Yes, he once despised Lu Yaxun. He has no respect for this man who knows that he is not his own child and has raised him for more than 20 years.
But at the end of the story, his name is Lu Yaxun's father, and he said he would always call it that.
He is called Xu Zhisen Lao Xu.
If Xu Zhisen had appeared earlier, maybe Lu Tao wouldn't have fallen in love with Charlene Marilynn Dangelo. In front of Millay, Lu Tao felt inferior in his bones. He doesn't know Millay. He thinks rich girls deserve to be cheated by them. He doesn't love Millay because they are not in the same world.
When Yang Xiaoyun and southern Hunan rented a house, they talked about their quadrangle life when they were young, and said that locust trees were jujube trees. However, Lu Tao and Millay have never had a similar experience.
When Garjier became more and more fond of Xu Tao, Charlene Marilynn Dangelo began to lose his mind. She found that this man asked her to write your name in the driver's notebook when she bought a car. She was angry because he became no different from those men in the nightclub. She found that he gradually moved away from their world, no longer complaining about the unsatisfactory work together, but felt that he was very successful, and I was just a salesman who accomplished nothing. He bought a single-family villa, but I still have nothing.
This feeling has never happened in Lu Tao. Miley can spend a month's living expenses of a college boy at once, drive a sports car to school and rent a house at once, which is very strange to Lu Tao.
Millay opened A3, and Garjier opened A4. At that time, they began to follow Qi Mei's example.
However, people's personality generally depends on genes, and the other half is the initial memory.
The psychology teacher told me that one year old looks old and three years old looks old.
Later, I finally understood that genes come from the experience and life combination of the previous generation, and the initial memory is the environment they fought for.
Birds are marked. When they are born, they treat the first person they see as their mother.
Garjier is more and more like Xu Tao, but he is still Lu Tao.
He is not a businessman. Compared with Xu Zhisen, a businessman, he is more like Lu Yaxun. Lu Yaxun is just doing his job, building.
Lu Tao only wants to build, but he wants to be closer to success.
In the end, Lu Tao is still Lu Tao. He chose neither Ling Xianer nor Mi Lai, because he was not rich in essence, and he had nothing.
He will never be the Xu Tao that Xu Zhisen wants, no matter how similar he is to Xu Zhisen.
Struggle is about many people, seemingly the same, but actually not on the same plane, just like Hanzi and Lulu. Hanzi didn't know Lulu because he was born in Beijing and didn't know the loneliness and insecurity of Beipiao, but the pig's head did.
I remember when Charlene Marilynn Dangelo went to Utopia for the first time, Lulu said that returnees could not find jobs now.
She was jealous of Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, just as Charlene Marilynn Dangelo was once humbly jealous of Millay.
Yang Xiaoyun also learned a lesson from Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's independence. They aborted the children and left the men behind. They shouted at two women in brightly lit Beijing, but before long, they all gave in to life.
Yang Xiaoyun couldn't find anything more suitable than going to the south. Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's stubborn mother began to persuade her not to be too stubborn. Finally, her mother remarried her father and was no longer a single woman.
"It's another night when two women lie down and chat together," Charlene Marilynn Dangelo said. Don't forget that you ended up today because you wanted everything, Yang Xiaoyun retorted, otherwise I would be even worse!
Camera switch, Charlene Marilynn Dangelo and Lu Tao touching hand in hand in the suburbs, no longer adhere to the previous stubbornness.
Women can't rely on men, but they can't be completely isolated.
Men can't rely on others, but they also need help.
There used to be a set of pictures that said that many people seemed to be on the same plane, but they were actually just visual. The reality is that they are on different planes, and some things are easy for some people, but out of reach for others.
It seems that everyone is the same in the struggle, and Yang Xiaoyun of Hanako is the closest. Xiaoling Xianer of Milai is a rich girl, while Charlene Marilynn Dangelo and Lu Tao are both born in poor families, but they also have lofty aspirations. Lulu and piggy are both drifting north.
