Law is a way to protect one's rights, but it doesn't mean that one loses his rights after marriage. This involves the moral concept in marriage. China people's marriage morality is passed down by their families. Not the legal counterpart (you and me).
A paper agreement, after all, is only for gentlemen, not for villains. What to do or not to do depends on the individual. Xiaowen intends to get married recently. Just as she was happily preparing for the wedding, the man's parents asked for a notarization of pre-marital property, and her fiance actually agreed. Xiaowen has been with her boyfriend for three years. Early this year, her family urged her to get married. The man's parents made a down payment and bought them a wedding room in Guangzhou, but they owed 200,000 foreign debts, so they could pay them back after they got married. Xiaowen's family is not rich, but when her parents saw that the man's family made a down payment, they pieced together 6.5438+0.2 million yuan to decorate the wedding room. I only wrote my boyfriend's name on the purchase contract, because I was getting married, so Xiaowen didn't care so much. But yesterday, the prospective mother-in-law asked Xiaowen to do the notarization of premarital property, and her boyfriend agreed, saying that she would slowly pay back Xiaowen's money in the future. Xiaowen feels particularly uncomfortable. She considered divorce before marriage and separation before marriage. This made Xiaowen feel that she was not married for love, but to take advantage of their family. Xiaowen, who has a strong self-esteem, was heartbroken by premarital notarization. Her parents tried to persuade her to break up, but she couldn't bear to part with these years of feelings. Xiaowen is in a dilemma.
There is a good saying that talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money. No matter how good the relationship is, when it comes to property issues, it is hard to talk about it, but in my heart, the crisis of trust is on the verge, and how many loves have died in the notarization of premarital property. Some people think that couples don't need to be so clear, while others think that it is not easy to get married, so it is better to be notarized. Bian Xiao believes that if many years of feelings are wasted just because of a premarital property notarization, then such love is not worth mentioning.
It is our ideal state to get a license when love is strong, but marriage and love are different. You can come and go freely when you are in love, and marriage will involve the interests of both families. Ma Yili said well, love is easy, marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it. Life is always an unknown, and we never know what will happen in the next second. Sometimes love is rock solid, but sometimes it is easy to be defeated by some trivial things. So doing property notarization before marriage is like buying insurance. Just because you buy medical insurance for serious illness doesn't mean you will definitely get serious illness in the future. Similarly, just because you have notarized it doesn't mean that you will definitely get divorced in the future.