Whether it is plain love or passionate love, their essence is the same, and they are the highest realm, that is, "truth, spring and long."

The legend of eternal warmth

Parker, a world-famous actor, has been living a brilliant life for 80 years.

He is a perfect man, and his arrival tells people what eternity is. He is a good husband. If he decides to love a woman, he can accompany her all his life. He tells people with his own behavior that he can succeed in this world without hypocrisy or deception.

Do a little more every day

Doing more work every day can make you stand out from the competition. The secret of success lies in "doing a little more every day"

If you want to be a successful person, you must establish the concept of lifelong learning, not only to learn professional knowledge, but also to constantly broaden your knowledge. Some seemingly irrelevant knowledge will often play a huge role in the future.

If you do more, you sow the seeds of success. How much you pay, how much you get, this is the law of cause and effect, and the return will be unexpected.

Lifestyle change

"People come to this world only once, ups and downs, joys and sorrows. If you don't find something refreshing and don't want to fool yourself, isn't it too tired to live? "

"Heartless, live to be one hundred years old. Have a clear conscience and live not tired. "

"Yesterday has passed, and regret has become history."

"Pursuing science is true, pursuing morality is good, and pursuing art is beautiful."

Kindness and honesty

Sometimes, it is not love that is blind and kind. Stupid stories about kindness, such as farmer Dong Guo and snake, tell people that if your object is a wolf or a snake, kindness means self-destruction, kindness means death, kindness means helping wolves and poisonous snakes, and kindness is an idiot!

When kindness and malice are opposed, malice will not hesitate to reach out to kindness, but kindness is in an undefended or even non-resistant position, and kindness will often be defeated by malice.

Kindness belongs to people, to history, to civilization and to reason.

Kindness is wisdom, foresight, self-confidence, spiritual strength, culture and happiness.

"An upright person is open-minded and poised, while a narrow-minded person is anxious."

Happy proverb

Don't be selfish and expect too much. Be brave in defending your rights and interests. Be friendly and polite to your friends. The most reliable way to pursue happiness is to have the mentality of surpassing others and feel that it is important to be better than others.

Facing the reality, anxiety will never help you to change the reality.

You have the right, but you shouldn't ...

You have the right to be angry, but you should not trample on the dignity of others; You have the right to fail, but don't give up; You have the right to succeed, but not at the expense of others; You have the right to argue, but you shouldn't take revenge as a means.

You have the right to ask for a better life, but you shouldn't cheat today for tomorrow's happiness.

Five abilities to support your good life

Natural ability; B technical ability; C knowledge and ability; Social adaptability; Mental and physical endurance.

Nine steps to happiness

A change the mood of life, treat children's smiles as jewels, and get satisfaction in helping friends.

B control your time, write two pages a day, and then you can write a book.

C enhancing positive emotions can inspire people to forge ahead.

D happy.

Be kind to your friends and spouses.

Don't be idle, but immerse yourself in what you can do with your skills

Participate in outdoor activities.

Have a good rest.

People with faith are happier.

Who is the most important person in our life?

As time goes by, my parents will leave before me, and my children will definitely leave me when they grow up. Only my husband can really accompany me through life.

dismiss with a laugh

Laughing at failures and setbacks is optimistic and confident; Laughing off misunderstanding and hatred is a kind of calm tolerance; Laughing at praise and encouragement is modesty and sobriety; Facing the troubles and worries that have passed away is a kind of calm and relief. Failure and frustration, misunderstanding and hatred, troubles and worries are temporary as long as you are not affected by them. Sunshine always comes after a storm. Don't miss the broken old dreams, don't care about the gains and losses of life. Smile and send away unpleasant clouds, don't let them cover your eyes, and don't deny tomorrow's happiness because of today's pain. Since everything is temporary, why don't we just laugh it off and start over?

Secret of success

Seize the opportunity and stand in the right position. Do what you love, love what you do. Learn to live and don't expect others to thank you. Always be vigilant.

My heart is very calm.

In a noisy and complicated environment, you should be calm as water. Only in calm can you feel happy.

Don't worry about comparing with your neighbors, it will make you miserable or high.

Although your career is insignificant, you should be full of enthusiasm and interest, because only your career is your real wealth.

The tree of spirit should be watered with optimism, and it will give you strength in the face of sudden misfortune.

