There is a coefficient center in psychology called "optimistic coefficient" or "pessimistic coefficient", which accounts for 20% of the actual phenomenon. That is to say, if a person is optimistic, his chances of encountering happy things will be 20% higher than usual. On the contrary, if a person is depressed, his chances of encountering painful things will be 20% higher than ordinary people. In that case, why don't we treat life with a happy heart?
Be happy. Don't be too persistent. Let go of your habit forever. Our parents often teach us that "shrimp is better than fish" and "there is no fish in this stream, so don't fish in another stream". If a person can't let go, with one foot in the threshold and one foot outside, or holding a bird tightly for fear that it will die, it will be sad if it is loose, just like "a tailor has worn out clothes and a carpenter has no bench to sit on".
There is a story in the Buddhist scriptures: there was a poor man who went to a friend's house and was very rich. After entertaining the poor to eat and drink, he sewed many jewels into his clothes and gave them to him when he was resting. But the poor man woke up and left without saying goodbye to his friend, so he didn't know there were many jewels in his clothes. The poor continue to live in poverty and still wander around like beggars. Until one day, he met his friend in the street, and his friend told him that there were many jewels sewn in his clothes, and the poor people suddenly realized.
People who can't let go, obviously rich, live like beggars, just like the poor man in the Buddhist story who didn't know that his clothes contained a lot of jewels.
We must first have a happy heart, and then we should always be grateful and share our happiness with others, just like the great teacher of Zen in the past.
For example, before he became a monk, a monk in Longtan believed in Zen master and set up a stall next to Zen master Daowu's temple to make a living by selling cakes. Taoist Zen master saw that his life was very hard, so he gave him a small room to live in in the temple. Chongxin gave him ten cakes a day to show his gratitude to the Taoist Zen master. Whenever Chongxin gave the Zen master ten cakes, the Zen master was always happy to accept them, and then when Chongxin came back, he took out one of the ten cakes and returned it to Chongxin. This situation lasted for two years. Later, Chongxin finally couldn't help asking Master Wu, "Since I really gave you the cake, why should I return it to me every day?" The Zen master said, "You can send me ten cakes every day. Why can't I send you a cake every day? " ? Thank you, too! "Chongxin heart suddenly enlighted.
As the old saying goes, "If you share food with others, there will be surplus food. If you grab each other's food, you won't have enough to eat. " "Don't think that all the money is earned by individuals, and everyone has money to earn, so that they won't be poor." "Eating a kilo of people is only four or two people, and the dripping water is rewarded by the spring." "Eat fruit, worship trees, eat rice and respect hoes."
It is normal to encounter unpleasant things in the course of life. No one will be happy all his life. It is important not to let that unpleasant thing become the dominant factor in our life, but to make it the driving force in our life, to increase our wisdom and nourish our sadness in the ups and downs. In this way, we can get the source of real happiness in life.
2. Good sentences and appreciation 1. The room of the soul will be full of dust if it is not cleaned. A dusty heart will become gloomy and confused. We go through a lot of things every day. Happy and unhappy people all settle down in their hearts. If there are too many things in your heart, it will become chaotic, and then your heart will be chaotic. Some painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled in the heart, will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can make a gloomy heart bright; Only by sorting things out can we bid farewell to our troubles; Throw away some unnecessary pain, and there will be more room for happiness.
Appreciation: Only when people do what they can, and let go when they should, can they reap their own success in a relaxed and happy rhythm.
2. Bitterness and pleasure are both judged by themselves, and they are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it won't hurt her self-esteem. The poor scholar with thousands of books doesn't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires. People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or senior official.
Appreciation: Your hobby is your direction, your interest is your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has an ideal heaven and a world of flowers and flowers that they are willing to enjoy.
3. Smile and sing the song of life. Don't complain that life has given too much hardship, and don't complain that life has too many twists and turns. The sea loses its grandeur without the rolling of huge waves, and the desert loses its grandeur without the wild dance of flying sand. If life is just plain sailing at two points and one line, it loses its charm of existence.
Appreciation: smile and play the strings leisurely, face setbacks, accept happiness, taste loneliness and overcome sadness.
3. Good sentences+appreciation We are always parting, such as with the people we love, with injuries, and even with time ... I smile.
