Appreciation: This is a passage describing the birth of the sun. The second sentence uses anthropomorphic writing techniques to regard the sun as a "person with a heavy burden" and "step by step". This description not only describes the slow rise of the sun, but also highlights the beauty, magic and spectacular sunrise. This reflects the author Ba Jin's love for nature and careful observation of life. We should also have a pair of eyes like Ba Jin who are good at discovering and be a teacher.
Excerpt 1: reading has three purposes: first, refreshing; The second is to add interest and elegance; Third, learn from long talents.
People who spend too much time reading are lazy, people who ask for chapters and sentences too much are pretentious, and people who judge by the dogma in the book are nerds.
The improvement of talent depends on reading, and the perfection of knowledge depends on practice. Because natural qualifications, like natural flowers and trees, need to be trimmed with knowledge, but what is displayed in books is often sloppy, and its latitude and longitude must be defined by experience and experience.
Only wise people use reading, not because books don't show people its usage, but because its usage is a kind of wisdom beyond books and higher than books, which can only be obtained through observation.
Reading history makes people wise, poetry witty, mathematics subtle, physics profound, ethics grave, logic rhetoric able to contend. As the ancients said, learning to be excellent is an official.
Experience: Reading focuses on application. You have to remember something accurately to help Tan Xing talk about capital, which is application; But the more important application is internalization, which melts into one's own knowledge and experience system and becomes a "philosophy" to guide one's work and life. This is a higher level of "applying what you have learned". Reading is really useless if it is just for curiosity and decoration; If you become a bookworm, don't read!
Excerpt 2: There are few true friendships in the world, and this kind of friendship is even rarer among evenly matched people. It's just a general exaggeration of sincerity. True friendship only exists between people with different status. Only such friends can share joys and sorrows.
Experience: Is there any help and effort without asking for anything in return? If there is, or just shows the goodwill of the giver, it is not enough to explain the existence of true friendship. In addition to not containing any utilitarian color, the more important premise of true friendship is spiritual communication, emotional acceptance, value recognition, and similar hobbies. In short, these are two of the same kind. The probability that this acceptance and appreciation occurs between the same sex is not without, but it is extremely low, and it is likely to "only exist between people with different status."
Excerpt 3: Beauty is as perishable as fresh fruit in summer. It often corrupts the young and embarrasses the old.
If beauty is attached to goodness, it will make good behavior dazzling and evil behavior shameful.
Experience: Beauty is like a double-edged sword, but it is a gift from heaven anyway. But relying too much on beauty will inevitably make people shallow and become fresh fruit in summer.
Excerpt 5: Young people's mistakes often ruin things, while old people's mistakes only make things that could have been done more and faster do less and slower.
Experience: Better miss than make mistakes. Don't rush for success. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't do anything successful. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. There is room for manoeuvre in everything.
Excerpt 6: Praise is a reflection of virtue, but it is also a mirror of reflection.
Exaggerating people's praise of things will only cause people's disgust, jealousy and ridicule. It is impossible to brag except in a few cases. But if a person praises his work or mission, he can look decent and even show a kind of loftiness.
Experience: You really can't flatter others too much, especially if you do it often, which not only lowers your personality, but also makes the flattered look down on you. If the other person really has special advantages, you should be sincere and decent when praising him. Of course, women's appearance, figure, clothes and so on can be another matter.
Talk about the importance and responsibility of your work, but don't complain about how hard and difficult it is.
1. If the room of the soul is not cleaned, it will be covered with dust. A dusty heart will become gloomy and confused. I have to experience many things every day, and the happy and unhappy ones are precipitated in my heart. If there are too many things in our hearts, it will become chaotic, and then our hearts will be chaotic. If some painful emotions and unpleasant memories fill our hearts, it will make people feel depressed. Therefore, only by sorting things out can we bid farewell to our troubles; Throw away some unnecessary pain, and there will be more room for happiness.
Appreciation: Only when people do what they can, can they reap their own success in a relaxed and happy rhythm.
2. Bitterness and pleasure are both judged by themselves, and they are not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who doesn't love jewelry, even in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, it doesn't hurt her self-esteem. A poor scholar in thousands of books doesn't want to exchange diamonds or stocks with millionaires. People who are satisfied with rural life do not envy any scholar's honorary title, nor do they envy high-ranking officials.
Appreciation: Your hobby is your direction, your interest is your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has his own ideal heaven and his own world of flowers and flowers.
3. Smile and sing the song of life. Don't complain that life has brought too many hardships, and there are too many twists and turns in life. The sea has lost its grandeur without the rolling of huge waves. The desert has lost its splendor without the wild dance of flying sand. If you only want two points and one line of smooth sailing in life, you will lose the charm of existence.
Appreciation: smile and play the strings leisurely, face setbacks, accept happiness, taste loneliness and overcome sadness.
4. Suffer happiness. Happiness needs to be enjoyed, but sometimes it is easy to beat a person. When happiness suddenly comes, people are often drowned by the vortex of happiness and fall from the peak of happiness. When you come through thick and thin, you cherish happiness instead of blindly precipitating it. Just like facing an altar of old wine, you will often be drunk unconscious. Only by slowly tasting fine products can you taste the real fragrance.
Appreciation: Life is a load, and you need to learn to support it. If you support your career, your family, and even the whole society, you will certainly bear the pressure if you support it.
Don't rub against each other on people's right and wrong. Some words are not heavy, but a little carelessness will weigh on others' hearts; Of course, you should also train yourself not to be easily hurt by what others say. You can't decide the length of life, but you can expand its width. You can't change your natural appearance, but you can always smile; You can't expect to control others, but you can take care of yourself; You can't completely predict tomorrow, but you can make full use of today; You can't ask everything to be smooth sailing, but you can do everything wholeheartedly.
Appreciation: A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. It is more of a burden and another kind of loss; Less is not enough, it is another kind of surplus; Giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a wider possession.
6. Life is like a dream. Life comes from nothing, and life and death constitute society and the world. Judging from the impermanence of life, life is like a dream. Therefore, only by living vividly and tastefully can a person come to this world in vain. "Life is like a dream" and "Life Geometry". From the perspective of the transience of life, life is indeed a dream. Compared with the eternal nature, life is just a dream.
Appreciation: In this sense, in the tolerance of nature, in the long river of history, "people leave traces, geese leave sounds". When people come to this world, they should leave a little footprint and a little spirit of companionship with mountains and rivers.
7. For the soul, people have struggled all their lives. If they can always earn happiness in the end, they will realize the greatest value of life.
Some people are very happy, but they look very upset; Some people should be worried, but they look happy.
People who live a confused life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are prone to anxiety. This is because sober people see things too clearly, and when it is more serious, life is full of troubles. However, a confused person, who seldom cares, has found a great realm of life even though his life is simple and rough.
Appreciation: all the troubles in life are caused by yourself. It's not that trouble can't be separated from you, but that you can't be separated from it. Everyone is very happy. However, your happiness is often in the eyes of others.