As I get older, I am particularly fascinated by shiny things, such as diamonds. Before the Spring Festival, through my baby's 3rd birthday, I imagined that it was not easy for me to be pregnant 10 months, and I worked hard to raise my child. Who has my hardship? Talking too much is the kind of tears. I secretly bought myself a diamond necklace and bought it back to negotiate with my husband. Finally, my husband reimbursed me in full.
Birthdays and wedding anniversaries are coming. My restless heart wants a diamond ring again I want my husband to buy it for me directly this time. Last night, on the way home, I talked with my husband in tears. Finally, my husband said that I would go to Wanda tonight.
Haha, want to know what I said? I want to share my experience with you, hoping to help you sisters.
First explain the family background: married for 7 years, free love, double working class, raising a girl, supporting parents, mortgage 7000 yuan, no car loan. My husband is very careful. He has been on a long business trip recently, and everything at home depends on me.
The first step: care and love, emotional bedding.
Honey, how long will you be back this time?
Leave the day after tomorrow.
Ah, only three days. My baby and I are reluctant to part with you. My baby says he misses his father every day.
I can't help it. The progress of the site project is very tight.
All right. Are you particularly busy? I think you've lost weight and tanned.
Yes, I weighed myself this morning and lost 10 kg.
Huh? How did you lose so much weight? Did you eat badly?
Not bad, just three meals, no midnight snack or anything.
You leave the day after tomorrow, I'll buy you some snacks to take away. I can't do it if I'm always hungry. I am very distressed.
No, it's very troublesome.
Step 2: State the facts and express your feelings.
Honey, you can only come back once on business trip. Everything in the family depends on me. I have to work overtime every night and write my own courseware. Every night after I give my baby a bath and fall asleep, I'm always busy 12. So you can still help me when you are at home. There's really no one to help now. My mother (mother-in-law) is so tired all day that she can't bear to let her continue to help at night. I am really tired.
The third step: put forward the demand and realize the difficulty from difficult to easy.
My baby and I miss you very much. Can I come once a week in the future?
No I really can't leave. You worked hard at home.
Dear, thank you for understanding me. I just want you to spend more time with us.
I want to, but I really can't.
Listen, my birthday is coming. Can you come back? And our anniversary.
We'll talk about it then. I think it's terrible.
(。 . . Don't talk, sad and want to cry. )
See what you want, I'll give it to you.
I don't want anything, I just want you to come back with me.
But I really can't. You can choose any gift this time. We don't care about the details of money.
Step 4: State the purpose and suggest actions.
Let me think about it. I want a diamond ring.
(Husband is stunned) It's too expensive to buy.
We have been married for so many years, and I haven't received a decent gift. I just want a diamond ring this time. It won't be expensive, okay? Husband.
(Husband thinks for a few seconds) Then we'll see.
Ok, we will go to Wanda after work tomorrow. Maybe we can get a discount on 6 18 these days.
Let's talk about it tomorrow.
That's right. Wishes come true.
I wish all my sisters all their wishes come true, my husband loves them, my family is happy and the world is at peace.