1. The counselor should fully respect and warm the person seeking help

The counselor should be able to accept the person asking for help, respect the person asking for help, and be able to tolerate or even accept the other person's different views, habits, etc. Counselors should not view themselves as superior experts, but should view those who come for counseling as equals.

2. Counselors should treat clients with a positive attitude

This requires counselors to emphasize their strengths and use their own positive factors to promote their growth.

3. Counselors must be able to “love” with patients

Love is the ability to experience the spiritual world of others as if it were part of one’s own spiritual world. kind of ability. Failure to do this will lead to the other person thinking that you don't understand him, don't understand what he's going through, or don't care about him at all.

4. The attitude should be sincere and trustworthy

The counselor should talk to the client honestly and express his or her thoughts directly, rather than letting the client guess what the counselor is saying. The true meaning or to imagine whether everything he did included any other information. On the one hand, counselors want clients to treat themselves truly. On the other hand, counselors should treat the seekers sincerely.