Whenever I am sad or happy, I only smile. Anything can be replaced.
Love, past events, memories, disappointment, time … can all be replaced. But you can't help yourself.
If you have ever been happy. Happiness is just a momentary fragment, a short segment.
Fate is unpredictable, and we have no way of knowing what will happen next moment. Fingers will not move, tears will not flow, and time will not go.
In life, we need to be sublime. With it, we will get rid of mediocrity, emptiness and even numbness.
Moreover, once you have this understanding, you will find that sublimity is around you: it may be a high mountain that makes you feel sublime; It may be a sea, so you can understand it in a broad sense; It may be a monument that makes you feel great. It may be a big river, which makes you feel majestic; It may be a symphony, which makes you feel the agitation. He may be a person who makes you understand greatness and purity.
Bear is a kind of sincerity, an understanding made by heart; Endurance is a kind of self-restraint, and it is a kind of tolerance and generosity that is not shocked and panicked in chaos; Tolerance is a kind of strength, and it is a kind of protrusion and extension to show off vulgarity and promote righteousness. Bears are like a cup of old wine, mellow and clear; Like a shy morning flower in bud; Bear is like a folk song, simple and profound; Bear is a philosopher's ramble, implicit and meaningful.
The land in spring is warm, which makes everything sprout; The land in summer is warm, which makes life jointing, and the land in autumn is honest, which proves the quality of the sower with harvest. Curves are beautiful, and beautiful things are only made of curves.
The beauty of curves lies in nature. The majestic mountains are curves, the turbulent rivers are curves, the bright moon is curves, and human history is curves.
The road of life is also a curve, bumpy and tortuous. On it, there are both the joy of the proud and the tears of the losers; There are both the joy of the successful and the distress of the frustrated.
Because of this, the curve of life makes life full and meaningful. .
We have been parting, such as with relatives, with injuries, and even with time ... I smile. Whenever I am sad or happy, I only smile.
Anything can be replaced. Love, past events, memories, disappointment, time … can all be replaced.
But you can't help yourself. If you have ever been happy.
Happiness is just a momentary fragment, a short segment. Fate is unpredictable, and we have no way of knowing what will happen next moment.
Fingers will not move, tears will not flow, and time will not go. In life, we need to be sublime.
With it, we will get rid of mediocrity, emptiness and even numbness. Moreover, once you have this understanding, you will find that sublimity is around you: it may be a high mountain that makes you feel sublime; It may be a sea, so you can understand it in a broad sense; It may be a monument that makes you feel great. It may be a big river, which makes you feel majestic; It may be a symphony, which makes you feel the agitation.
He may be a person who makes you understand greatness and purity. Bear is a kind of sincerity, an understanding made by heart; Endurance is a kind of self-restraint, and it is a kind of tolerance and generosity that is not shocked and panicked in chaos; Tolerance is a kind of strength, and it is a kind of protrusion and extension to show off vulgarity and promote righteousness.
Bears are like a cup of old wine, mellow and clear; Like a shy morning flower in bud; Bear is like a folk song, simple and profound; Bear is a philosopher's ramble, implicit and meaningful. The land in spring is warm, which makes everything sprout; The land in summer is warm, which makes life jointing, and the land in autumn is honest, which proves the quality of the sower with harvest.
Curves are beautiful, and beautiful things are only made of curves. The beauty of curves lies in nature.
The majestic mountains are curves, the turbulent rivers are curves, the bright moon is curves, and human history is curves. The road of life is also a curve, bumpy and tortuous.
On it, there are both the joy of the proud and the tears of the losers; There are both the joy of the successful and the distress of the frustrated. Because of this, the curve of life makes life full and meaningful.
At the beginning of life, you have your place in the world, and at the end of life, you still have your place on the earth; You have been dealing with this position all your life. Perhaps, you have a mood story about the place; Perhaps, you have many original ideas about location; Perhaps, the location has caused you to think deeply; Perhaps the location makes you feel infinite.
True friendship, whether it is the evil wind that drives away harm, the thunderbolt of natural and man-made disasters, the fog of intrigue, or the severe frost of poverty and poverty, can not make you timid, alienated and betrayed. You are as strong as a rock, and you are as long as running water.