What is easy for Millay may not be done by many people all their lives.
Suitable for four words is very old, but it really makes sense.
There are four words that are most important to marriage, and that is seeking common ground while reserving differences.
Loving you equals loving yourself, because we are very much alike.
It's only a moment to be attracted by your very different lives from mine. People can never love others more than themselves.
For example, the distance and the south, after all, are people from two worlds.
At the beginning of the story, Lu Tao's mother met Lu Tao in the teahouse.
What was Lu Tao's first sentence? Why did you choose such a place? This place is not as delicious as McDonald's.
I have drunk dozens of dollars of tea. What am I afraid of?
Not long after, he was in contact with Xu Zhisen for a long time. When he had 20 million yuan, he didn't even blink when he paid for things.
He has changed.
When Xu Zhisen analyzed the women around Lu Tao, he said that Lingshan and Milai were fine, and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo made you unable to stop.
This is Xu's point of view, which is essentially different from.
Because Lu Tao is not a rich man, he doesn't understand the lives and hearts of those distant rich girls.
He knows Charlene Marilynn Dangelo because they grew up in similar environment.
The nature at the beginning of life is good, but his gender is similar and his habits are far away.
Because Lu Tao was born in Lujia, he likes a man like Charlene Marilynn Dangelo.
Lu Tao loves Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, not Millay, because he is not Xu Tao.
Even though he and Xu Zhisen are very close, even though he and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo are separated.
Finally, his name is Lu Yaxun's father, and he married Charlene Marilynn Dangelo.
Flash marriage to the south is because he thinks that if he marries a wife, everything will be different and everything will start all over again.
Just like primary school students who start school, they prepare brand-new stationery, thinking that life can be different from now on.
Just like the Millennium, it is just an ordinary day, but it has been given too much expectation by too many people.
Southern Hunan always feels that everything will be fine after marriage, as if all the materials are ready and the cooked rice will be delicious.
In fact, he doesn't work hard. What really works hard for the whole family is that Yang Xiaoyun doesn't face south.
Yang Xiaoyun's mother, played by Su Xiaoming, is my favorite character in the whole movie. She looks like a layman. I didn't like her at first sight. However, she is pragmatic. She makes money for this family. Xiaoyun's grandmother is just her mother-in-law, but she is going to buy a hearing aid for her.
Because of her philistinism, she changed her old house into a new one of 128 square meters.
What did Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's stubborn mother win for Charlene Marilynn Dangelo? Finally, she advised Charlene Marilynn Dangelo women not to be too stubborn and to find someone to rely on. She chose to remarry the man she once despised.
Stephanie has a song called Homology. Maybe different kinds can attract each other instantly, but the same kind can stay together.
Loving you is equal to loving yourself. They are similar in gender and far apart from each other.
The psychology teacher said that the divorce rate of childhood friends was as high as 1/5. It was love at first sight, and the matchmaker's words were the most reliable.
There is a classmate in Fujian whose parents met for the first time on their wedding night, but they have been here for twenty years and have four children.
Her happiness is beyond words.
I remember that neither Pig nor Lulu understood the meaning of Utopia, which is what they have in common.
Heartbroken Utopia, Lingshan, the son of South China, and Lu Tao Millai all live in an equally divided space, with the same size. This is indeed a utopia. This utopia was disintegrated one day after everyone's life got back on track. Hanako bought a 160 big house, went to the south and Yang Xiaoyun, and was still in a youth home, while Lu Tao went to France.
What is the slogan of Taiping Heavenly Kingdom? Everyone has clothes and land. In the end, the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom is just disillusioned idealism.
We used to be like equal individuals in utopia, with different lives in different environments and genes.
People with different lives, some drive Alto, some drive Audi, some live in houses, and some are homeless.
This is the driving force of human progress.
