Better to marry than to learn well. This sentence is absolutely true in the hearts of rural parents. Now parents in rural areas feel that their daughters don't need to read so many books, and they need to get married one day. Therefore, it is useless for a daughter to read so many books. It is better to find a good husband's family to marry in the future. After all, studying now does not mean that the salary is high. It is more practical for parents to find a good husband's family. Therefore, it is better to study well than to marry well. This sentence is said from reality. Now it is not so easy to make money in this society, prices are so high and house prices are so high. Are you also learning to find a job, a better job and a higher salary? Then it's a shortcut if you find your husband's family. Similarly, you don't have to study, you are also thick and material conditions can be high. In this way, their parents don't have to waste money to send their daughters to school. Daughters can still live in better living conditions.

Better get married than study hard. This sentence is understood from the perspective of parents. It's just that my daughter doesn't have to study so hard, and it's so difficult to find a job and a life after reading a book. But as children, we understand this sentence, that is, parents seem to prefer boys to girls, and feel as if parents are even more reluctant to give their daughters money for school. As soon as parents say this, their daughters will feel that they don't particularly love themselves, and some girls with strong personalities will quarrel and fight.

In fact, I don't think it's completely unreasonable to learn well than to marry well. I am also the mother of the child now, and I can understand the idea of being a parent. Can't say this sentence is wrong, mainly depends on who you say it to. If it is true that her daughter has no talent for learning and is unwilling to go to school, then it is more practical for her to learn as well as to marry. If the daughter is smart, competitive and studious, then the sentence that it is better to learn well than to marry well becomes her obstacle. Therefore, we should look at everything from two aspects. "It is better to get married than to study hard" has different functions for people with different personalities and talents. This is the same as teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Teachers know that we as parents should understand.

Only when parents fully understand their children can they know which direction their talents are more suitable for. Now many parents are trying to make money, but they seldom stay at home with their children, so they basically don't know much about their children, so I hope all daughters can spend more time with their parents, and parents should spend more time with their daughters.