Pessimism is a plague, optimism is a shower; Pessimism can only produce mediocrity, optimism can create Excellence; Pessimism is because short-sightedness can't see the essence of things, optimism is because of outstanding vision and deep understanding of things; From ordinary people, we can easily find optimistic spirit, and from ordinary people, we can easily find gloomy shadows. Successful flowers, people only admire its brilliance, but who knows that its initial buds are soaked with tears of struggle and scattered with blood and rain of sacrifice.
Successful people are surrounded by flowers and applause; Before and after the failure, people were soaked in sweat and struggle. Successful songs are music written with flowers and applause as notes, while failed songs are inspiring battle songs written with sacrifice and struggle.
When the sun shines, you just think it's candlelight; When the flowers bloom, you just feel the grass sprouting; When it is fruitful, you just think it is a meteor. People can't stand still in front of their achievements.
Before the flower, don't forget its withered season; In front of the green grass, don't forget its trampled past; In front of the green leaves, don't forget the moment it falls. People can't be intoxicated with the beautiful present.
When you face the blue sky, learn to soar in the sky; In the face of mountains, we must learn to be tenacious; When you face a long river, you should learn to run endlessly. People, never stop to stay.
Don't lose if you lose.
4. Appreciation of short sentences and beautiful sentences Zhuangzi said: "If there is a gap between heaven and earth, it will be sudden."
Appreciation-the first kind of people think that life is too short. If you don't eat, drink and be merry in time, wouldn't it be a waste? They hold the attitude of "there is wine today, we will be drunk tomorrow, and I will sing and laugh like a dream" and spend all their time playing, like parasites. The second kind of people know that "it is difficult to wake up in the morning before the prime of life", so they feel the pain of "time waits for no one" and immerse themselves in work and study all day, so that every minute of their lives can be enriched and shine, which also reflects Edison's words: "Life is short, there are too many things to do, and I have to race against time." Of course, time will only give these two different results: first, doing nothing all day, leaving only endless regrets; Secondly, efforts have brought fruitful results. With their diligence and wisdom, they have made great contributions to the country, and the society has affirmed their life value, and they are proud of it. At this point, who can say that time is not a great wealth? Cherishing time will make you the master of time; Cherishing time will enrich your life. Respond to survival, call for silence in the wild, and show a lot of sincerity (weeds)
Appreciation of good sentences:
("Your waking up makes me very happy. I'm thinking of a way out of the ice valley! I am willing to take you with me so that you will never freeze and never burn. " "alas! Then I'll burn it! " "You are exhausted and make me sad. I'll leave you here. " "alas! Then I will freeze out! " "So, what should we do?" "But what about yourself?" He asked instead. "I told you: I want to leave this ice valley ..." "Then I might as well burn it!"
He suddenly jumped up like a red comet, and I walked out of the ice valley. Suddenly a big stone car came. I finally ran under the wheel and died. Before I could see it, I fell into the ice valley.
"Ha ha! You will never meet a dead fire again! " I said with a smug smile, as if I were willing to do so. First, it's beautiful. This is different from remembering a scenery and a story. It's about my inner emotions and some philosophical thinking. Appreciation of Good Sentences in Jane Eyre
1. I feel an inexplicable sense of freedom and victory that I have never felt before, as if I broke the invisible bondage and finally gained unexpected freedom.
Appreciation: Jane Eyre vented the injustice she suffered in the past nine years, and let her taste the revenge of "freedom and victory" for the first time. Vividly write Jane's momentary lightheartedness.
But if you can't avoid it, you have to endure it. What can't be tolerated is weakness and stupidity.
Appreciation: Helen, Jane Eyre's good friend, said a seemingly ordinary but reasonable sentence to her. Facing the injustice of life, we should learn to be patient, stand the test, show courage and perseverance, and tide over the difficulties.
3. Flowers stick out from under the green leaves, including Saussurea involucrata, crocus sativus, purple primrose and pansy with golden eyes. Now, every Thursday afternoon, we have a half-day holiday to go out for a walk, and we will find more lovely flowers under the fence next to the path.
Appreciation: Jane Eyre adapted to school life and began to discover the beauty of life slowly. "Lovely flowers are blooming." This is the turning point of Jane Eyre's character.