We are all orphans in this beautiful world. Looking for our own kind, we find that we are not alone, not monsters, nor are we struggling alone.
This is the irreplaceable significance of Lu Tao except Charlene.
In the process of becoming more and more Xu Taohua, Xu Tao and Lu Tao are always struggling, while Charlene Marilynn Dangelo is the original state of Lu Tao.
When he sees Charlene, he will feel relaxed and know that he is still Lu Tao.
Why was Charlene Marilynn Dangelo at a loss when he left? Because he can't find himself.
Lu Tao and Xu Tao were evenly matched, which puzzled him.
Remember the last sentence to the south? Yang Xiaoyun, you always want to learn from Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, but you are different from Charlene Marilynn Dangelo!
Yes, they are different, just as Yang Xiaoyun's mother is different from Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's.
Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's mother is stubborn and single, and has no money, while Yang Xiaoyun's mother is good at making money.
Millay is a rich girl. Remember what Xu Zhisen's business partner even Liu Yaxun said when he took Lu Tao to find him?
If only my son could have half the promise of your son.
Everyone is cultivating and looking for the same kind. Marriage is a process of finding and brewing the same kind.
Powerful children are similar to Millay's, but she doesn't like them.
Everyone wants to live for thousands of years like Qin Shihuang. If not, he wants to continue his life and spirit.
In this movie, I like Yang Xiaoyun's mother, He Cuifeng, and Lu Yaxun best.
There is Lingshan, she is still young, and there are always some incomplete things behind the adult world that have not yet been unfolded to her.
She's like Miley before the injury. If you love someone, treat her well in your own way.
She didn't ask for anything. She was very kind to Lulu's younger brother and went back to Taiwan Province Province, leaving only a beautiful smile.
Or what? Can a rich girl be with a farm boy like Lulu's brother?
What are you talking about? My father asked me whether to buy Audi or Mercedes, and whether to buy a villa in Beijing or Shanghai. There will be a jewelry exhibition with me in a few days.
Lu Yaxun is truly innocent. He lives independently every day and doesn't resent his disappointment.
So he is really strong, and he doesn't need anyone to continue his life.
He can give up his children and take Lu Tao as his own.
Lu Tao and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo love themselves, because they find their own shadows in each other, so Charlene Marilynn Dangelo is willing to love Lu Tao humbly and let him realize his dreams.
When Lu Tao succeeded, she felt that she had succeeded.
Only later, the successful Lu Tao became Xu Tao, not Charlene Marilynn Dangelo.
Lu Tao is fighting for himself and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, because they already have similar goals.
The biggest loser of this movie is Xu Zhisen. He made great efforts to succeed, but he finally regretted it. He finally knew that what he gave up was what he wanted most, love, including love and affection.
He struggled alone for decades, trying to find a similar person for himself and turn Lu Tao into Xu Tao.
It's just that he failed after all
Hanako's parents are very satisfied, knowing that he wants money to rent a house and didn't say anything to him, so Hanako is also very satisfied.
What did Xiangnan's mother cry and say when she knew about Xiangnan's flash marriage? You child, who will cook and wash clothes for you when you are outside? Go south like his mother? Yang Xiaoyun also said something similar.
Charlene Marilynn Dangelo's mother stubbornly left her father and eventually remarried, so did Charlene Marilynn Dangelo.
Yang Xiaoyun's mother is pragmatic, but she knows everything best. After Yang Xiaoyun and Hanako almost had an accident, they looked in the mirror and said, "Yang Xiaoyun, if you make a mistake, you will hate it forever." . No one will pity you, you will only be more pitiful!
She is just like her mother. She knows everything, what she can't do and what she can do. It seems that it is one thing to make Lu Tao's money, but she insists on giving him Lu Tao's change.
Compared with Xu Zhisen, Comrade Xiong is not like a professional businessman. He is a cook. Hehe, Millay followed him, but he couldn't compete with Xu Zhisen in business.
