As the saying goes, "people are afraid of making friends, but they are afraid of giving them to the wrong person." Everyone wants to meet a good woman, especially a young single man. However, there are so many women in Qian Qian that people are dazzled. How can we see them clearly? Many people are from the Appearance Association. Wilde wrote in the novel dorian gray: "There are too many beautiful faces and too few interesting souls.

If you want to meet a good woman, I suggest you learn the following skills.

First, living habits, see clearly "Born in a Family" read such a passage: "Children absorb their parents' behaviors like sponges and absorb them indiscriminately. "The first step for a person to go out is supported by his parents, and the first sentence he says is' Mom and Dad'. The food he ate was given by his parents, and the first punishment was also given by his parents ... Parents also taught their children how to deal with the outside world. Many women will also regard their parents' love as their criteria for choosing a spouse and take what their parents tell them as truth.

If a woman has never got rid of her parents' control, then there will be such a phenomenon in her body-the spokesperson of her parents.

If you want to see a woman clearly, don't go to her house. You can see what this family is like from her habits. A reassuring woman must have a good family, a decent view of love and self-discipline in all aspects of life.

In the TV series Thirty, Gu Jia's mother died a long time ago, and she lived alone with her father. Gu Jia had her period at the age of 14, but she didn't know who to tell. He also pretended that nothing had happened and rode to school. I wanted to say something to my father when I had a stomachache, but I didn't say it. This kind of pain made Gu Jia independent and formed a gap between father and daughter. This is the case in the family. As a child, you can only accept it. Poor families force their daughters to make money early; The habit of hard-working parents giving their daughters hard work; Noisy parents let their daughters say "escape" at every turn; Dress up to reflect the face of the family. .....

Second, learn to speak and see the "horizon pattern". We are used to using "long hair and short knowledge" to describe women. In fact, this is biased. A really good woman will have a big pattern and write poems for her family and far away. Let's see a few women around the rich Guo Taiming. His mother lent money to Guo Taiming to start a business; His wife, Lin Shuru, doesn't mind this "poor boy" at all, and she also takes money from home to supplement her family. Her aunt Huang Qiulian is not only an investor, but also a wealth manager.

In shopping malls, men are red flowers and women are green leaves; At home, women are red flowers and men are green leaves. There is "great power" behind men meeting good women. Look at women's horizons and patterns, and you can understand a thing or two through conversation and analysis of knowledge. Yi Shu said, "A woman with real temperament never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell others what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has bought and what jewelry she has, because she has no sense of inferiority. The more low-key a woman is, the less she talks, and the bigger the pattern, because she has more time to think and observe. A woman who talks big and likes to call names is superficial at first glance.

Third, temper your feelings and see clearly "personal education". Audrey Hepburn, a famous British actor, once said, "The most important thing for a woman is her ability to repair, revive and redeem herself." Hepburn was born in poverty and began to practice ballet since she was a child, but the teacher stubbornly believed that she was too tall and had not learned dance for a long time, which made her lose many performance opportunities. At the suggestion of her brother, she took part in the drama performance. Although she worked hard, she didn't attract anyone's attention. Next, she went on stage and did a walk-on for a long time. To make matters worse, her boyfriend broke up with her. She didn't become famous until she starred in Roman Holiday.

Nancy reagan, the wife of former US President Ronald Reagan, said of her: I don't think many people know that Audrey is quite nervous when she appears in public, but she always ends gracefully. "Put all the joys and sorrows in the bottom of my heart, forget all the emotions, and then concentrate on your work and do yourself well. Such a woman deserves our love. Women who delay work because of their bad temper will make you feel bad. Marrying such a woman will make the family chaotic and the whole family ill-bred.

First, the social circle, see the "emotional boundary" As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. You can know what a woman looks like by looking at the circle she joins. Bad guys are with bad guys, and drinkers will find friends who drink, and showgirls will be connected with dance halls. Environment and people will unconsciously change women's habits, personalities and patterns. The most disturbing thing is that there are many women with male girlfriends around. As the saying goes, "men and women don't give up." Even if the daughter grows up, she should keep her distance from her father, let alone be a male best friend. A woman who has no sense of boundaries will hurt the man who really loves her and lead to a desperate family.