Xiaoyan, a daughter who is paralyzed in bed, is pregnant and comes from Fushun, Liaoning. Ms. Liu is Xiao Fang's mother. Ms. Liu said that Xiaoyan was born seven months prematurely and was born with physical disability, with a grade of one. Although Xiaoyan is in her twenties, she looks like a teenager. Xiaoyan has hands and feet, but she can't walk like a normal person because of hypoplasia. For more than 20 years, she can only lie in bed all day. Xiaoyan can't even stand up if no one helps her.
Xiaoyan's father abandoned his mother and daughter shortly after Xiaoyan was born because he didn't want to take care of his daughter. Xiaoyan's mother runs around all day to support her family, leaving early and returning late, which is very hard. Maybe grandma's house is nearby. Xiaoyan's mother keeps the door open all the year round for the convenience of her grandmother to take care of her granddaughter.
Until Xiaoyan's mother found out that her daughter had physical problems. Xiaoyan, who is usually clever and sensible, has recently become silent, and her body is often uncomfortable, which is followed by frequent vomiting. What is even more surprising is that her stomach is getting bigger.
A terrible idea flashed through her mother's mind. She picked up the phone and immediately made an appointment with the doctor. Sure enough, Xiaoyan is pregnant for 3 months! Xiaoyan's mother was angry and puzzled. My daughter is paralyzed in bed all the year round and hardly goes out to contact men. Only their mother and daughter live in the house.
In the face of her mother's threats and inducements, Xiaoyan finally cried and told the truth. It turns out that Xiaoyan has been in bed for a long time and can only be accompanied by a mobile phone. In the dating software of mobile phone, lonely Xiaoyan met a man named "starry sky".
The starry sky is good at chatting, Xiaoyan has a good impression on him in just a few days, and the two have developed into online dating in the long run. After getting to know each other, Staci offered to see him. Xiaoyan reluctantly told him the fact that she was disabled, but he didn't expect Starsky to mind at all, and assured Xiaoyan that he was not a person who only looked at appearances.
Because her mother was often away from home, Xiaoyan got warmth in the starry sky and regarded the starry sky as a spiritual sustenance, so she thought twice and promised her. Soon, the two met at Xiaoyan's house. The starry sky first gave Xiaoyan a warm welcome, and then swore to her that she would definitely come and marry her in the future.
Simple Xiaoyan thought she had met the hero of an idol drama. This love affair lasted for three months. When Xiaoyan found out that she was pregnant and told the starry sky, the other party could no longer contact! Not only is the phone disconnected, but there is no such person in the chat software. At this point, Xiaoyan found herself cheated.
The truth finally came out. Xiaoyan's mother collapsed and blamed herself. She regretted spending too little time with her daughter and hated that she didn't protect her daughter in place, so she gave the bad guys an opportunity. Now everyone has it online, so what should girls pay attention to when they meet netizens?
Don't have money relations with each other. If you don't have any money relationship in the network, you won't feel psychological pressure when you meet, but after meeting, even if you are both satisfied, don't have money relationship, because after a long time, who can predict what will happen later? If you accept the other person's money, you can feel at ease and let the other person buy something for you.
First, he has a bad impression of you. Second, there is no such thing as a free lunch. You have to pay something. But netizens are netizens after all, and there is no long-term life and mutual understanding. Will you regret your contribution? When he returns to his city, he may never be able to contact again.
Because there are a lot of mysteries missing, and because it is impossible to see you all the time, it is more likely that he may still have a home there, so don't have a money relationship with the other party and can't accept property that is not earned by his own labor. Maybe your love or love will last longer.
No physical contact. Although we are not as conservative about these things as before, it is really inappropriate to meet for the first time. Especially netizens, if the other person comes just to make out with you once, then when you really step out of that step, you not only lose the mystery in the other person's heart, but also lose such a friend.
Many men leave after eating, and then never talk to you again. And if you don't live together, you won't know his living habits. If he has any illness, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Be careful.
It is best not to meet in hotels, but to arrange the meeting place in crowded places, some popular restaurants and some crowded parks. If he does anything out of line, you can shout for help, so that you won't lose contact with your netizens. You must protect yourself.
Don't take your net friend home for the first time. The netizen will come to see you, don't arrange to meet at home, and you can't take him home. If he is not your type, you take him home. If you refuse him, if you don't want to make friends, then he can come to your house freely in the future, but you can't move out at once. The most terrible thing is that it may bring trouble to your family. So don't take your net friend home when you meet for the first time.
Meet for the first time, grab the bill at dinner. Now men and women are equal. We don't have to pay the bill when we eat out. We can do our best as a landlord, grab the bill ourselves, and then take him to see the local scenery, which will give each other a good impression. If destiny takes a hand, it will not be the kind of netizen who died of exposure, and the feelings will be deeper and deeper.
Don't accept each other's expensive gifts as a netizen when you meet for the first time. You really don't know enough about it. You can't accept expensive gifts from each other. Even if he wants to give it to you, you have to refuse it. It is not too late to say now, and it is not too late to send it later. This will not only reduce your psychological burden, but also leave a good impression on the other party, and will not make the other party think that you are a greedy girl.
Dress appropriately and have temperament when meeting for the first time. Don't expose yourself when meeting online friends for the first time, don't wear too much, and don't dress too sexy. If you dress too sexy, it will give people the first impression. This girl may be too casual and not suitable for long-term friendship. If the other person comes to you with malice, it will be easy for him to get you. Therefore, it is polite for the other party to dress formally, but also to look good, to ensure their own safety, and also to let the other party retreat from difficulties and have no redundant ideas.