What kind of women do men like? 1, sensible woman Know when to be spoiled and when to cherish him like a child. If he is a student, she will not willfully ask him to skip class and go shopping with her, nor will she let him buy luxury goods without financial resources. If he is already at work, she won't complain that you forgot to call her, nor will she talk to you sweetly when he is upset at work. Even if she is in a bad mood, she will hold you tenderly and stand by him forever. An understanding and knowledgeable woman will not always ask him to give in first. A boy should be tolerant and accommodating, not because she is a woman, but because he is a man. But she will never wait for him to apologize from beginning to end, but will be very careful to spoil him and ask his forgiveness. 3. A beautiful but not frivolous woman. When she meets her friends, she will dress up beautifully but not coquettish, only occasionally wearing hot clothes in front of him. She will always treat him differently from other boys, instead of always showing her beauty to everyone like proud as a peacock. 4. Women with a sense of responsibility In modern times when men are only emphasized to have a sense of responsibility, women should actually have a sense of responsibility. Many women stay with men for power, profit, money and power. They just use their feelings and bodies as tools to exchange what they want. Such a woman is with you for something today, and then she will leave you for something else another day. Dare you have such an irresponsible woman? A good woman should be responsible for herself and others in the face of money and have self-control ability. 5. A self-respecting woman. When a good woman meets a man she likes, she must first get along with him and know whether the other person is suitable for her, and then it will happen naturally with the deepening of her feelings. A woman who sleeps with a man casually, I ask a man, do you dare to marry such a woman? Therefore, when you meet a woman who loves herself, you should take good care of her. There are too few such women. 6. thoughtful women are under increasing pressure in modern society, and men are actually under great pressure to work hard outside. A thoughtful woman should be able to share some pressure for men, at least have her own career and life value, and not blindly rely on men. Women will learn a lot from social life and pressure, making themselves more and more mature, attractive, powerful and brave. A thoughtful woman has self-control in front of money. Yes, who doesn't love money? But it doesn't mean that money has everything. Can you buy true love? Can a relationship and marriage be reliable if it is only based on money? She went with Fu Gui when she was away. Therefore, thoughtful women know what they want, instead of blindly pursuing fame and fortune. 7. Love men. Women who love themselves will not love their own women, and men will not love you. Many women pay a lot for their loved ones in love, but ignore their own existence, and finally get abandoned by men. To some extent, men's change of heart is caused by women. Men are always full of curiosity. No matter how much they love each other in the end, men will only think it is right and will not cherish it for a long time. Therefore, a smart woman must first love herself, cherish her body, cherish her appearance, update and change her appearance from time to time, and make men interested in herself forever. When you meet such a woman, men can't love it or not. 8. Women who have their own space and give men enough space. Such women have their own friends. When they are unhappy, they can talk to their friends. They don't have to throw all their troubles to the other half. The so-called bystander is clear. She also has her own friends of the opposite sex, but she knows her relationship with him very well. She doesn't need her boyfriend's worry, she will clearly grasp the boundaries. 9. The kitchen under the hall is the same, but no matter how the society develops, men still want their wives to be glamorous outside and have a good meal when they go home. But it is not easy for women to do this. 10. A woman who loves her boyfriend is not necessarily the most beautiful woman, not necessarily the most elegant, not necessarily the smartest, but she must love him the most. When he is ill, she will wait and take care of him; Listen to your anger and encourage him when he is upset; Give him selfless care and the greatest help when he needs her. Maybe she's a little nagging, but that's because she loves him! A confused woman. What? First, the perfect woman's love expression: excessive self-denial, self-demand, always correct. Example of a strange woman: a woman with perfect behavior and morality is a natural man killer. Excessive self-denial, self-demand, always right, narcissism in my heart, because I love myself and don't allow myself to make mistakes. Man's way: share the joy of making mistakes with her. As a myth, you can love a fairy, but you can only marry an ordinary woman and go home. Your question is whether you can turn a fairy into a mortal. In fact, life is what needs vulgarity and arbitrariness most. Share the joy of making mistakes with her, share laziness and carefree, and limit her contribution to you to what you can