seems to happen all their lives. Although the work is very busy and the children are too young to take care of them, maintaining the mood of love and sharing is the foundation of a happy family. Always say I love you. After a long marriage, many people will say "I love you" grudgingly. In fact, these seemingly simple three words bear your gratitude to the other half and confirm your feelings. If you really find it hard to say it, you might as well use nonverbal expression to convey your unchanging love in another way.

Treat his family like his own. In China, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a stumbling block to almost every marriage, but are there really so many bossy and unreasonable mother-in-law in the world? Such a mother-in-law does exist, but a wife who can't reflect on herself and complains about everything can't be called a smart woman. First of all, please learn to treat his family as your own. Your husband also wants to see a reasonable wife. Recall interesting scenes. Once interesting scenes and funny stories are all happy elements worth remembering. Doris Bazini, a French psychologist and sociologist, once said that having happiness and recalling happy scenes with your partner will make the marriage more lasting. Because sharing past happiness is a kind of generosity, and being willing to laugh for each other is also a sign of love. This joy can come from other people's jokes, your play, or interesting experiences. Never mention "divorce". A happy marriage must have a good attitude. If you often ask for divorce or threaten divorce, it can only be said that you admit that your marriage has failed and your spouse will see it as possible. Remember that divorce will never solve your problems.

1 lose face in front of outsiders. When you say your husband's embarrassed expression excitedly in front of your husband or your friends, do you notice the embarrassed expression next to you? This kind of damage is usually invisible, but it is extremely lethal. 1 quarreled about this matter. Many women have a problem: settling old scores, especially in quarreling with their partners. Quarrels and contradictions are normal in marriage, but I hope you can face them and don't let those old stories or past dissatisfaction turn into quarrels. Marriage is like running a marathon. Husband and wife need mutual support and encouragement in order to reach the focus of happiness. Above 12 points, maintain the relationship between husband and wife, hoping to help everyone improve their concentration in the relationship between husband and wife, and wish everyone happiness.