1. Later I realized that if I want to live a simple, comfortable and free life, I must earn enough money to make myself feel at ease, so I spend more time and energy and less time on affectation.
A truly elegant lady never shows off everything she has. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has bought and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority.
3. Positive energy is not heartless, it is not forcing a smile, it is not polluting others to look clean, but the kindness of tears, the belief that a person is brave and the courage to rebuild after being broken.
4. Be sure to live a good life and make money hard, and then you will find that when life is sunny, there is no time to complain, to be melodramatic, to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, to be nostalgic and to be sentimental.
Think about how to make yourself better first. Don't expect to meet the right person all day. You are too young to catch even if you meet. If you are excellent, there will naturally be the right people to stand by you.