No, I won't donate unless I know this person well. I'm really in trouble To launch crowdfunding, we must first overcome the difficulties ourselves. We want to sell and borrow, and we can only start crowdfunding when resources are exhausted, instead of crowdfunding at the beginning, not using our own money to defraud others of their hard-earned money. It is foolish to be too kind.
To tell the truth, it's better for a circle of friends to take a basket of fruit to the hospital to see each other and throw a few hundred (sentimental) or thousands (affectionate) (depending on your own ability, decide how much, if you are under pressure, explain less, and the other party will understand. )。 After all, there is affection between friends, unless you don't want to be friends, you can turn a blind eye. See how you feel about each other's relationship and how much you pay. This kind of question can be asked, but it is also cold-blooded, ungrateful and will not tell the truth in real life. What's more, those who only want their own interests.
1. This has nothing to do with having a car! People always have difficulties in this world. Maybe her car is a loan and there is still a lot of money to pay back.
You may think he is pretending to be poor, he is cheating, and he is better off than you. It's psychological. I understand you. It's just that cancer is something people really don't want to encounter.
If she has cancer, she will launch crowdfunding, which we can't stop. We can't stop a family that is suffering from difficulties from asking for help! I once watched a happy family fail in the end. It is expensive to treat a disease, and it may not have a result.
You don't have to donate. It's your freedom. You can also tell her that you are poor and really can't help. But if you regard her as your friend, you can see if she is declining, and then decide whether to help or not.
Everyone may encounter difficulties in glorious times, and I know my answer may be sprayed! Some people will call me the virgin bitch. Most estimates also support you not to donate!
Imagine if one day, you need help yourself and others say you can go to college. She just graduated from high school and can't help you … what a sad thing.
Be kind in this world! This will be a good thing!
If you treat each other as friends, you donate!
Don't donate if the relationship is not in place!
What if you have a car? Can friendship be replaced by a car? She has a car, but she is not healthy. A car may not save her life.
Why do you feel sour, even a little gloating? I hope it is my villain's heart that is the belly of a gentleman.
It's actually quite chilling to hear you say that! Your friend has breast cancer, and you don't look so cruel. On the contrary, I wonder if I should donate. How much can I donate? Thousands or hundreds of thousands?
You might say, if I donate a few hundred dollars, isn't that money? A few hundred dollars is really money, so don't donate it if you think it's not worth it!
The wife of a relative in the village has breast cancer. This relative is one of the richest people in our village, with a net worth of several million, but in the end he applied for crowdfunding because his wife was ill.
He owns a logistics company, with at least two big trucks and a car with hundreds of thousands. He bought a house in a second-tier city, and bought a piece of land in the town with his brother and built a building for rent.
Of course, the two brothers also built new buildings in the village. Each of them has a three-and-a-half-story building, which has been renovated.
This net worth, I estimate, should be several million. Of course, no one knows how much money he has in his account.
His wife used to work in Shenzhen and had social security. After he fell ill, he resigned. The treatment cost hundreds of thousands, and I went back to my hometown to recuperate and have been taking medicine to recuperate.
In the fourth year, I moved and was hospitalized again, requiring surgery. It is said that the cost needs several hundred thousand, but the company's benefit is not good and it can't get the money. He started crowdfunding, as if the quota was 300 thousand.
As a result, villagers donated money, and relatives and colleagues also donated money.
Because of this crowdfunding, his parents quarreled with him, and his brother quarreled with him. Because both his parents and his brother advised him not to raise money, but to borrow money.
In fact, many people are willing to lend him money. At that time, a relative did come to ask if he wanted money to help, but he refused.
At that time, he was less than twenty years old and went to Shenzhen to work hard alone. 10 years later, a logistics company was established. It is said that a small branch company was opened in the last two years, with many workers.
Just look at his self-control, which one is not high? Since the company is still open, it means that he has money and he has a house and a car. Why can't he pay back these hundreds of thousands? Therefore, some people are willing to lend him money.
But he refused to borrow money and chose crowdfunding. His parents and his brother were ashamed and argued with him.
His mother came to my mother to buy eggs to nourish her daughter-in-law Speaking of which, she sighed. What a pity. A man in his thirties and forties has hands and feet. He didn't earn any money, but he chose to bend down to be a beggar. ...
His father is an old village head, and his mother keeps the house well. At that time, she was the best person in the village For more than 8 years, the couple built a two-story building together. Their home is the earliest building in our village. Those years must have been fascinating.
People of the older generation pay attention to face, ask for modesty in everything, and do things straight. They disapproved of their son's behavior. They believe that only the money they have earned through their own sweat can be really used.
However, the son has been married for many years and has his own opinions. The opposition of the old man is naturally invalid.
In fact, the villagers were very surprised by his crowdfunding. Everyone's idea is a little simple, and everyone thinks that only people who are at the end of their tether or have no family can raise money, but he seems to be far from this point.