1 Do you think that because I am poor, humble, ordinary and short, I have no soul and no heart? -You're wrong! My soul is the same as yours and my heart is the same as yours. If God endows me with wealth and beauty, I will make it as hard for you to leave me as it is for me to leave you now. There are not so many gods, but our spirits are equal, just as our souls pass through the grave and stand before God, equal to each other-that's it.
I've had enough of this life. It's time to leave. So don't be afraid.
Death is just a permanent sleep, and anxiety, guilt and thoughtfulness will disappear after death.
Staring at his youth, he looks very simple.
But why did you become like this? Do you mean that if you are injured when you are young and ignorant, you must pay back the next innocent person?
What hope can I see if this vicious circle continues?
5. Society, disease and stress all indicate this miserable world.
Only during the day, no one understood him, no one encouraged him, and even people inside him laughed at him. what can I say? what can I do? Is it your own soul or someone else's distorted personality that needs saving? That's sick. That's crazy. All my words are like a horrible gibberish, but he tortured me and I couldn't find a breakthrough. Do you regret my anger?
I am ashamed to say that I hate God. I have never hated God as much as I do now. My hopes are so slim. I was born wrong from beginning to end. I have been walking for more than 20 years. Don't worry about anything anymore. If I leave anyone, I will destroy it. Nothing will change. Nothing will change my mood. All my sadness, loneliness, desolation and the most obscure words can't show my gloomy heart, pity and sympathy. No one will be these poor people. Accept everything.
I don't want to struggle anymore. Come on, fate.
Forget it, there's nothing to fight. At the moment I ascend to heaven, I hope to be a child of God.
Don't abandon me again!
5. Good sentences and appreciation of good sentences
1. Now, when I see this light again, I have a kind feeling.
2, fog, always like yarn, like smoke, like clouds.
3. Fog brings people too much reverie and confusion.
4. In May, it was drizzling.
5. The sky is still blue; Clouds or white clouds
6. Taolin, a lush forest in a dream, a magical forest of eternal myths.
7. All hallucinations are invisible in the sun.
8. Next to the trees is a layer of water mist, which adds a bit of fairyland feeling to the village.
9. In the Woods, there is naturally a layer of water mist.
10, people who lose themselves, how terrible!
1 1. How terrible it is to lose the real world!
12. Mountains, trees, villages and roads are all covered with white.
13, the mirage landscape in the South China Sea is presented in a mythical way in her hands.
14, raindrops fell on the path in the forest.
15, some water drops flow along the trunk to the roots.
16, a fog rolled in front.
17, the thin spring rain makes the world peaceful and quiet.
18, flowers in fog, moon in water, world, blurred.
6. Appreciation of good sentences 1. A few white sails, like a few white feathers, float lightly on this golden sea.
Appreciation: Metaphorically compare a sailboat to a feather, and the size of the sailboat sets off the size of the sea.
2. The sea water is so blue that people feel that the color of jade is too light and the color of sapphire is too deep, which is difficult for even a master to describe.
Appreciation: paint the color of sea water by contrast; Use the difference between "shallow" and "deep" to express the subtlety and indescribability of seawater blue.
I can't forget the refreshing and humid sea breeze with the smell of talking about the sea, blowing people's hair, cheeks and body feelings, just like a gorgeous and rich woman.
Appreciation: Using metaphor, the indescribable sea breeze is charming and moving, which shows the wonderful feeling brought by the sea breeze to the fullest.
7. The abstraction, appreciation and imitation of good sentences let us go back there, the first time and the first loneliness.
If I can meet you on the hillside full of gardenias. If you can, love deeply once and then leave.
Then, a long life, just, just, looking back-that short moment. I remember when I was a child, you loved to talk and I loved to laugh.
Once sitting side by side under a peach tree, the wind roared at the treetops, and we fell asleep somehow, knowing how many flowers fell in our dreams. I can lock my heart.
Why, but can't lock love and sadness, in the long life, why, happiness always fades at first sight-the most urgent is the most beautiful time. All the endings have been written, all the tears have started, but suddenly I forget what a beginning this is.
I was in your arms when the fog started. By the time the fog clears, it will be a lifetime.