No matter how difficult it is, no matter how disappointed it is, we should accept it frankly.

Time goes by, youth is gone, but my heart is very calm.

The tragedy of comedians

Or it feels really good, as long as we are walking, we are happy. Enjoy every day of your life. It's also a beautiful day. We should forget those who should be in crisis, remember those who should be remembered, let go of those injuries, let go of those meanness and filth, let go of those warmth, and let go of those friendliness and kindness. Nothing in the world is more precious than friendship, affection and love. They are priceless and gold cannot be exchanged.

When we are alive, we should remember those who helped us in times of difficulty and comforted us in times of pain.

Be a person who tries not to cause trouble to others (including children) unless absolutely necessary.

Sower's seed

The best and most valuable books will take you into a whole new realm after reading them. Such books will arouse new and lofty consciousness, strong desire and pure feelings in our hearts. Such books will push us forward and drive people around us; Such books will wake us up from a deep sleep, free us from the quagmire of confusion and lead us to a life of pioneering life.

Introspection is the responsibility of being a man.

Introspection is not only knowing what you have done, but also knowing your true intentions through it. Plato further said: introspection is the responsibility of being a man. People who have no self-examination ability are not worthy to be human. Only through introspection can people realize virtue and morality.

golden rule

Tell how to be a man: if you want others to be good to you, be good to others first.

The value of dreams

A person should try his best to tap all his potential to realize his dream. Efforts may fail, but giving up means not succeeding at all.

This is heaven and hell.

Letter from Rockefeller, an oil tycoon, to his son: An employer only leaves the opportunity of salary increase and promotion to those employees who are extra hard-working, extra loyal, extra enthusiastic and spend more time doing things.

The highest reward of our efforts is not what we get, but what we become because of it, which makes our work enthusiasm lasting, which is more noble than the desire to collect money. They are engaged in a fascinating career.

Work is an attitude that determines whether we are happy or not. Also a stonemason, he regards this job as a punisher and only knows fatigue; Take this job as a burden, in order to support the family; It is an honor to regard this public as an artistic creator and be proud of this work!

If you regard work as a kind of enjoyment, life is heaven. If you take work as an obligation, life is hell.

What to remember and what to forget.

"Remember your guide, and never forget others' kindness to you; But I don't remember the good things I did. I just try to remember the wrong things I did. This kind of realm and feelings are extraordinary. "

Tolerance is golden.

In life, there are frictions, unhappiness and grievances in the market. We can't point the needle at Maimang, because resentment is like a balloon, which blows bigger and bigger and finally expands out of control. In the face of resentment, we should forget the old evil and forget the new evil. If we can be tolerant, we should be tolerant and forgive others.

Only when people replace hatred with tolerance can they have spiritual peace. Only by tolerating others can we enjoy the beauty of life. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation. Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

Three-character classics

There are three things that must be obtained: motherland, honor and family;

There are three things that must be controlled: mood, tone and behavior;

There are three things to think about: life, death and eternity;

There are three things that must be abandoned: sin, greed and betrayal;

There are three things that must be avoided: laziness, barbarism and ridicule;

Three things must be saved: holiness, peace and happiness;

There are three things that must be respected: perseverance, self-esteem and kindness;

There are three things that must be cultivated: rationality, humility and studiousness;

Be a low-cost person

If you tell a lie, you will pay the price for keeping it. The bigger your lie is, the higher the cost of maintaining it, and it will eventually be exposed. In fact, the lowest cost formula is: be an honest man.

Reflections on readers

When I saw the reader on my colleague's desk, I glanced at it at leisure and saw two articles.

In Liu's Long Kissing Bee, there is a passage that feels the same way: "Life is simple, but it is beautiful. It's good to be alive, especially to be able to love and integrate everything except yourself! Life can be immersed in the realm of self-interest and altruism. Simple freedom is luck and happiness. " Why do others teach for me? I dare not say I like it, but I really feel that I like going to work for no good reason, not because I am melodramatic, but because I like it. Although I want to sleep late every morning, I don't feel any burden when I get up for work. Perhaps I prefer the atmosphere between colleagues and the feeling of class, even if there is smoke in my voice sometimes. It's lovely to see children. I especially like junior children, but I haven't taught them. When I see them, call me "Hello, Teacher Qian!" "I like to watch Zhang Ying's sweet smile when he does exercises every morning without a sense of distance between teachers and students. How nice!

