I'm in this business myself, and I can't help buying something special every time I see it, but I can't wear jewelry with my baby at ordinary times, just leave the dust.
Later, every time I wanted to buy it, I rummaged through all the jewelry in my mind, thinking that I couldn't wear that much. Why buy it? I might as well buy something to eat [cover my face].
If you keep buying, it is really a mental illness and can be treated through psychological intervention.
This is a kind of psychological compensation, because the sequelae of material poverty as a child and the lack as a child made you buy a lot of things or hoard a lot of things when you grew up. Essentially, you don't need it that much, or at all.
The hobby of hoarding can be reflected in shopaholics, who keep buying many things, such as clothes.
Nowadays, the life of "running away from home" is very fashionable, and the concern for material things has shifted to the spirit. I suggest you cure this disease!
If you want to cure this disease, you can adjust yourself through deliberate psychological suggestion, and you can set yourself a "blocking code". When you see something you like, telling yourself that you like it doesn't mean you have to have it.
Just remember this "blocking code", see something you like, allow yourself to like it, but tell yourself not to buy it again.
First of all, thank the author for his question. As a silversmith, Cher is particularly willing to answer this question.
As a girl, it is normal to buy jewelry often, especially the jewelry you like, which is also a way to please yourself. I don't think I'm sick. However, the purchase must be within your tolerance, and don't over-consume!
Cher suggested buying some sterling silver jewelry, because sterling silver can be processed twice and melted into new styles, even if it is idle, it will not be a pity!
It is normal for people to have a desire to buy. First of all, you should spend rationally. You keep buying, which shows your love for jewelry. You can develop into your own interests and collect what you like. Of course! You can also share your likes with everyone. Let everyone feel the same joy.
When I was a child, I also liked to buy it at buy buy. I bought rubies and sapphires, I bought emeralds, and I worked hard for them. I bought everything, only to find that I didn't like it very much. Now almost 50 years old, wearing a jade bracelet, nothing else. I think at the age you want to buy, you should try your best to buy it. After all, looking at these beautiful things will make you feel happy.
I am over 50 years old, but in recent years I suddenly fell in love with buying all kinds of inlaid jewelry, red, sapphire and emerald. If I have a good eye, I will buy some rings, earrings and necklaces. In the past, many people who liked it were reluctant to buy it and wanted to save money to buy a house and raise children. Now that children are older and have some spare money, they will buy things they like. After all, it's boring not to buy what you like when you are old. Buying jewelry has certain value preservation compared with buying clothes or jewelry, so I personally think there is nothing to control. I can do whatever I can to make myself happy, so this money is spent well.
Save money for you regularly. I can't buy it without money. I have been wanting to buy a gold bracelet for several years, and I have told my husband several times that I want to buy it. Anyway, you have all my money. I really need to spend 10 thousand to 20 thousand to buy a bracelet, but I'm a little reluctant. I went to Chow Tai Fook the other day and bought a bracelet, which was beautiful in my heart.
I envy my little sister! It is a kind of happiness to do what you like and buy jewelry you like! I was hesitant to buy a bracelet when we gave birth to our second baby. It is my hesitation that has led to a drop from the current 200 yuan a gram to nearly 4 10 gram. I still didn't buy it [laughs].
Ask the specific situation first. Why do you buy bracelets, rings and necklaces? Just like it? What is the price?
Besides, why do you feel sick? Have you ever had this uncontrollable behavior before? Or do you think this is a disease?
For the first question, if you simply like to hoard these or hobbies, and the economic conditions allow you to buy them, there is nothing wrong.
If it is uncontrollable, just like the shopaholic played by Cecilia Cheung before, you have to buy when you are in debt, and you have to buy when you see it. If you can't control it completely, it may be a mental illness. It is suggested to find out the root cause, whether you are pure vanity and like to show off, or whether you are too empty and need to be filled with material.
People's shopping greed is endless! When the conditions are still superior! I feel that jewelry is a necessity for women! Not what you have to do! Because as I get older, I still feel vulgar! There is no smell at all! Why do many stars rarely wear accessories when they appear on any occasion | Many of them are clean and natural clothes! Can't people afford these jewels? Buy yourself some life insurance and body insurance! It is more beneficial than buying those unnecessary luxuries!