While feeling that my alma mater has changed a lot, I accidentally saw a familiar face.
When he approached slowly from a distance, I was a little afraid to confirm whether this figure was him or not, until when I approached, I saw a tear mole in the eyebrow corner.
The last time I saw him was when I graduated from college, and he wandered around the colorful dance floor in the circle of friends.
Since I met him, the label of dude has been with him, and the impression has remained there.
After we said hello, we exchanged a few pleasantries and waved goodbye.
Afterwards, Jia Jun told me that it was said that some changes had taken place in his family. For a time, he almost frantically borrowed money from his classmates who didn't know each other very well.
Everyone knows that three people make a tiger, and some things may turn sour if passed down.
Some people say that he spent a lot of money on online loans, while others say that the capital chain of the family business is broken and he owes a lot of money to suppliers. In fact, no one knows the truth and no one cares.
When I got home, I began to think about when I suddenly realized that I wanted to save money.
Probably when you want to accomplish important things in life, if your parents are no longer young, you have to reach out and ask them for money.
Later, I searched Zhihu for "When did you suddenly realize that you should save money?" .
I saw several high praise answers.
I met a senior in my sophomore year. We were having an affair for a while. She said that her favorite car was Audi, and then I looked up a lot of information about Audi.
After listening to the commercial song of Audi for a while, I still remember that melody three years later.
I know this brand is expensive, but I also dream of having a car with a four-circle logo. Not only she but also I like it, haha, so I'm going to start saving money.
I was not born in a rich family, so I can't afford such an expensive car, so I have to save money. I should be able to buy it if I save money.
This is how I realized that I needed to save money.
I have saved for three years, and the deposit has reached hundreds of thousands. Of course, I do all kinds of part-time jobs while saving money to reduce my own expenses, and the effect is good.
However, a sudden serious illness made my efforts almost go up in smoke. Went to the hospital, stayed for more than half a month, and spent a lot of money. Hospital consumption is really high. I looked at the consumption list sent by the nurse every day, and my heart ached. This kind of pain is like Grandet watching others take their gold bars away in front of him.
Now, there is still a little money, and I will always try to make money and save money. I know that money is accumulated bit by bit after accumulating experience. As long as you persist for a long time, you will be surprised if you suddenly find a deposit in your card.
The key is that the card is not bound to any payment method, and there is no SMS reminder, and occasionally a sum of money will be transferred. This is a good way to save money.
I believe that as long as I persist, one day I can afford to drive a car with four circles in front.
Zazie Hoko
Some time ago, my daughter was ill and her adenoids were swollen. The doctor suggested taking them out.
I said, what will happen if you don't remove it? The doctor said, no. By the age of 12, the adenoids will shrink. It may be easy to get inflamed before atrophy, so it will be fine if you take some medicine.
But the doctor added that if it is not removed, it may affect the appearance.
I listened to it, and Baidu looked at it. It looked like an adenoid.
Adenoid hypertrophy will block the nose, switch to oral breathing, and if it goes on for a long time, the patient's chin will shrink, the front teeth will protrude, and the upper lip will not be able to wrap the teeth. When he grows up, he will become that kind of buck-toothed girl.
I have a female colleague who is like this. Her chin is very small. She usually breathes carefully and her lips are tight. She didn't dare to grin. Otherwise, her two huge front teeth are raised and her lips are turned out, which makes her look very ugly.
I asked the doctor, how much is the operation?
The doctor said that the operation on the adenoids will cost about 20,000 yuan, and then your child's teeth must be reshaped. The cost of reshaping is estimated to be at least 20,000 yuan. If better contact teeth are used, the pain of patients will be less, about 40 thousand yuan.
I looked at the contrast in the picture, and felt that female colleagues were probably laughed at since childhood, and they were afraid to laugh when they were old.
I think my daughter loves beauty, likes looking in the mirror, likes all pink things, and likes watching princess series TV movies. I remember her smiling with crooked eyes, innocent and romantic, wearing a princess costume and holding a princess stick.
But now, when she occasionally coquettes in my arms, I can already see that her chin is miniature and her front teeth are protruding day by day, which has gradually coincided with the adenoid face in the picture.
I gave a wry smile and told the doctor that I had to discuss it with my family. The cost is a bit high, and medical insurance can't be reimbursed.
The doctor nodded, and the adenoid hypertrophy had little impact on health, but the longer it dragged on, the greater the impact on appearance.
I walked out of the hospital, and the sun was shining and the trees were dancing. My wife and I looked at each other and sighed. The daughter next to her didn't realize anything, but smiled and said she wanted to buy snacks.
The wife reached out and subconsciously tried to pinch her daughter's open lips, which hurt her daughter. My daughter cried and complained discontentedly, why do you always pinch my mouth? Are you bored?
My wife seems to be angered, and her voice is high and low, telling you to shut up and breathe through your nose. You know what? You know what? ...
My daughter looked at my mother strangely and looked at me. I managed to smile. Come on, have some chicken legs you like.
She suddenly became cheerful. Her little body rushed over and took my hand. Her little head leaned against my arm and rubbed it twice. Dad is the best.
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Fortunately, as early as a few years ago, I have learned a truth: I always have an emergency money at hand!
The longer you live, the longer you stay in this world, the more things you have to hold back and the heavier the burden on your shoulders.
Life, on the whole, is like this.
Nor will it be difficult to find a job because you are old;
Nor will it be because of the economic downturn under the overall general trend;
Not because you work hard and struggle under heavy pressure;
Gentle and generous, good luck.
Instead, you need to plan what you want in advance!
Save money together in 2022!
References:
[1]zhi Hu- when did you suddenly realize that you wanted to save money?
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