repay. Second, the skeptical face love expression: I like catching shadows, but I deliberately pretend to be generous. Example of a strange woman: general suspicion is only a means for women to flirt, and excessive suspicion may be a mixture of defects and aggression. Women in mobile phones are a little paranoid and hysterical. They are sensitive to deception and think that men are bullying themselves by telling the truth. Man's Way: The most effective strategy is to play dumb, belittle yourself from time to time, and never be self-righteous. Suspicion is often a means of controlling relationships. You should learn "unconditional obedience". Of course, for a guilty man, if he wants to win enough freedom from a suspicious woman, he must keep in mind two principles: principle one: establish necessary rules at the beginning of love, such as not having same-sex friends and not interfering in their own space. Rule 2: Don't have sex too intimately. Keeping a proper distance can protect both her and you. Suspicious women are very sensitive to intimacy. Once a certain love pattern is formed, it must persist for decades. Third, the indifferent face love expression: often addicted to fantasy, will not take the initiative to care about people. Normal information in interactive relationships is often invalid. Example of a strange woman: indifference from hostility is acceptable, hostility can be resolved sooner or later, and indifference will be transformed into warmth. The most worrying indifference comes from extreme narcissism, which is a kind of personality defect, lacking sexual attraction and unable to love. Narcissistic personality is a mud mass without differentiation and no internal structure. It is not angry when it is angry, but unhappy when it is happy. Holding such a woman, you may even feel lonely and cold. You should create some unique communication ways to realize communication between two people. Of course, some very independent women also have a hidden indifference in their deep personality. You can't melt into her heart, touch her or conquer her. Man's way: make simple rules for information and emotional communication to help her feel safe enough. If anger can't be expressed normally, indifference becomes a technology. If you don't want to admit your mistake, pretending not to know is the only countermeasure. Men who can only accommodate warmth but can't bear indifference are not strong men, because they have too much demand for relationships, which is a kind of dependence. Being needed by women is often the self-esteem and happiness of many men. In the face of women who have nothing to want, everyone will be afraid. No desire is rigid, and no desire in the family will make the family lifeless. If she is indifferent to you, it is very important to make simple rules for information and emotional communication to help her feel safe enough. Fourth, the expression of love in the face of passion: sensitive and hysterical, love and hate go hand in hand. Examples of strange women: Dramatic women abound, and each woman has different levels of hysterical emotions. They are suggestive, emotional and exaggerated, pursue sensory stimulation and like to be the focus of attention. Man's way: praise her all the time. Exaggeration, emotional outburst and abuse are several major characteristics of drama personality. It is difficult for you to communicate with her in a normal way because she has many distorted experiences of reality. If she lies, she never wants to lie because she can't tell which is reality and which is imagination. What you have to do is to accept her emotions unconditionally, and don't think she is demanding. It is important to give her a sense of security and praise at all times. Your eternal praise to her is equivalent to giving her diamonds and jewels, and her feedback to you will always surprise you. V. Contradictory faces Love expression: I don't know if I love you, have an affair at random, and then confess everything. For example, strange women: borderline disorder is a unique psychological problem of women, which originated from an introverted or indifferent mother. No matter how hard children try, they cannot form a deep attachment relationship with them. Frustration in intimate relationships makes girls distrust their feelings, emotional instability, irritability, unconscious self-frustration or self-harm. She can't tell whether she wants to be attached to you or leave you, and she lacks emotional control and foresight, so she can't bear anxiety. I don't know if I love you or not, I have an affair at random, and then I confess everything, which makes the people who love her miserable. Man's way: help her find a good psychologist and accompany her for life. Lack of self-boundary is the core of the problem. How to rebuild the border with people and how to identify and manage your emotions are the goals you want to help her achieve. Usually, such a woman needs to accompany a psychologist for life, and it is also one of the flexible ways to help her find a good psychologist. However, most psychologists are afraid to accept clients with marginal obstacles. "They are like children who need breastfeeding forever. If you don't satisfy her, you will never have peace. " Six, excessively clean love expression: Pay attention to