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Writer Yi Shu said:
"A truly rich man never shows off everything he has. He doesn't tell others what books he has read, what cars he has driven, where he has been, how many clothes he has and what jewelry he has bought, because he has no sense of inferiority. "
Cooked food often weighs down, and wise people often humble themselves. Low-key talents are high but not proud, high but not proud. The so-called "saints are nameless, and the great ones are invisible." Low-key and unpredictable.
The fuller the ear of rice, the lower the head hangs; The more hollow the barnyard grass, the higher the head.
If you pay attention to observation, you will find that the more capable people are, the more disdainful they are to show off, but they are actually doing practical things in a low-key manner.
Low-key is a kind of wisdom, a kind of grace, a kind of accomplishment, and it is the best gesture to be a man. The more incompetent people are, the more they love to show off. They always show their "ability" through superficial luxury and boasting.
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Being bad to others is the mentality of most people.
Most people can sympathize with the weak, but they are hostile to those who are stronger than themselves and hate those who are arrogant.
The ancients said, "A gentleman is clever but does not show his talents."
If a person always likes to show his talents and his Excellence, then he will inevitably suffer a lot of jealousy and rejection. Showing off for a while, sharp-edged, easy to get into trouble; It is a long-term solution that cleverness is overtaken by cleverness.
Low-key will enable you to effectively protect yourself, better integrate into the crowd and live in harmony with the crowd. Therefore, people who know how to hide their strength and be humble are truly wise, who can not only save themselves, but also be accepted by others.
They understand that showing off and making public is actually a sign of self-distrust, and low-key and modesty are the best gestures in life. This kind of low-key, like the bright moon in the depths of the soul, radiates light.
Whether it's scenery or wealth, don't be arrogant. Be modest. Everyone likes it. Only by maintaining a peaceful heart and not being crazy or dry can we reach the height of life.
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There is an old saying: "The low-lying person becomes the sea, and the low-lying person becomes the king."
Water always flows into the sea because of mountains, and mountains do not compete for heights.
Everything about water conservancy is indisputable, because the water is low, so you should learn to keep a low profile like water. Only in this way can you walk more smoothly and broadly.
The wood in the forest is beautiful, and the wind will destroy it; When the bank is higher than the shore, the waves will push the bank. The most taboo of being a man is to get carried away with a little skill and show off in front of everyone.
"A rich family should be generous, but this is a rich and poor family. How can I enjoy it? A wise man should hide and show off, but he is smart and stupid. How to be unbeaten? "
Throughout the ages, successful people actually show a low-key principle.
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Carnegie said:
"The saddest person in the world has no advantages to show off, but covers up his poor inferiority with annoying arrogance and boasting."
Sharp-edged, cold and empty.
A person who looks down on others is also looked down upon by others. In this world, it is a person's best performance not to show off and steal the limelight.
Your happiness is in the eyes of others, so you don't have to show it deliberately. Besides, this is your own life, and there is no need to let others know.
As Jiang Yang said, "We are so eager for the waves of fate that we finally find that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others."
The lower the profile, the better. Smart people are like a cup of tea, which is quiet and indifferent, nourishes the body and mind and makes people more mellow.
Be a low-key, modest and prudent person in order to keep the blessing.