Linger, a four-year-old niece, has begun to show her love for beauty and dance. But the little girl's enthusiasm is often criticized by my sister and I as "disrespecting the elderly", which I objectively describe as "like Sister Furong" behind her back. Although she was not "confident" about her daughter's dance, my sister chose the dance of the kindergarten interest class without hesitation. The reason is: "Do you still need a reason? Children like it! " Don't forget to add, "I don't mean to make her a dancer." This noble reason did not last long. Unconsciously, the original intention of parents has changed qualitatively with the development of reality. Obviously, we didn't realize this until one afternoon, my sister took Linger back from kindergarten with an angry face. "The dance teacher put Linger in the last row and said she wouldn't take the exam, but she couldn't take it anyway." Hearing this, the grandmother was obviously anxious: "Has she been playing with children? I remember that the earliest teacher asked her to stand in the front row and praised her understanding. " With their "analysis", Linger's "guilt" is beyond doubt, and the final conclusion is: "Go to the dance teacher early tomorrow morning to admit your mistake and ask the teacher to discipline you well." Almost, I joined their camp. Suddenly, Shine on the side lost the confidence of Sister Furong, and I was at a loss, trying to get out of this "critical meeting". I pulled Linger aside and tried to ask her in a relaxed tone, "Linger, who dances well in your class?" "Many, Kiki, Beibei, and Meng Meng ..." "Who dances the worst?" "me." "Why?" "The teacher said that I can't dance well, so I don't need to take the exam." I was a little sad, so I sincerely told a lie: "Who said that my aunt thought Linger danced best!" " "Linger looked up at me, a little surprised, but I actually saw those things often described in literary works-"her eyes lit up. "In fact, I have no experience in educating children, but today I am very proud of my performance. At this moment, I feel that Linger and I are standing together, and even feel that I have "saved" the children's confidence. I told linger with emphasis, "I let you take dance lessons because you like it." It doesn't matter what you jump, nor does the last row. We won't pass the exam. If you like dancing, we will continue to dance. "I told my sister: Don't forget the original intention of sending Linger to the dance class. Now, Linger is still a "fanatical dancer" at home, and my sister and I continue to stand behind her laughing our heads off-what does it matter, as long as the children like it! After editing, "Parents are the Greatest! "Yes, and this greed is gradually" overweight "and endless. First of all, prospective parents want a healthy baby. When a healthy baby is born, they ask the child to be smart and beautiful. The most terrible thing is that children go to school, taking children and classmates as a reference, asking children to get the first place in the exam, asking children to go to key schools and even famous universities ... think about the original intention of having children. We strive to make our children healthy and happy! Recommend Weibo Daxie Health official meager Xu infertility expert to re-treat Huang, the father of Chongqing IVF, and Huang Yong, director of cardiovascular surgery in the Second Affiliated Hospital.