After reading the red chamber, my heart is sour. I don't know why. It seems that there is a little bit of each kind, whether it is for the ruin of the second mansion in Rongning, the fragrance of Pink Lady, or the reputation of speculators. But I always feel that it is not all. From a man's point of view, I was suddenly enlightened. This is jealousy. I envy Baoyu in the dark. It's really embarrassing to say, but several men have seen a wan ku.

Speaking of it, there are countless love stories in a dream of red mansions. The first thing to push is Baodai's infatuation with red powder. In a dream of red mansions, the love between these two people is the purest. From childhood, childhood, to falling in love when you grow up. Zuo Zhuan is simply a logical conclusion, which makes readers feel that another love story has been born in the world. Its appearance is so natural that few people doubt it. There is no stain. But untimely love is synonymous with pain. Daiyu's unique rebellious and withdrawn character and disdain for the secular make her stand out from the crowd everywhere. She read the romance of the West Chamber before spending time, without any taboo. I don't like rhetoric, and I will do what I say; Advocating the truth, indifferent to fame and fortune ... all these make her like a lotus, always clinging to her purity, purity and cleanliness, as clear as jasper. Looking at her from the perspective of an ordinary person, what I appreciate most is Dai Yu's poetic and delicate wit. Dai Yu often opposes her sisters drinking, enjoying flowers and reciting poems. She is always very talented and artistic. Or the desolation of plants and the return of wild geese to the south, the tenderness of flowers can solve the affair of language; All these reflect her elegance and refinement as a poet. What makes people sigh most is that Daiyu is sentimental and unlucky. Daiyu's life is doomed to be lonely and helpless, and her character is doomed to be lonely and sad. Even though people come and go in the Grand View Garden, there is no relative she can rely on, no confidant she can confide in, and only the romantic and affectionate Baoyu makes her secretly promise, but she is always worried about being swayed by considerations of gain and loss. So she was helpless. Where there is a fragrant hill, it is sad that "the fragrant nest has been built in March, and the swallow nest between the beams is heartless", and it is sad that "flowers are flying all over the sky, and the red fragrance is pitiless", and finally it ends in a sad ending of "a wisp of fragrant soul scattered with the wind and never dreamed at night".

Lin Daiyu's position in Jiafu and her own cowardice are not so much the cause of the tragedy, but rather the ruthless killing of the love between Baoyu and Daiyu in the feudal society headed by Yuan Chun. If a dream of red mansions is really a description of Cao Xueqin's personal experience, then I can feel the pain of a man losing his beloved. The fire of hell burns around me and makes my mind stagnate. This is not the pain of flesh and blood, but the love of blood.

What's more, it is the love tragedy of Xue Baochai. It is still so sad to see Daiyu's tragic death. But after reading it, when I heard Zhen talking about "Gui Lan", I couldn't help feeling sad. People like Li Wan and Xue Baochai will be buried in this cold garden all their lives, facing a man who doesn't love himself at all, regardless of his good or bad marriage and what she really needs. It's grandma Bao's throne. But I can't help asking, are there really lonely women in the world? I always thought she was a cold and selfish person. But now, I can't help feeling sorry for her. Actually, if you think about it carefully, her tragedy may be more tragic than Lin Daiyu's. What she needs most is not the irrigation of love, but freedom Xue Baochai's family is rich and she has read many poems since she was a child. She received a very comprehensive and orthodox education. General Jia praised her as "quiet and generous". Yes, this is the way she was educated since childhood, and it is also the virtue that ancient women should have. Even sadness and joy should not be shaped by color, otherwise it is "disrespect." Throughout the book, her behavior almost never goes beyond these constraints. Only once did Baoyu compare her to Yang Fei, which made her very angry. But this is just a cold irony of the past. In fact, she is the most sad person. She has been influenced by other people's opinions and education all her life. She never knows what she wants, and she is unhappy and unhappy. She just follows the path of nature. She has never been loved wholeheartedly, and she dare not pursue love bravely. No one really cares about her. And she thinks the world is like this. She thinks there are problems between husband and wife.

In fact, what she did was not a free choice. She is just a typical submissive. She is smart and talented, but she was educated that it is useless for women to study. Xiangling and Xiangyun talked about poetry. She said, "A girl's family talks about serious things with poetry, so that learned people can listen to it and laugh at her for not keeping her duties." She is also familiar with drama and traditional Chinese opera, but she thinks that these obscene words and clever sentences can't be known to dignified ladies, so she gently criticized Baoqin's poems. She wants to have a better life like anyone else, but when her mother married Baoyu for the power of the Jia family, she had to accept it with tears because her mother told her that she had promised. Until Baoyu finally became a monk, her tragedy reached a climax. Even so, she still can't let her nature do it. Lady Wang said, "Baochai cried, but he didn't leave at all, but he advised me." Think of Baochai, such a character and so young. At this moment, I thought about how my life would end. Her pain is not actually under the burning manuscript of Daiyu! But she can only restrain herself. This is her "respect"!