It is not easy to be feminine. A woman without a certain cultural background, cultivation level and life experience can't make intoxicating taste. Women in the world are nothing more than wandering between ladies and bitches. No one naturally wants to be a bitch, but being an elegant woman and a woman with taste is every woman's beautiful dream. Beautiful = feminine? Don't! This is like the relationship between the appearance and fragrance of a flower: a flower may have enchanting petals and bright purple, but it is not necessarily faint fragrance, and the shadow is oblique; Materials can't be piled with femininity. Chanal, lancome, Dior and LV are always just women's skin. Feminine flavor is a charming atmosphere from the inside out, a lake in the moonlight and a lily that blooms quietly. A woman who has lost her femininity is like a flower that has lost its fragrance and a bright moon. From a higher perspective, femininity is a fundamental attribute of women, a kind of connotation, and a woman's "nature". Women in men's eyes are mostly sexy, coquettish, charming and amorous feelings. However, isn't it a bit old-fashioned to define femininity along such lines? Today's femininity has given birth to some new connotations and extensions. A woman's first taste: taste. This is the foundation of femininity. A woman who has no taste can only be pale no matter how you practice. Willing to learn, often charging; Read newspapers and current affairs news, not just fashion magazines and gossip news all day; Always surf the internet and browse news and current affairs. . . . . . These are not to increase friends' conversation resources, but to give themselves more spiritual accumulation. If it's too boring, you might as well watch a popular movie. But the eyeball should not be limited to the plot, but should see something different from it. I only remember Maggie Cheung and exquisite cheongsam in In the Mood for Love, and Hepburn's hairstyle in Roman Holiday was superficial. We should understand the tenderness in their bones and the running water in their souls. Besides, learning foreign languages, practicing calligraphy, learning tea ceremony and arranging flowers, and practicing yoga are all good choices to cultivate taste. The second taste of women: fragrance. The third taste of women: light taste. This is an elegance, a calmness, and a leisurely pursuit of life and life goals. Have independent personality, independent economic support and independent ideological realm. Love money, but no copper smell. It is a pleasure for others to watch her make money. She even loves money gracefully, making money to buy flowers and clothes by herself. Many women lose their elegance once they get involved with money. Why? Because of the wrong attitude towards money, the wrong way and posture to make money, it is inevitable that you will stink all over, and you will be criticized by men angrily as a strong woman or a rich girl. Socrates is famous for his philosophy and his shrew wife, so "if you get a good wife, you can get happiness;" Marry a bad wife and you will become a philosopher. "It seems that sometimes it is a good thing not to be feminine, at least it can make a philosopher. _ _ However, there are too few men who can become philosophers in real life, so women never stop showing our own femininity and fragrance, thus achieving the best man in the world. ^_^