Teacher Yi Shu has an unusually calm analysis of the unique charm of women.

In Round Dance, Fu said to Zhou Chengyu, "A woman with real temperament never shows off everything about herself. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no inferiority complex. "

In "Xibao", she told the woman through Xibao's mouth: "To be a woman, you must make it like a painting, not like clothes. After being tried and tried by men, no one bought it, and it was worn out. 50% is still difficult to sell. "

Similarly, in the first half of my life, she wrote: "After all, a person can only trust himself, and it is himself who can hold his head high."

In the teacher's view, a woman's greatest charm lies in her beauty without knowing it, her independent mind and her dependence on men for survival.

All these wonderful qualities can be found in Tang Jing.

02.

I watched the TV series "My First Half Life" again some time ago. Tang Jing is my favorite character in the whole play, and there is no one.

She has the advantages of modern women: independence, strong learning ability and extraordinary self-control.

Many women regard Tang Jing as their role model, hoping to be like her, and have their own place in the workplace, which is not influenced by feelings.

Tang Jing has many bright spots, but what I appreciate most are these three points:

Tang Jing's love values are worth learning.

Unlike many young women in their twenties, Tang Jing knows her strengths and weaknesses. She will not ask men for any sky-high bride price, nor will she ask for constant romance.

"Marriage is for yourself." Tang Jing understands that marriage is not for others to see. Only two people know whether the relationship is good or not, and they don't need to prove it to anyone.

There are too many couples, no matter how romantic the wedding is, it won't delay the cheating and divorce, so in Tang Jing's view, as long as the other person is the right person, he will definitely marry him without scruple.

Tang Jing, who can persist until she is unmarried in her thirties, deeply knows what she wants. She will never get married for the sake of marriage, will not compromise and lower her requirements because of her age, and will not think it is time to get married because she has talked with He Han for ten years. She feels that He Han doesn't love herself enough, so she has been slow to agree to He Han's proposal.

She has extremely low material requirements for love, but extremely high spiritual requirements for love. She is not secular, and she will never compromise with the secular and stick to her choice.

Even if Han Han had the money to make Tang Jing a housewife at home and be a housewife like Luo Zijun, Tang Jing still insisted on her career. She thinks intimate relationships can last longer.

Even if you are in love, you will not become a woman with zero IQ. You can always keep your head, give He Han good advice, and help your good friends deal with family changes. This kind of bright spot is worth learning.

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As the saying goes, Tang Jing can always find the crux of the problem and give each other a heavy blow.

When Chen was found cheating, he staged a textbook-level girlfriend action.

First, she implicitly warned Chen to pay attention to her words and deeds; Second, she did a background check on Chen's cheating partner in advance; Third, she reminded Luo Zijun to pay attention to Chen's every move.

She controlled everything in her own hands and minimized Chen's harm to Luo Zijun.

Being bullied by her best friend, she descended to the world like a god and directly fired Lingling on the spot. Chen knows that Lingling can't help Lingling by relying on her nepotism, so she has to raise her.

Lingling is complacent about her superior success, but she doesn't know that Chen can hate her spoiled wife today and will hate her for the same reason in the future.

Sure enough, after all kinds of experiences, Chen couldn't stand Lingling's selfishness and small temper, and began to gradually stay away from her family in the company, even crying in front of Luo Zijun and saying that she regretted it.

No matter when, Tang Jing is always relied on by others, and she always gives people a feeling of being trustworthy.

In her career, Tang Jing can always find the crux of the problem. After she fired Lingling, Xiaodong began to take refuge in her. However, in the face of the enemy's initiative, Tang Jing didn't intend to reuse her and advised Xiaodong that "swinging the club is not good."

When something happens, Tang Jing can always handle it calmly. She is not in a hurry to attack each other, but quietly waiting for the moment when she can be killed with one blow. It's lucky to make friends with people like Tang Jing.

It seems that in many things, as long as she is around, she can feel at ease a lot, because she can always find the key points quickly and accurately.

04.

No matter what the state, Tang Jing always shows his confident side.

Tang Jing has neat short hair, and she is always very capable in dressing in the workplace. At first glance, it is a business elite, and its ability is as outstanding as its appearance.

She has the ability to make money and excellent business skills. Women have confidence when they have money, which is why Tang Jing always exudes confidence and charm.

Tang Jing's boyfriend is excellent, but she thinks she is not bad either. She believes in her charm, so she won't doubt He Han too much, which is one reason why He Han likes her.

In the face of Vivian's provocation, Tang Jing always fanned the flames, and Vivian angered herself half to death every time she failed to demonstrate.

She said she had dinner with He Han, but Tang Jing said she didn't see her when she had dinner with He Han last night, and punched love rat in the face.

After all, Tang Jing can give He Han a lot of trust, which is actually due to her confidence.

She believes that she has the ability to keep He Han and that she has enough charm to attract He Han.

No matter who she faces, she is never supercilious and supercilious. This may be the reason why many people like her.

05.

Tang Jing's eyes are always firm and confident. Discrimination against women has always existed in the workplace, but she can gain a foothold in the workplace with her own personal ability.

She has always been so supercilious to love. She loves He Han very much, but she has never become humble because she loves someone deeply. Even when she finally broke up, she didn't show too much sadness. She has always been sober and never regarded love as the whole of her life.

When treating her best friend, she did her best, without any selfishness, and gave up the man she liked.

She has been working hard to treat her career and achieved the best of herself in the workplace.

Tang Jing's courage is not possessed by ordinary women. She is very open-minded, knowing what she wants and letting go of her feelings. Such a woman with clear love and hate is worth learning from all women.