the rules in love, everything is step by step. For example, strange women: neat women are always too cautious and live a rigid and stubborn life. This is a kind of love in a condom. Everything is step by step, emphasizing the rules in love and ignoring the fun of creation. Man's Way: Set a clean boundary from the beginning and indulge occasionally. You must make the rules of the game from the beginning. She is willing to lead an honest and clean life and indulge in her own career, but there can be no cleanliness addiction at home. Of course, sometimes you can allow her to turn the bedroom into a clean paradise, just like a child playing house. After everything is clean and flawless, she can experience the dust-free feeling of naked body and mind. Seven, over-reliance on love expression: insatiable for caring, do not hesitate to play the poor. Example of strange women: women's dependence on men has always been respected by the old morality, thinking that the world will be peaceful in this way. But dependence is actually a fear of incomplete personality, excessive obedience to the will of others, long-term experience of helplessness, fear of not being able to take care of yourself, fear of not being able to fulfill promises, and easy to fall into a state of loneliness or abandonment. Serious dependence is manifested as a kind of attachment, hunger and thirst, insatiable love, willing to play the poor person and pestering the loved one with weak control. Man's way: periodic separation. Periodic separation can cultivate her independence, encourage her to get in touch with society and gain good social recognition. Some women are also independent in their careers, but emotionally dependent. When they are with their loved ones, their IQ will immediately drop to zero. Watch out! This dependence is only to control your tactics, and the necessary stupidity can respond to her emotional exploitation of you. Eight, lace complex love expression: simple and persistent, not afraid of male chauvinism. Examples of strange women: lesbianism, a homosexual tendency of women, is becoming more and more common in our society. Women are more likely than men to remain bisexual. They marry and have children, fully realize the physiological functions of women, and at the same time keep secret feelings with the same sex. Man's way: tolerate, wait, and don't let same-sex sex behavior interfere with family life. First principle: tolerance. If you can't stand it, you'd better leave. It is not good to try to change homosexuality. Being gay is her right, and choosing to leave is your right. The second principle: control your own behavior and don't let same-sex behavior interfere with family life; The third principle: wait. When hormones fade with age, children's growth increases family affairs, and most women will voluntarily give up the life of same-sex love. Nine, sadomasochistic complex love expression: anti-social tendency, ignoring rules, little tolerance for setbacks. Examples of strange women: People with potential abusive tendencies often have anti-social tendencies, and their ways of thinking and feelings are somewhat different, such as indifference to other people's feelings, lack of social responsibility, disregard for rules, little tolerance for setbacks, and inability to learn from experience. Man's way: learn stop technology, or give up first. Women often flirt. Don't treat a slight bite, pinch, pinch, scratch or hit as abuse. As long as there is no skin damage, violent abuse cannot be established. All domestic violence has a growing process. In the early stage, we should make it clear that we don't like physical injuries, don't make excuses for each other, or forgive her easily. In order to escalate the conflict, we should learn to stop the technology. There is a premise for the escalation of the conflict, that is, neither side admits defeat. If we feel that the situation is getting out of control, we should take the lead in giving up or leaving. Let the emotions of both sides be buffered. X. Love expression of Oedipus complex: there is a tendency of detachment in sex and inexplicable guilt about bare body. For example, a strange woman will unconsciously seek compensation from you to compensate for her unfinished feelings in the early relationship between father and daughter. Most women who love their fathers tend to be detached in sex, and even feel inexplicable guilt about nudity. They lack creative ability in sex, and it is very natural to be passive or even avoid it. The performance of these loving fathers and daughters may all stem from deep shyness and confusion about sex. Man's way: seduce her so that she can't extricate herself from the real physical pleasure. How to make a woman who loves her father get rid of her confusion about sex is a question of considering your sexual ability. You should play enough male charm to seduce her and let her fall into real physical pleasure. You should praise her performance in sex in time, trigger her inner conflict, and share and resolve it appropriately. On the other hand, you should stop her from turning her loving father into a surrogate mother. Excessive maternal love is the transformation of the complex of loving father. You just need to treat her as a sexy woman and don't create a family-like atmosphere.