, Chen, and attending the dinner party are getting more and more fermented these two days. After opening the official WeChat account, countless tubas are chasing the wind to comment on this matter.

There are also many people who want to know for the first time:

Who made this video? Is it intended to be made public or not?

It is not uncommon for public figures to be controversial because of videos at dinner parties, or for their images to be damaged.

The most serious thing is that Bi Fujian, a former host of CCTV, attended an open or private dinner and said something he shouldn't have said on a whim. We never seem to have seen him on TV since then.

This candid camera shot almost ruined his life.

To tell the truth, it's really terrible to take candid photos.

And this kind of thing keeps happening.

As ordinary people, we can't imagine the feeling of finding out that we are the characters in the video one day, but I really want to ask, what are the intentions of those photographers at the dinner party?

02

Private dinners are different from other occasions, and the nature of photographers and paparazzi at dinners is also different.

There is a poem that says, "No one asks about the general's solitary grave, and the family affairs of the players are known all over the world."

As a public figure, you need to deal with paparazzi all the time, because paparazzi make a living by news, but the candid photographer at dinner can shoot better than paparazzi.

Private dinner is a very relaxing occasion, at least the people invited by the main family are in the same circle, even if they are not so familiar, they all know the origin.

Only in front of friends can Feng Dao get drunk and Uncle Ming swear half jokingly. ...

Think about it, how important the first day of the new year is. At least everyone has discussed it. On this day, we should get together with friends and relax.

But a friend of mine did take a video and put it online.

I think people at the party will be surprised to see this video.

Shouldn't this be done by paparazzi? When did paparazzi catch fire in the circle of friends? Did he get anything else?

Have you ever been disheveled, made a slip of the tongue after drinking, photographed a small piece of lipstick falling off and someone grinding their teeth after a meal?

A group of public figures shuddered at the thought.

03

Private meals are also like offline WeChat friends circle. We haven't seen each other for a long time. Let's exchange some daily life, express some opinions and have a look together.

But there will still be some people lurking in your circle of friends in the name of friends.

They may be friends, colleagues, customers, or your new WeChat business. In short, everyone could be peeping tom.

The news of some public figures is intercepted from the circle of friends, so who provided the screenshots to the media? Ask my permission? What kind of psychology are you holding?

On second thought, everyone looks like a spy.

A plastic surgeon posted a picture of the patient's postoperative effect in a circle of friends. The next day, the picture was suddenly watermarked and appeared in another colleague's bulletin board.

Some people were lovelorn and sighed in the circle of friends, which attracted speculation and discussion from countless people. Some people are secretly happy, some people are sympathetic, and some people lament. ...

Gradually, more and more people began to stop making friends or even close friends. ...

Because we are afraid that paparazzi who don't know where to lie will peek into other people's lives in the name of friends.

04

There is a topic on Zhihu called "What psychology do people who like to peep have?"

The first sentence that a psychological counselor answered was: "Peeping is not good, but everyone likes it".

Hal Nezewicz, a Toronto writer and social critic, coined a term called "snooping on culture".

"Spy culture is divided into two kinds of people. One kind of people are keen to spread their innermost thoughts through various channels for others to' spy'. Another kind of people like to know all kinds of information of others in time through various channels. These two types of people belong to' spy culture', but they are different:' spy' and' spy'. "

In real life, many people are both voyeurs and voyeurs. It is more and more obvious to be curious about public figures when they meet them.

There are such voyeurs in friends circle and dinner party.

On these two occasions, it doesn't matter if you peek, after all, everyone is watching, but it's wrong for you to secretly photograph it and share it with everyone through other channels, so that the appropriate or inappropriate privacy of the parties can be made public.

There must be something wrong with this kind of person's intentions.

Once you find out, don't say anything, I'll hit you first!