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Half a month ago, Dacheng met Mi Li through a friend's wine bureau. Mi Li is beautiful and straightforward, which is Dacheng's favorite type. So after that day, he stood waiting for dinner and asked for contact information.
Rice grains have a bad impression on Dacheng. But after Dacheng added her, she called and sent a bunch of flowers the next day. In the evening, I take her directly to dinner and buy clothes. About a week later, Mi Li thought this person was also good, so they got together.
Dacheng and Mi Li were very happy that day. He bought Mi Li an iPhoneX as his first gift. You're welcome. Accept it. Later, they ate and went shopping together every day, and basically bought some small things every day, about 30 thousand yuan a week.
In fact, for Dacheng, 30,000 yuan is his three-month salary. But for the sake of his girlfriend, he is willing. But on the seventh day together, Mimi took Dacheng into a jewelry store and wanted Dacheng to buy her a set.
Dacheng is a little embarrassed now, because if he keeps spending, half a year will be wasted. So he euphemistically said that he could wait until the one-month anniversary to buy it, and it would be more memorable to buy it then. But Mi Li doesn't like it. She wants it today and can buy something else in a month.
The two men quarreled and quarreled, and finally the rice grain left without such great achievements.
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Dacheng was puzzled at the time, but he thought that rice grain might be just a little temper. But when he sent Mi Li a WeChat that night, he found that he couldn't send it out, so Mi Li deleted him.
At this time, Dacheng understood that Mimi didn't like him at all, just regarded him as an ATM. ATM machines will naturally be eliminated after they can't withdraw money. So Mimi deleted him and didn't want to contact him again.
Dacheng was particularly angry at the thought of this. I spent more than 30 thousand on him this week and deleted him in the blink of an eye, but there was really no pity. He is unwilling, and he is not a fool. So he added rice grains again and again, calling them rice grains. After about two days of persistence, Mimi finally got bored and returned to him.
Dacheng is not at all polite, so he said: I know what you are thinking. I don't want anything else I bought you that mobile phone. You transfer the money to me, and we'll forget about it. ?
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Because of this circle of friends, many friends in the following rice grains are voicing Dacheng, and finally even Dacheng's friends came to ask him what happened.
At that time, Dacheng was so angry that he almost rushed to cook. But his reason tells him that he can't do this, and he can't send anything, otherwise it will only make rice grains vomit him again. He has no choice but to endure it. However, this love experience has also made him grow up, and he will not do such stupid things again in the future.
Some people appear to make you feel the beauty of love, but others appear to make you grow up. We can't always appreciate the beauty of love and occasionally feel the other side of love. For Dacheng, in this relationship, he really didn't do anything wrong, but met the wrong person. And the image of love rat that this 30,000 yuan and rice grains created for him can actually make him remember for a long time to some extent, so don't be so silly when you fall in love in the future.
This story also tells us:
1, be rational when you are in love, don't give it all at once.
Now there is a noun called. Love the brain? When people are in love, they don't care about anything, just want to pay for each other. But such people are often fragile in love, because they are too focused on love and lose their living expenses and other fun. Therefore, no matter how much you love someone, you should be rational and don't make yourself unlike yourself because of love.
2. When you are in love, don't always ask the other person to pay for yourself.
Two people in love should be equal, that is to say, love should be mutual and giving should be mutual. You let the other person pay for you, and you need to pay for the other person, instead of just asking for the other person and doing nothing yourself. This is especially true for money. Don't turn love into a deal to squeeze other people's money.
Keep your eyes open before falling in love, and don't make love blindly.
Once a person has a secret crush, many people don't consider personality at all and just want to be with him. Finally, I was cheated, and I didn't react until I suffered a loss and began to regret it. So look at each other's personality before falling in love, and then get to know each other clearly.
4. Don't make porcelain without Jin Gangzuan.
The man in the article earns 30 thousand in three months, but spends 30 thousand a week for his girlfriend who has only been dating for a week. This is a typical swollen face and a fat man. How to spend your income depends on your own income. Don't pretend to be rich, or you will attract a liar.
5. If there is evidence, you can call the police.
Because the practice of Mi Mi is more like a liar, the two of them have only been together for a week. She spent the man's money not to say anything, but also slandered him on WeChat. In fact, in this case, you can call the police and see if you can recover your lost money to the greatest extent. Even if the property is not recovered, it will teach such a female liar a lesson.
6. In the early days of love, the sinking cost should not be too much, and we should observe each other for a while.
The man in the article spends a lot of money as soon as he catches up with the girl, which actually increases his sinking cost. Generally speaking, after two people get married, raising the sinking cost will enhance the relationship between husband and wife. It's easy to be cheated by spending so much money just together. When two people first met, they should get to know each other better, instead of spending money blindly.
7. Boys should not climb high, but do what they can when choosing a spouse. A man who climbs the woman's face value is easy to meet an emotional liar.
Some boys are not very clear about their own conditions. Obviously, they can find a girl who lives at home. He must find a beautiful sister he met in the hotel. Obviously, people are not the kind of people who like living at home.
Sometimes, this comparison in face value is easy to fall into an emotional trap.
For ordinary people, we must take a warning. Don't think that catching up with a beautiful girl will save you face. Sometimes you have to pay a high price for saving face.