The mountains and lakes are quiet, and the flowers fall quietly. If people can be reincarnated, if there is reincarnation in the world, what is our past life? If you are a woman picking lotus in Jiangnan, I am the one you miss under your wrist.
If you are the urchin who plays truant, I am the brand-new marble that fell out of your schoolbag, watching you unconsciously walk in the grass by the roadside. If you used to be a monk, I would like to burn incense in front of the temple and spend a quiet time with you.
So when we meet in this life, we always feel a little unfinished, just in a trance, unable to tell you in detail. In the face of love, I will keep my mouth shut.
When I guessed the answer, I found that it was all over, and the years had already changed the puzzle. Don't laugh at my weakness even if I shed tears.
Under the tree full of magnolia, there have been many farewells, and many women like me have sung the same songs. My sweet and deep memory is not a torrent or a waterfall, but a dry well that can't sing under the shade of flowers and trees.
I've always wanted to walk on that beautiful road with you. There are soft winds and white clouds, and you are by my side, listening to my happy and grateful heart.
My request is actually very small, as long as I live such a summer, as long as I live such a time. And what I meet, day after day, is an unexpected arrangement. There are so many trivial mistakes that I finally understand tonight.
All the joys and sorrows have become ashes, and I can't walk with you on any road in the world. I read and read with tears in my eyes.
But I have to admit that Youth is a sloppy book. Jasmine seems to be out of season.
Small fragrant buds are always in full bloom during the day and at night. Miss you, there seems to be no difference, in the day and night, in every trance moment.
In the fragrant season, because of falling flowers, because of loneliness, because looking back at you, I just sang a song in Kubinashi tune with tears. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please let me face this parting calmly and continue to look for an impossible you with a smile.
My life could have been different-if, in front of the new rain, you just walked quietly; On that July afternoon, if you didn't, go back. I still remember the hills full of tea trees, the sky full of clouds and cicadas.
In the silent forest. You said it with a smile, but you were careful not to say that word to me.
I waited with fossil patience. However, the mountain wind is cold and the moonlight is light.
See you again, grass is sad. We believe that all happiness and happiness should be, it is not surprising that the mountain is blue and the water is green. If we are willing to really love each other, we will never be apart.
Peach blossoms have blossomed and landed on the deserted mountain road. Her fragrant beauty, moist season and soft heart are often remembered when it is too late. Which kind, love?
The breeze is blowing the lotus fragrance in Li Antang. At this moment, the mountain is empty, except for cicadas, only the sound of bamboo dew dripping. How can I tell you that your eyes have pierced my heart and have been treasured by me for many years.
And my heart is a wind chime hanging on the eaves of seven floors, ringing and ringing, one by one, knocking on a person's name. Did you hear that? This is a silent pulse, which keeps going day and night.
Soul mates, how many teenagers does it take to get together on the other side of the world? I was silent.
And you, walking into the night, become an unsolved mystery. No matter how beautiful and long we meet, we will end up in the same way. It's time to say goodbye At the head of this ancient ferry, it is already dusk.
When you finally left silently, I also wrote tears on the pages, like jasmine flowers when we were young. Maybe it will fall from the accidentally opened title page at dusk many years later, without fragrance or sound.
At that time, outside the window, perhaps, it will rain carefully. Youth is as transparent as wine, which can be drunk, drunk and separated.
Before the gray dawn, I looked back with disappointment-does a bird have to burn itself to become a phoenix, and youth must be ignorant, love and sad? If I really loved you, I won't forget that it was at this crossroads that you and I, young people, waved-parted. I missed the flowery yesterday and the present, and I still want to repeat the same parting today.
I will be a stranger for the rest of my life, walking on Wan Li Road and bowing deeply to you at dusk-please take care of me. The mountains are still the same, the trees are still the same, and at my feet, the water is not yesterday.
The wind is clear and the clouds are light. Wild lilies are scattered on the top of the mountain at dusk. Anyone who turns into a laurel tree in the moonlight can escape missing every night.
I will never see you again in my life, just because it is not you who will see you again, and you in my heart will never appear again. What reappears is only some vicissitudes of life, the sun, the moon and the fleeting time.
If it was a mistake from the beginning. So, why, why it is so wrong and beautiful.