So what is the story of this proverb? Is it true that a dog bit Lv Dongbin? What is its allusion? Don't worry, Shujun will take you to understand.
In fact, this allusion happened between Xun and Lv Dongbin.
Legend has it that Lv Dongbin is one of the Eight Immortals. Before he became an immortal, Lv Dongbin was a child of a rich family, so Lv Dongbin's family was very rich.
At that time, he had a good friend named Xun Xiang, and they grew up together. But Xunxiang's family is very poor and life is very bitter.
Unforeseen things happened. Xun Xiang's parents died when he was a teenager. Xun Xiang suddenly became an orphan, and nobody cared.
At this moment, Lv Dongbin said, "Why don't you just come and live in my house, where you can eat, drink and study." Xunxiang really had nowhere to go, so he lived in Lv Dongbin's house.
Xun Xiang is talented and really good at reading. Seeing that scientific research is about to be held, Lv Dongbin also thinks that Xunxiang will definitely be the top scholar in the examination.
But at this time, a distant relative of Xiang Xiang came to find Xiang Xiang, saying that Xiang Xiang was too old to get married. He introduced a marriage to Xun Xiang and told him to get married at once.
This Lv Dongbin is very disapproving. He believes that Xunxiang should study hard at this time and should not be distracted by anything.
But Xun Xiang doesn't think so. He was young, and when he heard that the other party was also very knowledgeable and beautiful, he felt good and agreed to this marriage.
Lv Dongbin couldn't stop Xun Xiang, and there was nothing he could do.
But on the wedding day in Xunxiang, he put a sword around his neck and said, I gave you the bride price and arranged your wedding. It can be said that I married your daughter-in-law, so I asked to stay with your daughter-in-law for three nights first.
These days, you should go to the west wing to study. If I don't do this, I will kill myself.
Xun Xiang was very angry at Lv Dongbin's unreasonable demands. But he is his only good friend and has supported himself for so many years, so he gritted his teeth and agreed.
In the evening, the bride happily waited for the incense to lift the red veil, but she didn't expect this "incense" to read a book in the next room all night, so the bride could only sleep in her clothes.
By the time the bride wakes up, this "incense" is long gone. For three days.
Three days later, Xun Xiang came home and met his bride, but the bride looked very sad. She told the story of these days.
Xun Xiang knew at this moment that Lv Dongbin didn't go into the house to touch his wife, but read the letter in the next room all night.
Lv Dongbin didn't let himself stay with his wife for three days, for the sake of his future, fearing that he would delay his studies because of lewdness.
Knowing Lv Dongbin's difficulties, Xun Xiang studied harder.
A few years later, Xun Xiang finally won the highest award and took office with Lv Dongbin. Then a fire broke out in Lv Dongbin's house, and the property in the house was hardly burned.
His family can only live in a thatched cottage. At this moment, Lv Dongbin thought of Xun Xiang, so he went to Xun Xiang's house for help.
After Lv Dongbin explained his purpose, Xunxiang didn't say anything. He has just entertained Lv Dongbin with delicious food.
Lv Dongbin lived in Xiangqin's house for a month, but when he saw that Xiangqin lacked help, he felt particularly ungrateful and left in a rage.
When Lv Dongbin returned home, he saw from a distance that his family had built a new house, but there was a blank sheet of paper on his door.
What's going on here? Lv Dongbin hurried in to find out. As a result, he saw his wife crying in front of a coffin.
Lv Dongbin quickly asked his wife what happened. When she saw him, she was startled and didn't tell Lv Dongbin the truth until she knew the reason. It turned out that shortly after Lv Dongbin left, someone came to build a house for them.
Later, two days ago, another coffin was delivered, saying that Lv Dongbin died in Xunxiang's home.
Lv Dongbin was very angry when he heard this. What tricks did Xun Xiang play? He dared to tease my family. He angrily found an axe and split the coffin.
After splitting, I saw that the coffin was full of gold, silver and jewels with a letter on it.
The letter wrote: "I am Xun Xiang, not an ungrateful person. The house and the gold and silver are for you. When you left my wife alone for three days, today I will let your wife cry for three days. "
It turns out that Xun Xiang played a joke on Lv Dongbin, which was also a punishment for the newlyweds in Lv Dongbin.
This is the story of two people, so how did the dog bite Lv Dongbin?
It turns out that this story was written by people at that time, but people at that time wrote it in ink, so after a long time, you copied it and erased it, and some words became unclear. Xun Xiang's Xun lost a horizontal line and became a "Gou".
And incense has become a "space" because it lacks a horizontal copy. In this way, "Xun Xiang and Lv Dongbin didn't know how to win the hearts of the people" became "you went to Lv Dongbin and didn't know how to win the hearts of the people".
Because the homonym "dog bites" has been around for a long time, people have called it "dog bites Lv Dongbin, I don't know what to do".
It turns out that the original intention of this sentence is not that a dog bites Lv Dongbin, but that a dog bites Lv Dongbin, just because the word "dog bites" is homophonic.
In modern times, people often regard it as a mantra, mocking those who are ungrateful and bite the hand that feeds them.
The dog bit Lv Dongbin, but they didn't know what to do. This is indeed a very common thing in modern times. For example, if there is a dispute, some people will discourage it out of kindness.
But some parties do not accept this feeling, and even scold those who are kind enough to dissuade them. There are also fights, and sometimes they are excited to fight those who have stopped fighting. This isn't a dog biting Lv Dongbin.
In fact, when people are depressed or emotional, it is really difficult to control themselves. But in any case, if someone helps you, you should calm down and sort out your thoughts and listen to other people's suggestions.
In this way, the situation will not get worse and worse, so that everyone can completely calm down and think about the gains and losses of this matter.
If you are madly immersed in the event, you can only end up injured and the people who help you are unhappy.
Others help themselves, no matter what the result is, they should be grateful, because this is also a basic principle of being a man.
Those who turn a blind eye to those who help themselves, but bite the hand that feeds them, should really reflect on their behavior. Because this kind of behavior not only hurts oneself, but also hurts those who help themselves.
After that, who will kindly help you when you are in trouble?
Therefore, I hope the dog bites Lv Dongbin, I don't know that good things will happen less. Give yourself more time to think and be more polite and grateful to those who help. This is a good model of harmonious relationship.