Many people who love each other in high school are vows of eternal love and vigorous. I fed a handful of dog food to most people who are still studying hard, giving people a deep belief that the two of us will go to the end. However, once you go to college, you will be hit in the face. People who seem to love each other clearly have just become friends, but I think this is also because some people have to reconcile with the weakness of human nature.

First, of course, because of the distance, there are not so many opportunities to get along. Many couples get along in high school, but a college entrance examination always distracts each other. When they first learned the admission results, they may still be particularly reluctant. But after a long time, many people's love still lost to distance. Because of love, many people are more and more possessive, but she is not around. It is true that you can play WeChat video voice, but after all, you can't wear away each other's feelings, so it is getting weaker and weaker.

However, there are more opportunities to meet other people in the university, and the circle of the university is far bigger than we thought. In high school, I thought that person would be my own world. Later, I entered the university and found that anyone can replace him or even surpass him. Actually, he's not so good either. Therefore, a high school romance that lasted for three years is not as good as a college romance that lasted for four years or more, but I think if the two sides are firm enough in this respect, they will not be easily shaken.

Second, both sides are very busy, and both are rushing for their own future. In high school, we had the same goal, that is, the college entrance examination. We can work together and make progress together. However, it was the admission notice that decided that we should go our separate ways. You have your Internet major and want to be an IT talent, and I have my law major and want to be a lawyer.

University is a science, not as easy as anyone said. Moreover, we should involve many aspects of knowledge, expand ourselves and exercise our abilities. The library can let itself study with any book for a long time, and many knowledge points must be studied by itself. So we have no choice but to work hard and dilute our feelings.

Others say that college is easy, but I don't think so. Everyone's lifestyle is different, and there are different ways to be busy and relaxed. I want to exercise my ability, so I participated in various club activities and became the president of the student union, so I have no time to contact you at all; I want to relax and degenerate, so that I can play the glory of the king all night, so I still have no extra time for you.

After all, high school romance can't go through college and can't go to the end. In fact, we have to cooperate with others for some reasons, but we still have a choice in many things. A successful person still has the ability to weigh everything. It may take him some time to adjust, but if he still loves to believe that distance can't destroy everything.