Course summary:
If you say yes, you will find a possible way; If you say no, you will find an impossible way. If you believe that the method is always more difficult than the reality, then you will find the method. Do you believe that I always lose my chain at the critical point, and then I will really lose my chain at some point? Your concern equals the fact, and what you care about will become what you are.
Tao only exists when you are away. Tao only appears in the process of walking, and road appears in the process of walking. Don't act until you see the destination.
Things are named after us. One thing, a person gives it a label, and loses other possibilities. We are often taken away by its name and see its essence. When the meaning of a thing itself is not enough, how to name it is very important. In life, we label people all the time, which is what we have been doing. How many labels does everyone have in mind? Stick to them with your own prejudice. We only see labels. It doesn't matter what they are. We should take off all the labels, not for others or ourselves.
This thing has its advantages and disadvantages, right and wrong, yes and no parts, and its advantages and disadvantages. If you find the right reason for this matter, you will find it, and if you find the wrong reason, you will find it.
Everything is right, useful, not useless, and all are shortcomings. You are sure to find something useful for you. Everything will be useful to you, and whatever nourishes you will be the source of your life.
Grass has the use of grass, beech has the use of beech. Which of them is more useful? Great use, little use. Ugliness and beauty, ugliness and ugliness are good, and beauty and beauty are confused. Finding everything that nourishes you and is useful to you is the foundation of a happy life.
I resist three things:
Every time a child does his homework, he always makes a mess of his desk. There is always a fire in his heart, and his voice will ring, clamoring for him to clean up, but every time the child is still the same. One day, the child cried out that he couldn't find the book and said that he had been looking for it for a long time. I asked him to put the items on the table in the corresponding place in the bookcase, and the book naturally appeared. The child looked and smiled. Although the children will still make a mess of the table, it has trained my mind. I am no longer in a hurry to correct my bad behavior, so that I can accept it calmly and face some things that happen here more peacefully, broadening my acceptance range.
In the past, especially when I was with students, I always wanted to show my best in class. But no one is perfect, and there will always be some weaknesses inadvertently exposed. At this time, a student, hands in the air, looked at you with firm eyes. I thought his answer was amazing, but it turned out to be plausible: "Teacher, you wrote this word wrong …" To be honest, what was the fire in my heart at that time? Don't listen to the teacher's questions in class, but find something you shouldn't find? Perhaps, the teacher is more resistant to the students' finding fault. Slowly, I began to accept my children's mistakes in class. I can also thank them for their eyes. I can find other people's mistakes in such a short time, and I can also raise them sincerely to let the children know that teachers make mistakes, not to mention myself. If you make mistakes in time, it is good to correct them, because mistakes are opportunities for learning. Now, I sometimes deliberately make mistakes and say that I can't write this word, so let my children teach me. The atmosphere in the classroom is much more harmonious. When there are small mistakes, people's first reaction may be resistance and argument, so they always don't listen to other people's good words and suggestions. Indeed, from another perspective, we should learn to be grateful for these small mistakes, which is a good opportunity for us to grow.
My husband always browses all kinds of things on love Taobao, and the express parcels at home never stop. Well, sometimes it's really hateful. Fun gadgets, delicious snacks, more fashionable trinkets ... it really costs money like water. However, he always doesn't care much about the shelf life of items. Therefore, every holiday, I always come to my home for a big sweep and throw away the same expired items one by one. However, he can't stand it, and then pick one by one, and some will be taken home by him to hide. As a result, he still didn't have to eat it, and I disposed of it after a while. Recently, every time he takes a shower, he puts on some body lotion. I asked him to use the newly opened bottle this year and wipe it once a week, but he always wipes it with a bottle that has expired for two years every morning. I joked with him the day before yesterday that these expired things have no nutrition, just like expired food has gone bad and the effect is not good. I'll throw it in the trash can right away. As a result, he ran out to get the key to the safe and locked the expired body lotion. Hey, laughing makes my stomach ache. This husband is so cute. I always resist expired goods. I threw it away as soon as I saw it. He can use them at any time. Later, I turned a blind eye. Use it if you want, and save money. I won't use it anyway. Just like the elderly, they are reluctant to wear new clothes and eat good things. They must wait until it is about to expire and children should not eat it. Don't eat it when it is fresh. Be sure to wait until it is broken, and then eat the same after it expires. At first, I couldn't figure out why. In fact, that's what they think. Accept it, understand it, conform to it, and their troubles will be gone.