When mothers chat, they often ask each other: What extracurricular classes did you enroll your children in? As a result, the questioned party began to speak. Chinese was compiled in an institution, English was learned in a mechanism, and Barabara was a telephone call.
Often, if the mother who asks questions has also reported various training courses to the baby, it will be very calm at this time. If she doesn't go to class, she will have serious anxiety.
On the way of raising children, mothers compare with each other, especially in their studies. It is not so much a comparison as a fear of abusing one's children. They always want to leave the best things to their children and let them win at the starting line.
My friend Xiaoli is not like this. She is always calm when she hears that other mothers learn from each other. This makes me curious. I didn't know until I asked. So she has been insisting? No comparison? Principles, with their own words and deeds, really affect children.
Xiaoli tells stories to her daughter when she is a few months old. Older ones, read picture books together; When they are older, children learn to read by themselves and can stay at home or in the library quietly for half a day.
Xiaoli's daughter loves reading and reads everything. Soon, she was much wider than other children of her age. When children officially enter school, the advantages brought by a lot of reading are gradually highlighted, and application problems such as looking at pictures, writing, composition and mathematics can be completed quickly, and the quality is still very high.
Your investment in children almost always pays off beyond expectations, remember, Jim? There is a passage in Trelease's reading manual:? You may have unlimited wealth, boxes of jewels and boxes of gold. But you will never be richer than me, because I have a mother who reads to me. ?
On the road of parenting, there is no need for comparison. Every child has his own flowering period. It is most important for parents to guide their children correctly and set an example.
Being a parent is to cultivate yourself. May you grow up with your children and make progress every day!