The title of my heart is really in place, and many things just go wrong when you are free to move.
Another film about morality and ethics, people have been thinking all their lives, thinking about many problems in life, such as: why are people alive? what is love ?
This film shows a problem that many people can't choose, that is, when love meets morality, how to choose? Some people don't want to live too tired, but want to be free. Their answer is: follow your feelings. However, there are many people who are shameless about this kind of thing, and transcending moral ethics is tantamount to running counter to morality. Although I live in this world, I think there are still many unanswered questions when I die. What can determine a person's quality? When loyalty and filial piety are in front of us and need to make a choice, how to choose is the right one? What is right? What's the matter?
The most important question in our life: when moral responsibility conflicts with the most important thing in our hearts, how to choose? The most important thing may be the beloved person or the closest person, so how to choose? I remember when I was in the Kangxi Dynasty, Langille wanted to marry Gedan, and Langille didn't want to go, so he ran to Xiaozhuang and cried. Xiaozhuang enlightened her with a sense of honor. At this moment, Langille asked Xiaozhuang a question. What should she do if her husband quarrels with her father? Which side should we stand on? Xiaozhuang said: "At that time, no matter which side you stood on, it was wrong and which side you stood on was right." Yes, there are many times in life when you can't tell right from wrong.
Family ties are always family ties, and love cannot be easily sublimated or extended to family ties. But when love disappears, if it doesn't continue the family relationship, then it disappears forever. There is always one person who gets hurt the most.
When Ricky chose to stay with his wife's sister Diana and chose to deviate from ethics, leave home and give up responsibility in the film, he felt that everything was easy and everything was in broad daylight. For his love, he didn't deny his selfishness. He felt completely relieved. However, his indifference and selfishness shocked and annoyed his wife. My sister thinks that she only got married because of love. She has the right to be angry and ashamed of her, but she hasn't stopped. It makes me feel that it is really representative to interpret this man's selfishness. And Diana, in my opinion, she lives only for love, and nothing else matters. Love is an emotion, but what is it when it is purely a selfish desire without ethical responsibility? I don't know, I don't know. However, when responsibility and morality bind themselves too deeply, they are also very tired. At this time, I feel bored living. What should I do? This time should be moderate. I think this is actually the meaning of the golden mean.
Later, Ricky began to deeply dislike and hate the separation of their own wife and Diana's mother. In fact, Ricky was terminally ill at this time. After the man died, Ricky's wife found that her husband went to the jewelry store to retrieve a bracelet on the day of his death. She thought the bracelet was for herself, but when she found the sentence inside, "I forgive you in this life, and you forgive me." She knew that the bracelet was for Diana, and her husband loved Diana until he died. Later, she also forgave her sister and husband.
It is indeed a film worth understanding and thinking about.