We usually say, "There is such a thing as meddling. There is a kind of heart called caring. There is a kind of good, called not falling behind. There is a kind of favor, call for help!
There is nothing in the world. If too many people are in charge, it will become trouble.
Give others trouble, call you a "stirring stick", disturb yourself and call yourself "trouble".
"Happiness lies in missing one thing, but misfortune lies in worrying too much." Only those who value scarcity can know that scarcity is a blessing, while those who are calm can know that excessive worry is a disaster.
How can you be quiet if you are tirelessly interested in other people's affairs? If you talk too much, you will lose, and if you talk too little, you will avoid disaster.
So learning to shut up is the best accomplishment. Mind your own business, and you will find yourself with many things you can't imagine.
There is a story that we are familiar with and enlightening.
Once, a small country gave the emperor of China three identical golden statuettes, and the emperor was very happy. But at the same time, the small country raised a question: which of the three golden statuettes is the most valuable? The emperor thought of many ways to invite jewelers to check, weigh and watch the works. what should he do ？ The emissary of that small country is still waiting to report back to China. This great country can't even answer this little question, can it Finally, an old minister took out three straws and put them in the ears of three little golden statuettes. One little golden statue's straw came out of the other ear, the second little golden statue's straw came out of his mouth, and the last little golden statue's straw fell into his stomach and didn't come out. The priest said that the last golden statuette was the most valuable, and the messenger nodded approvingly.
The answer is: only the third person knows to shut up, keep what he hears in his heart and rot in his stomach.
It's rotten to the stomach, so keep your heart.
There is a saying: "If you don't trust your heart, it will be a disaster if you believe it", which means that if you can't rot in your stomach, you will hide it. If you say it and tell others to shut up, you will only regret it! It is more likely that you are trembling, walking on thin ice and being in an abyss.
"It's better to stay in the middle than to say too much." If you don't speak carefully, the consequences may be irreparable and terrible. It's better to keep them in your heart.
Learn to shut up, silence is golden!
The simple order of "wise men think first and then say, fools think first and then say" is reversed. It won't shut up, but it may be a fool's remorse and chest beating. It may also be a disaster from the mouth, there is no way out!
Deep water is silent, and people are steady.
Shut up is a kind of accomplishment and personality charm!
Mind your own business, there is nothing wrong with it. Learn to shut up and keep your heart. Only when there is no wave in your heart can you keep quiet, keep healthy and nourish your soul!
Nourishing the heart and calming the nerves is the best health care!