Doubt belongs to doubt, but among the villagers, except for a few people whose heads are too long and lack strings, no one will go to the parties to get to the bottom of it. Besides, people didn't force you to donate money.
My dad didn't allow us to discuss it, so he really let it out and said it was shameful. Isolating neighbors, the distance between the two houses is only ten steps. It's really embarrassing to look up but not bow down, and it's not easy to get along.
Our family also donated money, my parents donated 500 yuan, my brother donated 500 yuan, and my housewife only donated 200 yuan because of her meager part-time income.
That's all I can do. His two brothers are bosses. They have a house, a car and a career. My brother runs a small factory with a dozen workers. ). And our brothers and sisters are all working, old and young, so they are not generous.
In fact, if you borrow money, you will borrow more, but it seems unnecessary, which is a bit embarrassing.
As the subject said, my friend has breast cancer. She has a car and you don't have a car. Whether to donate or not depends on the friendship between two people.
Like my nephew, I don't agree with him, but I still want to donate this one.
The affection between relatives is that you help me and I help you come and go like this and get stronger gradually. At that time, our family built a house, and their family also lent us 20 thousand, of course, because my parents were trustworthy, and we paid it off within one year.
This time, my father also came to the door and said that if necessary, just let me know. A big hand is not enough, but a small hand is ok. However, it was also rejected.
His crowdfunding seems to have raised 6.5438+0.5 million, all of which were used for the treatment of his wife. In this case, there is nothing to say, because it is also used properly.
However, some people in the society deliberately take advantage of the loopholes and squander the crowdfunding money. For example, a girl who broke the news by a netizen said that she was seriously ill, but she had no money to treat it. But in the end, she used the money she raised to buy luxury goods and show off her wealth in her circle of friends. Isn't this a blow to the hearts of those who give love?
You know, some people who donate money have a hard life. Just one hundred dollars, which is the living expenses of others for many days. They can't eat or wear. Seeing that the girl was seriously ill at a young age, she was particularly distressed and donated without hesitation.
They think they are helping others, but they show off their wealth with love money.
I hope that the threshold for applying for crowdfunding can be raised, at least let us believe that fund-raising applicants really need help; And the money raised is really used to help people in need.
We all have blood and enthusiasm. I will turn my heart to the bright moon, hoping it will shine on my heart. Nobody wanted to give their lives, so they finally fed the dog.
We are all eager to be trusted, and people also need trust. The trust between people needs to be maintained by your sincerity.
Trust is a budding bud, full of vitality but very fragile. It needs careful care and protection to grow into a big tree and prop up the ideal sunshine and blue sky.
Trust is not easy to build, so don't destroy it easily. Once trust collapses, it is difficult to rebuild. Broken hearts, cold-blooded and deceived feelings will breed indifference and suspicion. Indifference and suspicion will slow down the speed of assistance, even hinder the pace of assistance, so that those who really need assistance can not get timely assistance.
Neighbor agent mobile business hall, there are two suites and two cars at home. Her father is sick. Crowdfunding. Some people are really poor and need help, but we should keep our eyes open.
This is not a donation, this is somebody else's financing, free of charge!
I remember watching a news before.
It is said that a couple's daughter was terminally ill and was treated in the hospital. The little girl is very cute and sensible. Her father interacted with her and sold all kinds of pitiful, sensible and clever. They all made news reports, and the girl's father used it as a selling point to raise money online.
Because this matter has been reported by many media, the girl's parents and friends are many and good at hype. Many people donated money, reaching millions. Later, the little girl left and was not cured.
But then an insider revealed. The couple both run companies and have a son and a daughter. There are two luxury houses and several luxury cars in the urban area, with an annual income of several million. And because of medical insurance and many commercial insurances, the treatment of the little girl only cost more than 100,000 yuan.
When the news came out, the public was in an uproar. Many well-meaning people say that I earn 3000 yuan a month, but I donate my money to multi-millionaires. Am I stupid?
Some netizens asked, if you are so rich, why do people donate money? They said, I have a son. I want to save money for my son. I can't treat him badly.
Netizens were shocked and speechless.
Later, under the pressure of public opinion, the couple said that they would donate the rest of the money to other patients. As for whether they donated or not, who knows? Later, crowdfunding froze his account and said that he would return the money to the donor. As for what happened later, it gradually disappeared.
In that incident, what a famous media said was classic.
Some selfish people, taking advantage of the kindness and sympathy of the public, can only hurt many kind people, and they will be chilling.
Therefore, since then, fewer and fewer people have donated money through crowdfunding, and even some poor people who really need help have not received much donations.
This is a great sorrow. The social atmosphere has been corrupted by these selfish people, but what can we do?
So people are indifferent.
No donations.
She has a car, you don't, she is sick, you don't, and the donation is voluntary.