Only when one is prepared to accept the worst, can one get real peace.
In this world, sometimes you smile at others, and sometimes you smile at others.
As long as you say what you really mean, it seems that someone in the world will feel the same way.
To really understand a person, just look at how he uses his spare time.
6. The degree of a person's understanding is just equal to the depth of his suffering.
7. I want to have the freedom and courage to be myself.
8. Everything you need in life is not expensive and luxurious, but expensive and simple; Not expensive and rich, expensive and elegant; Not expensive, expensive, expensive and appropriate.
9. Money can destroy humble people, but it can make noble people brave.
10. The first rule to delay aging and develop youth is to avoid all emotional troubles.
1 1. All scientific progress depends on this curiosity. Curiosity is fun, and scientific inventions depend on this interesting word.
12. We can adopt a relaxed and casual attitude towards life: we are not permanent tenants in this world, but just passers-by.
13. Ordinary people can't appreciate the happiness of this earthly life, because they don't love life and make it ordinary, rigid and boring.
14. Marriage is like a carved ship. It depends on how you appreciate it and how you sail.
15. Happiness: First, sleep in the bed at home. The second is to eat meals cooked by parents. The third is to listen to your lover's sweet words to you. The fourth is to play games with children.
16. The ideal person is not a perfect person, usually just a loved and reasonable person, and I just try to get close to it.
17. Life is like this, do it and cherish it. You will always be your own protagonist. Don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.
18. Su Dongpo is dead, and his name is just a memory. But what he left us was inner joy and ideological joy, which is immortal.
20. The freedom of the soul is indeed related to the freedom of the body. If a person can't control his body and mind, he can't control his soul.
2 1. Life is alive. When I was young, I thought I knew everything. When I was in college, I didn't know I knew nothing until I graduated. When people reached middle age, I thought I knew everything. I didn't realize I didn't know anything until my later years.
22. Life is a dream. Man is like a passenger, sailing along the eternal river of time in a small boat. Get on the boat at one place and go ashore at another place so that other passengers waiting on the river can get on the boat.
23. There are no books in the world that anyone must read, just books that must be read at a certain time, place, environment and period of life. I think reading, like marriage, is doomed by fate or yin and yang.
24. China people believe in Confucianism when they are proud, and Taoism and Buddhism when they are frustrated. When their teachings are contrary to their own, China people will say that "man can conquer nature". The crisis of China people's faith lies in their frequent conversion.
Without humor, people's culture will become more and more hypocritical, people's lives will become more and more fraudulent, people's thoughts will become more and more pedantic, people's literature will become more and more dry, and people's hearts will become more and more stubborn.
26. Love spring, but too young. I love summer, but I am too arrogant. So I love autumn best, because the leaves in autumn are golden, mature and colorful, but with a hint of sadness and death.
27. Art should be a satire, a warning to our insensitive feelings, lifeless thoughts and unnatural life. It teaches us to be simple and sincere in a pretentious world.
28. Women have superior common sense than men, so I am always more willing to trust women's judgment when any accident happens. They have the ability to care about the integrity of things without being confused by other parts.
29. A writer's pen is like a shoemaker's cone. The more times you use it, the sharper it will be, and it will be as sharp as a sewing needle later. But his concept will be more and more extensive, just like a person's mountaineering and sightseeing. The higher he climbs, the farther he sees.
30. All animals look happy, because their needs are met by nature, otherwise they will be eliminated by nature. Because human beings have more complicated needs and want to explore the purpose of life. This insatiable desire is the biggest reason why human beings cannot be happy.
3 1. Those who are capable, intelligent, ambitious and arrogant are also the most cowardly and confused people, lacking the courage, profundity and intelligence of humorists. They are always dealing with trivial things. They don't know that a more open-minded humorist can cope with great things.
Finding a small pearl in the ashes is more pleasant than seeing a big pearl in the window of a jewelry store.
33. Dad often tells me that he has witnessed the rise of many poor families and the decline of many rich families. He told me that the most important thing is not to rely on money. People should enjoy wealth and prepare for life when they lose it.
34. Take the word loneliness apart. There are children, melons, puppies, mosquitoes and flies, which are enough to prop up an alley in the midsummer evening and are full of human feelings. Young children hold melons and willows under the shed, and fine dogs chase butterflies in narrow lanes. The world is bustling and full of laughter, but there is a breeze on my temples. Children's fruits, cats, dogs and flies are certainly lively, but it has nothing to do with you. This is called loneliness.
35. Educated people or people with ideal education are not necessarily knowledgeable people, but people who know what they love and hate.
