Realize it or regret it.

I'm an undertaker.

Similar to the Japanese movie "Embarrassment", when I first chose this career, my family expressed their incomprehension and strong opposition. For a long time, many people don't understand this profession. Whenever people hear that I am a mortician, they will ask: Aren't you afraid of touching dead people every day? One of my colleagues answered very well: nothing in this world is more terrible than the living.

I was a little scared when I first became a mortician, but I gradually got better. I can now face my career and others' incomprehension. My experience as an undertaker has benefited me a lot. The stories I experienced and saw taught me how to live.

I once buried a girl who died young. After the funeral that day, one of his friends told me that she was a friend he had known for a long time, and the car accident suddenly happened. Hearing the news, he was surprised for a long time, his fingertips were cold and his heart ached. He said that the last time he saw her was before he returned to Jiaxing last year. Before we left, we had dinner together and met again. I didn't expect to hear such misfortune suddenly a few months later.

She is only 24 years old, very young, full of life, and has a lot of things she wants to do, but she has no chance.

He told me that she once told him that she really wanted to go out for a walk like him, but she always sang as the song goes: when there is time, there is no money, and when there is money, there is no time.

He smiled and said to her, is there no money, no time and no determination? In fact, it doesn't need much money to draw up a good route, and it doesn't take a few days to go to a place. You're not worried at all. Everyone wants you to be short of money. Going out is actually a very simple thing. The key is to see if you want to.

She was embarrassed to tell him that it was also true. Like you said, it's all excuses. People always like to find excuses for being lazy, postpone some yearning indefinitely, and then sit there and sigh and envy others.

She smiled shyly and said, I know, it's warm, so I'll go out and see the place I've been longing for for for a long time.

After the Spring Festival, the season has begun to move towards spring, but she suddenly left this world and never had a chance again. Death is not terrible, leaving too many regrets.

Another not-too-distant story comes to mind: they are going to get married soon, but the depressed girl fell from the 18 floor and died. The wedding turned into a funeral, and it all happened so suddenly. The boy told me that because they were going to get married soon, he bought a good and expensive dress for his fiancee, who was very happy, but accused him of spending money for himself. Because she is a poor couple, the fiancee who is used to it has been reluctant to wear it. She hangs it in the best position in the closet and brushes dust on it every day, saying that she will wear it on her wedding day. Unexpectedly, in less than three days, his fiancee fell to her death. The dress he didn't want to wear all the time only became the funerary object of his fiancee. After that, the boy burst into tears and said why not do something for her earlier. He wasted so much money on smoking and drinking that he could buy his fiancee many things she likes. Why doesn't he even want to wear a skirt? Today they paid me100000, but all I can give you is a temple sacrifice.

Each of us has such aspirations and ideas, however, these have been postponed indefinitely for various reasons and excuses. Time and life will not love a person because of waiting, but will only leave you with all kinds of regrets.

It is often said that I love her very much, but I am poor now. I want her to live a good life and marry her when I have money. As we all know, she can stay with you not because you have money, but because she has money, and she can choose others. What she wants is the feeling of being with you, the eternal feeling of being with you. Maybe you will have money, maybe you won't, and there is no time limit for these delays.

I often hear people say that I like traveling. When I have time and money, I will go to all the places I want to go and visit the mountains and rivers of the motherland. But I waited until I was white-haired and didn't step out of the house.

People often say that I will go home to see my parents when I have time; When I have money, I will take my parents to the city for a few days. Wait for me. ...

Who will wait for you?

Our ears are always filled with all kinds of waiting sounds. What will I do when I have time? What will I do when I have money? When I retire, I will do it. As a result, all kinds of beautiful things are delayed indefinitely, some can never wait, and some even wait, do you still have the original mood and people?

Most regrets come from waiting. Everyone has many plans and wishes, which are either realized or regretted. This is the life that I, an embalmer, understand now. May there be less regrets and more feelings in the world.

You can fold flowers straight, don't wait until there are no flowers. * * * Whatever you want.

After 90 years, Ji became a mortician.