Contradictions in life, in our life, in the process of getting along with different people, we will encounter all kinds of contradictions. If you want to solve the contradiction, you need to communicate in time and find out the problem. Here are some articles about the contradictions in my life to share with you!
Contradictions in life 1 We live in this five-color dye vat every day. In order to adapt to all kinds of colors, we have to grind off the edges and corners of life and make ourselves smooth. Many times, we have to put away our emotions and expressions, keep our mouths shut, and learn more about how to read words and how to politely refuse. However, when we sit comfortably somewhere, enjoying the beautiful scenery and thinking about our own life, we find that life is full of contradictions, and we ourselves are a contradictory person.
When we were young, our teacher asked us what our dreams were. Think carefully, we will say "be an astronaut, a scientist, a teacher, a doctor, a rescuer" and so on. Our dream is great. In the eyes of children, the world is small, we are great and everything can be overcome. When we go from primary school to junior high school, we may still believe in our dreams. The third grade teacher asked us what our dream was, and many people would name several key high schools instead of astronauts and scientists. When the teacher who graduated from high school asked us what our dreams were, we talked more about a university, but there were no more dreams. After graduating from college, more people dream of finding a stable job with a fixed income. That's all. When we look back on our childhood dreams, it seems that our dreams are getting farther and farther and smaller when we grow up. How can we survive? We want to stay away from this life and find a free place to live, but we can't live without the temptation of material and money. We often complain about all the unfairness, but we have to get the necessities we need from the society, which is a contradiction in itself.
We are afraid of the cold eyes and ridicule brought by the colorful society, and yearn for the purity and leisure like a paradise, but we have to leave our hometown to work hard. It is because we are unwilling that we have to yield to such contradictions; We are afraid of the cold in the rental house, but we have to work hard to earn rent; We are afraid of high mortgage and car loans, but we have to go through the formalities required for loans and work hard for monthly repayment. There is not much left, and this is our life. We have calculated the high cost of having children, but we are always happy to give birth to life. It seems that all the hardships are nothing, and life seems so painful and happy.
I used to be very upset because of things at work, and I was depressed all day. A friend of mine comforted me and said, "Work is just a part of life. Besides work, there are many pleasures in life. We have family and friends. We have parties, play and share. We shouldn't worry about work. Thinking about work from another angle is just a way for us to exchange necessities. " After listening to his words, I seem to be relieved. A lot of times, I really am. We have made a big mistake in life, and often regard work as our whole life. We often hear people say, "I didn't do anything today, and I feel bored." Don't you live today? You don't have to pay so much attention to your work. Pay attention to quality and efficiency in an effective time and do your best. People's abilities are limited. You don't have to embarrass yourself all your life. Work hard at work and have a good rest at rest. We don't like to smile, but after hitting the wall many times, we learned to observe the face. While maintaining inner indifference and aloof, I greet each other with a smile. When a person is quiet, we find that we can't find our true self.
All the contradictions in our hearts are like a child who left home, missing his hometown and relatives, but had to leave; I miss my loved ones, but I'm afraid my parents will nag me after I get through the phone. We yearn for a pure love, without any material color, and in this material age, we often quarrel over some daily necessities. We have a stable job, often comforting ourselves that we don't care how much money we get, and it's almost for our own interests to be a good COP with colleagues and ourselves. Man is a higher animal with desire. When we live in such a vat, it is not enough to have a dedicated heart, but also to have a kind heart, kind thoughts and kind actions.
Contradiction 2 in life: "When the East rises and the West falls, Tao is ruthless and affectionate." The predecessors wrote a seemingly contradictory realm with beautiful poems a long time ago.
When I was a child, at noon on a hot summer day, you took twenty cents. Did you buy a notebook or ice cream? You must be very contradictory at this time! Looking at the attitude of children eating ice cream one by one, you are envious, but the money is for mom to buy books. What should I do?
On a rainy night, you are walking in the street alone with an umbrella. Suddenly a figure slipped on the ground, and you didn't know he was blind until you walked over. What should I do? Do you want to go away or take him home? I'm afraid you are ambivalent again? My mother kept urging me to go home on time. My mother is worried about not coming home so late, but what about the blind man? The road is too slippery.
In your twenties, you are married, but your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at odds. Speaking for parents, the wife will choke back to her family; Fight for your wife's face, but you are afraid that your parents will point at your nose and scold you for "marrying your daughter-in-law and forgetting your mother" and "ungrateful and unfilial". Well, you need another one. "Honest officials can't break housework".
In his thirties, he has a successful career, but his position is average. It hasn't changed in three or five years. It's not a taste to watch others run to the leader's house with cigarettes all day! What world? You left a message. But when you go home and lie in bed, you can't help thinking: what should I give? The director's wife likes jewelry ... and Director Sun's son clamors for PHS ... but hasn't bought it yet.
In your forties, you mixed up with a deputy director and just came back from the anti-xx meeting. Lao Li just brought a box of Maotai. Well, take it. Passionate speeches at the meeting are all nonsense! No, there is no wine recently. Besides, it's not easy for Lao Li to be so old. ...
In his fifties, his son didn't go to college and didn't have any skills. It's hard to earn a bowl of rice by his parents! What if my son has no job? Who will eat next to you? Recently, the factory expressly stipulates that it is not allowed to bring their relatives to engage in quotas without permission. At that time, you raised your hand in favor. What do we do? How many years can we have in our life? How many years things are contradictory and unsatisfactory.