The most important thing in giving gifts is to make people happy, not sad or embarrassed. For example, a man giving a woman a jewelry ring will make her feel embarrassed, but now her husband will make her very happy; On the day of celebration, it is inappropriate to give the host a gift that easily evokes the host's sad memories of the past, and a gift that exposes the hidden secrets in the host's heart, no matter how precious.
Avoiding embarrassment is a gift-giving skill.
Some people visit each other's homes until they leave. When they took out presents at the door, the host refused to accept them out of humility and courtesy. At this time, they are dragging their feet at the door, which is quite embarrassing. How to avoid this situation? When you enter the gate, send a gift after a few pleasantries, so that there will be no embarrassing situation of not accepting a gift because the other party is polite. If you miss the opportunity to give gifts at the door, you might as well give them when the host pours tea after you sit down. At this point, grievances will not interrupt the original conversation, but also add another topic.
A late birthday or a late Christmas has lost its meaning. But on some occasions, it is not necessarily a bad idea to consciously postpone the gift-giving time.
People usually give wedding gifts before accepting invitations and weddings. However, relatives, friends and good friends can say to the bride, "I want to wait until you settle down before giving you a gift, so that I can know what you really need." Is this good? " Girls love it.
Unexpected "surprises" are often arranged in advance. The "safety basket" was sent to the cabin after boarding the ship. When he came back from the trip, a friend would give him a small gift, which would make people feel warm.
Every time you give a gift, you need a new sentence.
Every time you give a gift, you need a novel statement. It is most appropriate to use "famous teacher" to describe the timing of giving gifts. Festivals, birthdays, weddings and other meaningful anniversaries, or when visiting patients, this is the best time to give gifts. Because at these times, giving gifts can make the recipients feel natural and easy to accept.
In western countries, Christmas is the most important festival. At Christmas, naive children will be in high spirits because they receive all kinds of novel toys, thinking that they are gifts from Santa Claus. Adults often give each other books, stationery, chocolate candy or bonsai.
Most visits are flowers and sometimes bonsai. Fragrant flowers bring people the breath of spring, so that patients get spiritual comfort.
When sending friends on a long trip, gifts are often given. Gifts are usually flowers, snacks, fruits or books and magazines. A business card must be attached to the gift to wish him a safe journey.
The time interval of giving gifts is also very particular, and it should not be too frequent or too long. The giver may be well-off or eager for success, so he often delivers big bags and small bags to his door. Some people think that being so generous will definitely win the favor of others, but when you think about it, it is not. Because your frequency of giving gifts is too purposeful. In addition, reciprocity, people must return your favor.
In a word, grasping the right gift-giving opportunity is the key to the art of giving gifts.