36. A fever with a clean heart, clear thinking and no unnecessary emotions and delusions will bring people a sense of security. Because he doesn't hurt people or himself. Don't make trouble and don't disturb others. To some extent, this is a proverb.
Where people come from, let alone where their hometown is. Let nature take its course, the world is full of flowers.
38. Love yourself first, then love others. If you forget to love yourself, you will eventually be forgotten by others.
39. If you don't see through the great sadness of life, where will Xiao Xi come from?
40. The meaning of reading is to make people more open-minded, knowledgeable, unsophisticated and paranoid. Reading can not only enable us to master certain professional skills, but more importantly, we can see the direction to solve various life problems. A person's life is nothing more than constantly exploring what meaning his life should have.
Lin Yutang (1895 65438+ 101March 26th, 976), a native of Longxi, Fujian, is a famous modern writer, scholar, translator, linguist and representative of Neo-Taoism in China.
Lin Yutang studied in the United States and Germany in his early years and obtained a master's degree in literature from Harvard University and a doctorate in linguistics from Leipzig University. After returning to China, he taught in Tsinghua University, Peking University and Xiamen University. 1945 went to Singapore to set up Nanyang University as the president. Lin Yutang was nominated by Nobel Prize in Literature twice in 1940 and 1950.
If you look farther, you won't be sad.
1. If you look farther, you won't be sad.
Only when one is prepared to accept the worst, can one get real peace.
In this world, sometimes you smile at others, and sometimes you smile at others.
As long as you say what you really mean, it seems that someone in the world will feel the same way.
To really understand a person, just look at how he uses his spare time.
6. The degree of a person's understanding is just equal to the depth of his suffering.
7. I want to have the freedom and courage to be myself.
8. Everything you need in life is not expensive and luxurious, but expensive and simple; Not expensive and rich, expensive and elegant; Not expensive, expensive, expensive and appropriate.
9. Money can destroy humble people, but it can make noble people brave.
10. The first rule to delay aging and develop youth is to avoid all emotional troubles.
1 1. All scientific progress depends on this curiosity. Curiosity is fun, and scientific inventions depend on this interesting word.
12. We can adopt a relaxed and casual attitude towards life: we are not permanent tenants in this world, but just passers-by.
13. Ordinary people can't appreciate the happiness of this earthly life, because they don't love life and make it ordinary, rigid and boring.
14. Marriage is like a carved ship. It depends on how you appreciate it and how you sail.
15. Happiness: First, sleep in the bed at home. The second is to eat meals cooked by parents. The third is to listen to your lover's sweet words to you. The fourth is to play games with children.
16. The ideal person is not a perfect person, usually just a loved and reasonable person, and I just try to get close to it.
17. Life is like this, do it and cherish it. You will always be your own protagonist. Don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.
18. Su Dongpo is dead, and his name is just a memory. But what he left us was inner joy and ideological joy, which is immortal.
19. Su Dongpo is clever in big things and confused in small things. But life is often made up of many small things, while big things are few and long-lasting.
20. The freedom of the soul is indeed related to the freedom of the body. If a person can't control his body and mind, he can't control his soul.
2 1. Life is alive. When I was young, I thought I knew everything. When I was in college, I didn't know I knew nothing until I graduated. When people reached middle age, I thought I knew everything. I didn't realize I didn't know anything until my later years.
22. Life is a dream. Man is like a passenger, sailing along the eternal river of time in a small boat. Get on the boat at one place and go ashore at another place so that other passengers waiting on the river can get on the boat.
23. There are no books in the world that anyone must read, just books that must be read at a certain time, place, environment and period of life. I think reading, like marriage, is doomed by fate or yin and yang.
24. China people believe in Confucianism when they are proud, and Taoism and Buddhism when they are frustrated. When their teachings are contrary to their own, China people will say that "man can conquer nature". The crisis of China people's faith lies in their frequent conversion.
Without humor, people's culture will become more and more hypocritical, people's lives will become more and more fraudulent, people's thoughts will become more and more pedantic, people's literature will become more and more dry, and people's hearts will become more and more stubborn.
26. Love spring, but too young. I love summer, but I am too arrogant. So I love autumn best, because the leaves in autumn are golden, mature and colorful, but with a hint of sadness and death.
27. Art should be a satire, a warning to our insensitive feelings, lifeless thoughts and unnatural life. It teaches us to be simple and sincere in a pretentious world.
28. Women have superior common sense than men, so I am always more willing to trust women's judgment when any accident happens. They have the ability to care about the integrity of things without being confused by other parts.
