When there are no two treasures and three treasures, I am still a careless person when I treat my children.

Because when I had my eldest daughter, I was very young. Although I love her very much in my heart, I really haven't been so eager and patient with my children as I am now.

It's similar to tucking the child in several times at night. The child is sick, staying up late to watch her, and then it's okay. I used to be inconsiderate, impatient and impatient. ...

With Bauer, I began to become gentle and delicate. Every day during pregnancy, I keep a diary and sometimes even chat with the baby in my belly.

At that time, I often felt that giving birth was simply the greatest thing in the world. The whole process of pregnancy feels like being in a "dream", full of happiness and joy, and all the hardships are forgotten.

2.

After having the three treasures, although it was not as pleasant as when having the two treasures, it was originally planned to have two children.

This unexpected child, before she was born, I put more energy into my two treasures, but at the moment she was born, I saw such a beautiful face in the world and such a beautiful and magical life came because of me, and I suddenly began to have a flood of maternal love!

Watching her every little change and growth every day can give birth to a lot of affection and tenderness. I was so happy when I first knew that I loved her deeply, and even began to be a little "cautious".

Every time I take you out, I will try my best to dress you up beautifully, because you are like a fairy, and every time you go out, you will attract the envy of many passers-by. Everyone praises you for your good skin and all kinds of cuteness. Some people say you are twins, others call you "little sisters". This is your mother's happiest moment!

Walking on the road, I will always watch the car from side to side, and I won't even let you run on the road, and you can't leave my sight for one meter.

After reading the news that some children are "missing", I don't like any strangers from unknown sources to talk to you too much.

Once, because an aunt insisted on holding the baby, I was so scared that I ran away with the baby. ...

You are like a precious treasure. I'm afraid you will suffer a little harm and misfortune. All the things I used to think were precious: money, career, gold and jewelry, which are less than one thousandth of yours!

3.

Once my second sister accidentally broke one of my beeswax pendants. That's a pendant that I like very much. It weighs about 20 grams. I was a little angry at that time, but when I saw my second sister's innocent eyes and panicked expression after doing something wrong, suddenly that anger turned into a soft finger.

So he said to himself, "If it is broken, it will be broken. Anyway, there are so many necklaces, and it doesn't matter if one is missing. "

Second sister is particularly naughty, holding her mother's favorite lipstick many times. Dior and MAC drew a big face for themselves, but they also made the walls of their home shocking.

Just got off work, not angry. I used to give my children a loud reprimand or a good beating, but I actually had to calm down 10 minutes before I started talking to my second sister.

You taught me to take a deep breath when you are in a mood, and it's not too late to calm down.

After calming down, I will patiently tell you what is wrong with this matter, why it is wrong, and why children can't wear lipstick and cosmetics. ...

As for the wallpaper and all the furniture that she "hurt", I even discussed with my husband that it is ok to change it when they grow up, and your childhood is just this once, isn't it?

My second sister always likes painting, especially princesses, but all the princesses she draws are very tall. My mother often "corrects" her, but I always stop my mother: "Have you ever seen a fairy? Probably all this high. You don't understand. My second sister draws a princess in the sky. "

Encouraged, she likes painting more and more, and the more she paints, the better.

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Some time ago, my grandmother often took a scooter from Sambo to the kindergarten to pick up her children. After going there once, I found too many pedestrians and cars on my way back. I was afraid to follow the Sambo all the way. Seeing a bicycle and motorcycle next to him, he shouted to the child to stop. Since then, I have resolutely refused to let my grandmother go to school by scooter, and I have criticized her for this.

But something happened last month, and now that I think about it, it scares me.

I took Sambo out to play. At the elevator entrance, Sambo advanced into the elevator. Before my grandmother came, I waited for her by the elevator. Who knew the elevator suddenly closed?

I heard the child crying, and I was very sad. I quickly pressed another elevator. After getting on the elevator, I spent the longest two minutes in my life. I've been worried that someone stole the child on the road. What should I do? What if the child is taken away on the first floor?

Although there are cameras on the first floor ...

I knew it was useless to worry, so I quickly recited "South Avalokitesvara". I believe I was absolutely religious!

On the first floor, I saw Sambo crying loudly in the elevator. There were several adults in the elevator waiting for my arrival while comforting her. One of them turned out to be my neighbor.

"Thank God!" I hold you as if I were holding a lost treasure. How much I regret letting the child enter the elevator alone. I have told my children countless times, "I'm sorry, you are not allowed to enter the elevator before mom comes in, okay?" In case you get into the elevator, firstly, don't cry, and secondly, be sure to wait for me on the first floor. No, there is no one thousand, next time I don't go in, you are absolutely not allowed to go in ... "

Anyone who has been a mother knows how nervous a mother is in the face of unexpected situations!

5.

Whenever I sleep at night and look at your cute little faces, I can't help kissing you. When my grandmother was here, Bauer slept with her all the time, and Sambo became the darling of her mother and monopolized her for many years.

Therefore, she is particularly arrogant, particularly angry and loves to lose her temper. She always pouts and cries loudly. Her tears are more frequent than showers in July.

However, I still love you so much, love your smile, love your unreasonable troubles and tears.

I can't help it You are so cute. Even if you cry, I like it. I sometimes comfort myself by saying: You cry one by one is a concert!

Of course, as a mother of three children, I sometimes get annoyed, scold you, and get beaten if I make a big mistake. I know very well that conniving at children is a burden to society.

But that time is very little. I gave you all my good temper and bad temper. Only your father is my punching bag. ...

I often think: I don't know what kind of fate we had in our last life. I will be your mother all my life, but I believe you all come to me to "pay your debts" and "repay your kindness".

Buddha said: "The so-called parents and children can't come without debts and enmity."

Those children who pay their debts are especially sensible and filial, and those who want revenge will be particularly ignorant, which will hurt their parents' hearts, and some will hurt their parents' hearts for life. Parents in debt, children in debt, and even leave this world. ...

I have been kind all my life. Although sometimes you have to make trouble without reason in language, it is absolutely more good than evil to the people around you.

Although I love "making money" and persist in my career, I have always been charitable and enthusiastic about public welfare, and I have helped countless people all my life. Many times, I look down on money and fame. "Weak water is 3,000, I only take a scoop of water." As I grow older, I realize more and more: those who are satisfied are rich, and those who are satisfied are expensive!

All my efforts in my work and career are only to make my children and parents live a happier and decent life and have more ability to help others!

Because I study Buddhism, no ant will hurt me. I just hope to return all the accumulated virtues to all my relatives and friends around me, as well as my family and children. It's best to be safe in this life!

"The way of the university, Mingde, close to the people, ends with perfection." -"The Doctrine of the Mean in University"

Many people will say, "Your three daughters will be very lucky in the future. When they grow up, one will buy you clothes and the other will take you on a trip ... "

I responded with a smile: "Why wait until they grow up to be happy? I am very happy now. Looking at them and raising them every day is the happiest time in my life. "

As for how they treat me well when they grow up, I don't want to think about it at all. I didn't even dare to think about it after I got married and started a family. I enjoy the gentleness and innocence of the child at this time. I'd rather this moment is eternal.

Besides, I raise you and educate you, not for how good you will be to me in the future, because even in the distant future, I will still have a lot of fun to explore and complete, and I will still live a wonderful life.

There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching that can also be used in education, that is:

"Being born with nothing, walking without relying, and growing without killing, is called Xuande."

I am Zhidan, a senior yoga teacher for more than ten years, a personal trainer for physical and mental healing, and a tea artist. At the same time, she is also an amateur writer, a mother of three children, and a post-80 s generation who loves to write poems and dreams!