Miley's father can give the business to Miley and lose hundreds of millions for one of her love fantasies.
Lulu is not that hateful. She is actually the least greedy. When she prayed, she said, I still love Hanako, but I know I can't be too greedy. I can't have everything.
Her peasant father's dying wish is exactly the same as what Mi Xiong and Xu Zhisen said.
Most importantly, the family will always be together.
I said that although there are great differences in academic qualifications, the most essential and important things are the same because of human nature.
Why is the family always together?
In order not to struggle alone, for the same kind.
After adding so many words, what do I want to say at last?
Struggle has taught me the greatest truth. People are different. Others spend 10 thousand a day, and you blindly follow suit, but you ignore that others earn 100 thousand a day, and you earn 100 a day.
Don't help others realize their dreams. Others are always others, father and son, husband and wife, and especially friends.
Xu Zhisen helped Lu Tao realize his dream, and Millai also helped Lu Tao, but he never worked hard and never knew how to cherish it.
Lu Tao helped Charlene Marilynn Dangelo realize her dream. Charlene Marilynn Dangelo only felt that her personality was insulted. If you really love someone, you should respect the way she wants.
Money is important, friends are more important, but oneself is the most important.
Don't lose friends for money, and don't lose yourself for friends and lovers.
Having a rich father is very attractive, and marrying a rich man is very beautiful.
But you have to understand that all this is nothing compared with losing yourself.
However, no one can really realize himself because of others.
Don't scold the film. The Wealth of Nations says that even a nail contains technical content, let alone a work.
Taking Lu Tao as the main line, it reveals the values of the older generation and the different life of Hanako who went south to Xiaoyun Milai, Yang Lulu.
Maybe you are Hanako, so you don't hate Lu Tao's life.
Maybe you are Lulu, so you don't understand Millay's casualness.
Maybe you are Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, so you don't understand Lulu's change of heart.
However, there will always be Hanako Milulu Yang Xiaoyun going south, but you don't know their life.
There will always be Lu Tao and Charlene Marilynn Dangelo.
You only know yourself, so you are looking for the same kind, expecting * * *.
It's as if Lu Tao didn't understand Lu Yaxun and disdained him.
You scold Lu Tao, what's the difference between that and Lu Tao?
The first step in growth is to accept the complexity of the world and the diversity of individuals. And after understanding the complexity of this world, we must stick to ourselves.
Find a group of like-minded friends and partners who can sing together, and they are all trying to stick to themselves.
And success is just to stick to yourself better.
It is generally believed that man's greatest enemy is himself.
Whether you are post-80s, post-90s and post-00s or post-doctoral queen mother.
This is a sequel to the story after 5060. Lu Yaxun and Xu Zhisen seem to have won, but because of Lu Tao's choice, it represents the choice of this new era. He respects Lu Yaxun and only sympathizes with Xu Zhisen.
Lu Yaxun is a real strong man. He didn't need anyone's approval and support, but at the moment when he accidentally got a "father" from his adopted son who had been ignoring him, he was very moved and surprised, and his life was finally complete.
Lu Tao is Pisces, and Lu Yaxun is a typical Taurus. He worked hard all his life.
There are Hua Zi, Yang Lulu, Xiao Yun, Mi Lai, Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, Lu Tao, Lu Yaxun and Xu Zhisen in this world.
You are free to choose the model you want to be, and you should also respect others' choices.
Natural selection, there will always be a few people will be eliminated, there will always be people who will continue to multiply in the competition.
There seem to be Faye Wong, Eason Chan, Liang Yongqi, Stephanie, Zhao Chuan and May.
In the literary world, there are Zhang Ailing, Han Han and Jing M.Guo, and more than Lu Xun.
They let a hundred schools of thought contend and enrich everyone's horizons.
You can choose what you like to accept.
Everyone sticks to himself and respects others. Peace and harmony make the world peaceful.