29. A writer's pen is like a shoemaker's cone. The more times you use it, the sharper it will be, and it will be as sharp as a sewing needle later. But his concept will be more and more extensive, just like a person's mountaineering and sightseeing. The higher he climbs, the farther he sees.
30. All animals look happy, because their needs are met by nature, otherwise they will be eliminated by nature. Because human beings have more complicated needs and want to explore the purpose of life. This insatiable desire is the biggest reason why human beings cannot be happy.
3 1. Those who are capable, intelligent, ambitious and arrogant are also the most cowardly and confused people, lacking the courage, profundity and intelligence of humorists. They are always dealing with trivial things. They don't know that a more open-minded humorist can cope with great things.
Finding a small pearl in the ashes is more pleasant than seeing a big pearl in the window of a jewelry store.
33. Dad often tells me that he has witnessed the rise of many poor families and the decline of many rich families. He told me that the most important thing is not to rely on money. People should enjoy wealth and prepare for life when they lose it.
34. Take the word loneliness apart. There are children, melons, puppies, mosquitoes and flies, which are enough to prop up an alley in the midsummer evening and are full of human feelings. Young children hold melons and willows under the shed, and fine dogs chase butterflies in narrow lanes. The world is bustling and full of laughter, but there is a breeze on my temples. Children's fruits, cats, dogs and flies are certainly lively, but it has nothing to do with you. This is called loneliness.
35. Educated people or people with ideal education are not necessarily knowledgeable people, but people who know what they love and hate.
36. A fever with a clean heart, clear thinking and no unnecessary emotions and delusions will bring people a sense of security. Because he doesn't hurt people or himself. Don't make trouble and don't disturb others. To some extent, this is a proverb.
Where people come from, let alone where their hometown is. Let nature take its course, the world is full of flowers.
38. Love yourself first, then love others. If you forget to love yourself, you will eventually be forgotten by others.
39. If you don't see through the great sadness of life, where will there be Xiao Xi?
40. The meaning of reading is to make people more open-minded, knowledgeable, unsophisticated and paranoid. Reading can not only enable us to master certain professional skills, but more importantly, we can see the direction to solve various life problems. A person's life is nothing more than constantly exploring what meaning his life should have.
Lin Yutang (1895 65438+ 101March 26th, 976), a native of Longxi, Fujian, is a famous modern writer, scholar, translator, linguist and representative of Neo-Taoism in China.
Lin Yutang studied in the United States and Germany in his early years and obtained a master's degree in literature from Harvard University and a doctorate in linguistics from Leipzig University. After returning to China, he taught in Tsinghua University, Peking University and Xiamen University. 1945 went to Singapore to set up Nanyang University as the president. Lin Yutang was nominated by Nobel Prize in Literature twice in 1940 and 1950.
If you look farther, you won't be sad.
1, in this bizarre world, no one can live like flowing water. But I always believe that those who have experienced all kinds of disasters and tasted all kinds of tastes will be more lively and clean after walking through Pinghu misty rain and years of mountains and rivers. Time is always a bystander, and all the processes and results need to be borne by yourself.
2. Sometimes, it's raining outside, but the sun is shining in my heart; Sometimes, it is sunny outside, but it is raining. There are many things in the world for you to taste in comparison. The heart is clear, and the rain is clear; When the heart is raining, sunny is also rain.
Not all dreams can be realized in time, and not all words can be told to you in time.
4. Being ignorant of the world is the kindest maturity.
Those who giggle with you when you laugh are either really stupid or true love.
6. People meet and leave. Some people meet and only leave for a while. Some people, meeting and parting, are as long as life. Fortunately, I loved you when you were young.
7. If you look farther, you won't feel sad.
8. How to spend the low tide of life? Wait quietly; Have a good sleep; Exercise requires good health at all times; Chatting with intimate friends, basically not complaining, mainly remembering happy times; Read more books, read some biographies, increase your knowledge, and see how others survive when they are unlucky; Take the opportunity to do housework and finish all the busy work at ordinary times.
9. Every rose has thorns, just like everyone's personality has parts that you can't tolerate. Caring for each rose is not to eradicate its thorns, but to learn how not to be stabbed by her thorns and how not to let your own thorns hurt others.
10, people are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute.
1 1, first think about how to make yourself better. Don't expect to meet the right person all day. Even if you do, you are too young.