Another article that moved me to tears was Love Inheritance. It tells the story of a father and a daughter, who devoted their whole lives to education so that their children in mountainous areas could go to school. Because of my father's love and desire, I sent my daughter and a group of children out of the mountain. Because of her father's hometown complex, my daughter returned to the depths of the mountains after graduating from normal school, dedicated her best youth to the children in Guanshan, and held up golden hope for the children in Guanshan with hard work and sweat. I can't say whether the story or the author's writing skills touched me, but I was really touched when I read it. Perhaps it is because this materialistic society has so many pure lands of mind, so I was moved. Maybe they are all educators, and they can understand the hardships better, so they feel the same way. But all this is just a little emotion. Maybe after tomorrow, I won't think of this story again. I recorded this only because my heart was touched at that moment. Fortunately, I am not indifferent to all this, and my heart is still soft and clean. Reading readers is a habit. Every time I read it carefully, there will always be countless moments of inspiration for generate. Therefore, for family, for life, for life, for love, there will be all kinds of new understandings at that moment.

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I remember an article "Mother is not a saint", about a daughter of her mother, who was always worried about her mother's trust, until one day, she suddenly realized that only those saints could be truly perfect. And the mother, not a saint, although she loves every child, but it is inevitable that some attend to one thing and lose sight of another. She was completely relieved at the thought.

Therefore, every time I have a small conflict with my mother, I can immediately tell myself that my mother is not a saint, and we can't always hope that she can do exactly as we expect. Besides, how can she do exactly as she expected? So, I was relieved and walked around happily holding my mother's hand.

By extension, the people around us are not saints, and our students are not perfect. Think about it this way, many times, we can all feel relieved.

2

Lin Yutang said: "Life is like a poem". We should learn to feel the beauty of the rhythm of life, like listening to a symphony, and appreciate its main theme, passionate climax and soothing ending. Just as people live in childhood, adolescence and old age, no one can deny that this is a beautiful arrangement.

Yes, these repetitive movements are very similar to our lives, except that everyone has to write their own music. Maybe there will be some staccato or strong notes occasionally, which will make the main theme of life no longer harmonious. Then, please write the next score again quickly.

I wish everyone's life is poetic, elegant and beautiful.

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What is a happy life? A girl with disabled hands who writes life with her feet says that she is the happiest person in the world, because she feels that she has love and will never be disappointed with life with her own efforts. One is healthy and lively, young and beautiful, her shoes are as bright as new, and she loves reading literary works. Even when she drinks tea, her lips are firm and full of longing, but she says, "Where is happiness?" Bullshit! "

There is no happiness. Happiness is not a tangible thing, but something else, a spiritual thing. Only by knowing taste can happiness be grasped.

So, during the winter vacation, I sat by the window preparing lessons, buried myself in it for several hours, and finally finished it at a certain moment. I stood up and opened the window. It happened that it was blue sky and white clouds outside, and the sunshine in winter was so soft. Looking around, I smiled. How happy I am at this moment!

How happy I am when I start to clean the room thoroughly from head to toe, insert my favorite flowers, put on a favorite tape, read the books on the shelf yard by yard, stand neatly, and look at the fruit glistening with water drops on the table! .

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I love tears, but they are rarely sad tears, but more because I am moved. I once showed students a story about a teenager who took care of a single mother by himself. Students are still listening to me with their eyes wide open, but I choked up and couldn't make a sound. The sensible child immediately stood up and took the initiative to help me read on. In that class, the whole classroom was surrounded by a kind of emotion.

Sometimes, reading, reading, don't feel blurred eyes. Turn to another page at once for fear of going any further.

However, some people say, "every move is worth tears." In the article, friends get together and let everyone say something that can touch others. Whoever can make everyone cry has to drink. As a result, one story after another was finished and the wine dried up again and again. Happy! Yes, all the touches are due to the shock from the depths of the soul. All touches come from the depths of the soul. Without true feelings, how can you be moved?

There are so many kind people in life, how can we not be optimistic about life?

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In this way, in the countless days of knowing readers, every moment, that truth, that goodness and that beauty sublimated into a bright moon and a fragrant tea in my heart.