Too many toys have an effect on children. Toys play an indispensable role in children's growth, and children at different stages need different toys. The following is about the influence of too many toys on children, I hope to inspire everyone!
The influence of too many toys on children 1 After the improvement of living standards at home, children will get many toys as special tools to relieve boredom and develop their design minds. Many parents are confused that their children's toys are scattered at home. Broken toys are really a kind of destruction for parents who are obsessed with cleanliness. Many parents secretly handle their children's small toys in this way.
Although these toys are just repetitions and insignificant to parents, they are really valuable treasures to children. Children even cry when they receive their favorite toys. This is very rare in adults, because toys occupy a large share in children's narrow lives. People can often see children pushing toys around, pouring them out and putting them away again and again. People can point to their toys with children who don't know why, and it is clear to throw away a small part.
In the first issue of Kangxi Comes, Dee Hsu once said that his children were angry with themselves because of a gift box. In order to let the baby in Dee Hsu know what Tiffany blue is, give the child a Tiffany jewelry, and the gift box of jewelry means Tiffany blue. After tidying up the children's house, Dee Hsu threw away the small box where she had taken the jewels. So the child felt very sad and angry. After learning this, Big S asked her sister to send her identical little box to the children.
A small box, which is common in adults' eyes, is as valuable as jewelry to children because it is a meaningful gift to her. Parents don't know why they solve it without authorization, which will not only make their children feel sad because of the loss of gifts, but also continue to make their children feel that their exclusive city has been violated. The most common mode of this kind of parent-child tour is that parents casually enter their children's homes without knocking at the door.
Although the child is small, he is still an independent person. If you think there are too many toys at home, why don't you let the children organize them themselves, or let them choose their own toys to drive away.
The influence of too many toys on children 2 Every child has toys, but the number of children's toys will vary with the family's economic situation and educational methods. This will also bring different values and feelings to children.
Niu Niu was a little princess at home when she was born, and the whole family spoiled her. Dad is usually busy at work, travels frequently, and spends little time with Niu Niu, so he often buys toys for her to make up for the vacancy. Before long, the living room at home was full of toys. I thought children would be happy with more toys, but once Niu Niu said, "There are so many toys at home that I don't know which one to play. It is not as good as when there are fewer toys. " Dad had mixed feelings when he heard this, and he didn't know whether it was right or wrong to buy more toys for his daughter.
With the improvement of living standards, parents will not care too much about buying toys for their children, so many people buy piles of toys for their children like Niu Niu's father, but is this really good for their children?
Research shows that there are three differences between children with more toys and children with fewer toys.
First, children with many toys don't know how to cherish them.
There are many toys at home, and children will not feel much about new toys, because they also have many, and each toy will be fresh for a few days, so they don't know how to cherish it, and some may be destroyed at will.
In contrast, children with fewer toys will know how to cherish and scrub regularly to protect toys from being destroyed. Children will also bring this habit into life, so more toys are not necessarily a good thing.
Second, children with many toys will lose their attention.
Children with many toys may often not know which one they like to play with, but they want to play with another one after this. As a result, children have been wandering between various choices, unable to concentrate on a toy, leading to a decline in will. Children with few toys, because they don't have many choices, can easily concentrate on playing with a toy, which virtually exercises their concentration. Attention is very important in life and work. Parents should cultivate consciously from an early age to prevent children from developing the bad habit of being half-hearted because of too many toys.
Third, there are many children and less contact with the outside world.
Because of the variety of toys, children may not want to go out to play at home every day, or even like to play with other children, so contact with the outside world will be reduced. However, children with fewer toys will prefer to play with other children because they don't have much to play with. In the process, they can learn to share toys and make more friends.
Although toys play an indispensable role in children's growth, it is also a good thing to lack too much. Parents should control the number of toys they buy for their children and choose suitable toys for their children at different stages. The number of toys should be controlled at 3-4, neither too many nor too few. Buy toys for children, try to choose things close to life, let children participate in the labor of life and feel the hard work of their parents. You can also choose toys that are conducive to intellectual development and can make your child's brain smarter.
In fact, what children need most is companionship compared with toys. Many children like to play with toys because their parents have too little company, so they can only pin their happiness on toys. Parents should not try to accompany their children with toys instead of themselves, which will bring harm to their children instead of love. No matter how busy you are at work and how stressful you are, you should take time out for your children.