12, nothing is eternal, life, gains and losses are impermanent, no matter how beautiful, you can't have it for too long. No matter how painful it is, it will leave you. What you have experienced is cultivation; Looking back when we are far away, we will find that all this will make us strong and sober. If the edge is close, it will gather, and if it is destroyed, it will disperse; Don't cling to suffering, don't cling to pleasure; Don't be sad about the past, don't be greedy for the future, and live in every moment with peace of mind.
What do you mean by inner strength? You can live in peace with those bad things, but don't agree. Keep working for good things, but don't worry about failure or failure.
14, that obsessed person was just a name later; What I thought I couldn't get through was just the story of the future. Dear friend, may you never be afraid of time and heal yourself.
15, I know the feeling of smallness and insignificance. Even if I am black and blue, I will pretend to be strong. No matter how to change a few new hairstyles, go to the gym or drink white wine with my sisters, I still think about every detail day and night. I want to know what I did wrong and misunderstood. Finally, ask yourself, how can you mistake temporary happiness for permanent happiness?
Modal phrase: If you look farther away, you won't feel sad.
1, if you have been thinking about someone, just think silently in your heart. Don't bother yourself and don't let others know! Missing is actually a beautiful enjoyment.
In this complicated world, you may never see how much suffering, pain, spiritual struggle and torture a gentleman has gone through to make him look born strong. Every polite person has an unknown other half. Please don't force his other half out. To leave space for others is to leave character for yourself.
3. If you always only read books that are in line with your ideas, you will always only know what you already know.
4. Some people left and left. Gradually, life will become no different, as if that person has never disappeared, but has never appeared. This is what we hope and must admit. It turns out that we are not that important. It turns out that we are not unforgettable. We are all the same in front of time.
If someone throws a stone at you, don't throw it back. Make it the cornerstone of your tall building.
6. Everyone has to go through a period of time as a stepping stone. Even if his teeth itch, he still has to say "yes" with a smile. The world is full of jungle laws, and unfair people can't change it, and they are not qualified to complain about unfairness. We always say "yes" so that one day we can finally say "no" with confidence! Saying "no" needs accumulation.
7. Whenever there is nothing we can do, we like to say let nature take its course.
8. Try to please everyone and maintain a relationship every day, but in the end, it's not that person you try to please or the relationship you need to maintain every day. One truth remains the same: only when you practice by yourself will others kiss you. I am a buttonwood, and the phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, and all rivers will come back.
9. Don't hesitate, don't struggle. It will be peaceful if you go far away. If you stand tall, you will know how to choose. Growing up in injury is youth.
10, what you think is natural may be a great challenge to others, and what you think is melodramatic may be painful and helpless to others. Don't laugh at a person easily, and don't deny others' efforts easily, unless you are in it and can't understand each other's feelings and experiences, how can you know the taste?
1 1. Don't underestimate those who are never known. Maybe they are all working hard silently. Finally, others have realized their dreams, and you are afraid that you have failed yourself.
12, no matter how you are, don't look sad, don't tell everyone how miserable you are, no matter how good you are, you will always be alone, no one will help you, others are just sympathetic, and even it is difficult to feel the same. Life is full of difficulties, learning to be strong is your skill.
13, good luck, if not, I wish you learn to sympathize in misfortune. May you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness.
14, my future, there is a house, not too big or facing the sea, French windows, sunshine outside the window; There is a beloved lover, we cook together, drive to the park on weekends, and can accompany our parents several times a year; Have a job, 4M broadband, SLR, books to read and songs to listen to; Friends come to get together occasionally, playing cards and drinking to catch up, so they are very happy.
15, burden, if you can afford it, it's a gift, if you can't afford it, it's a burden; Pressure, persistence is growth, and persistence is suffering.
16, people who know how to make concessions are smart and take the initiative to decide the direction of the situation in their own hands. In the Anti-Japanese War, if you win face, you lose mutual affection. People who always stick to the end are lonely. Bend over is not to admit defeat, but to pick up lost happiness. -Su Qin
17, when dealing with people, we should remember three words: look at people's strengths, help people's difficulties, and remember people's benefits.
18, people, what are you kidding? Don't lie to your true feelings. Whoever cheats the true feelings will eventually be abandoned by the true feelings. Don't cheat your conscience, no matter what you cheat. Whoever deceives your conscience will eventually be abandoned by it. Don't cheat your friends, no matter what you cheat. Whoever cheats his friends will be spurned by them in the end. Don't cheat the society, no matter what you cheat. Whoever deceives society will eventually be abandoned by society.
19, many things, we finally failed, not because of lack of ability and luck, but because we were unwilling to pay the price.
20. If you look farther, you won't feel sad. -Lin Yutang