A girl wrote to a blogger that although she loves sports, even though she wears a sports bra, her chest will still shake during exercise.
And this kind of shaking is often very painful, and may even cause hunchback.
Of course, people will say, "big breasts and no brains."
In the comments, many girls complained about the troubles of big breasts: they were fat, they felt in the way, they didn't buy the right shoulder bag, and they were always regarded with special respect at school ... Some netizens even commented:
Of course it's small. Well, isn't it embarrassing to be older?
Seeing this, I can't help wondering: On the one hand, there are endless breast enhancement products, and on the other hand, girls with big breasts are complaining.
So the question is, how big are girls' breasts?
There are always ways to overcome and adapt to the inconvenience in life. I think what is really embarrassing is "other people's strange eyes at school", "running will shake", "not reserved" and "big chest and no brain"
To put it bluntly, it's easy to do your own thing.
In this regard, I want to say:
The size of girls' breasts has nothing to do with their brain capacity, knowledge level and self-love.
If we can't free ourselves from the narrow aesthetic standards, not only the size of breasts, but also everything about women's bodies will become "inappropriate" sooner or later.
( 1)
I am also a girl with big breasts.
Because the body develops early and the chest develops quickly.
But the girls around me are almost in the sixth grade, and some girls are much more teased and ridiculed than me.
Play with girls' shoulder straps, take out the menstrual towel from the desk and pass it on to other boys, and comment on girls who can't go to physical education class. ...
In particular, several girls with dark skin were bullied by boys until they cried.
Perhaps all this can be called young "not sensible". But it is not difficult to see that women's figure, menstruation and appearance seem to be easy for men to talk about from an early age.
In junior high school, the most impressive thing is the physical examination. At that time, the doctor reported that my chest circumference was 93, and I also noticed a group of boys standing outside the transparent glass wall of the medical examination room, most of whom I didn't know.
Later, the boys I like told me that they all know that my bust is 93.
At that moment, I even wanted to find a hole to get into.
I don't know what it feels like, embarrassed, shy, speechless … even a little resentful. I even blame myself why I have breasts, why I am fat, and why I have 93.
Because those eyes outside the window are mostly joking, exploring and mocking. Maybe there is no malice, but there is absolutely no goodwill.
Fortunately, I soon got out of this mood, and the troubles of adolescence did not take away too much energy and time.
Moreover, the hardships I have suffered are much better than other fat girls with poor grades, bad looks and big breasts.
But those strange eyes and unscrupulous teasing have not disappeared.
Because the "size" hidden under the school uniform has not disappeared, those unspeakable fantasies have not disappeared, and the comments on women's bodies have not disappeared.
(2)
Maybe someone will tell me: women think small breasts are good, men think big breasts.
But in fact, no matter who feels good, it is not as good as women themselves.
They have the right to choose the figure they want, the dress style and makeup, and the comfortable lifestyle.
They shouldn't be ashamed of other people's eyes. What girls need to learn is to "love themselves".
To love yourself is not only to accept your imperfect body, but also to learn to cherish and cherish your unique soul.
Don't feel embarrassed, don't feel embarrassed, don't feel "someone is watching you".
From the size of underwear to the style of shoulder bag, from suspenders to white shirts, from suits to long skirts, there is always the most suitable one waiting for you on the road.
As the saying goes, "not all girls are made of candy, spices and beautiful things." Some girls are born to represent adventure, wisdom and fearlessness. "
So, dear, the size of your chest can't reflect your connotation, narrow aesthetics can't kidnap your confidence, and other people's evaluation and vision can't determine your pattern.
Sexy and pure have their own beauty and unique charm.
You walk in the street with your head held high, brave and confident, and that sparkling look is the most beautiful.
(3)
Remember Jin in Beijing Satellite TV's "I am an orator"? Originally J-cup, in order to lead a normal life, she had 10 times and 17 times of plastic surgery.
Knowing her experience, I didn't know how much influence other people's pointing and verbal insults had on a girl.
She has never worn a halter top, never dived or swam.
Because of her big breasts, she hasn't been to the public toilet since she was thirteen.
Because of her big chest, the protrusion on her chest during PE class made her extremely embarrassed;
Because of her big breasts, she was nicknamed "big breasts" and "choppy";
Because of her big breasts, at a party in middle school, a boy took advantage of her to go to the toilet and dragged her into a dark room to molest her;
Because of her big breasts, she had a breast reduction operation at her own expense, and there was no way to ask for help everywhere. She was cheated to South Korea for plastic surgery and failed. ...
But all this is to live a "normal" life and live with real dignity.
Now, she has become a performance agent, and after work, she will answer questions about plastic surgery for netizens on Weibo.
Through her story, I saw a girl's strong heart, but I couldn't help thinking:
How many girls have been kidnapped by aesthetics?
How long will it take us to truly respect every woman, their bodies, their dignity and their lives?
Some people always don't understand that girls' breasts are not for you to touch, their legs are not for you to see, and coming home late is not for you to take advantage of.
Nowadays, we are still too sensitive to the characteristics of the opposite sex, and the ultimate result of impulsiveness over reason is that respect is gone.
If people around Kim can give her more respect, will her inferiority and psychological burden be less, and the tragedy in the first half of her life may not happen.
If she doesn't get the respect she deserves because of her big breasts, why is the so-called "normal life" so far away?
Emma Charlotte Duerre Watson mentioned in her speech at the United Nations: "If we stop defining each other by our differences and face ourselves (regardless of gender) from now on, we will all be more free."
Now it seems that men have encountered the same problem. For example: "Why is your stomach so fat? Not even the abdominal muscles. "
Does that sound familiar?
Is this like "Why are your breasts so small, airport?" And "why are your breasts so big that they are shaking when you run?"
I think if we don't take action, not only girls with big breasts, but also girls with flat breasts, fat girls, girls with thick legs, girls with muscles, girls with strange hairstyles and girls with small eyes and no double eyelids.
20 16, mentioned in TED's speech. The "genital plastic surgery" of young girls increased by 80% in 20 14-20 15, which is simply amazing.
It can be seen that deformed and strict aesthetic standards not only bring us dissatisfaction with our bodies, but also destroy our bodies and minds.
and then
What if it's a boy without chest muscles?
Boys under one meter eight
A boy with a bad haircut.
A handsome and slim boy.
No, love sweating doesn't like sports boys.
A boy with a sensitive and fragile nature
Finally, will there be "that kind" transplantation between male groups?
Anything that enters the scope of public scrutiny will be judged by others' eyes.
We can't let ourselves never appear in the eyes of others, but we can decide how we look at others and the world.
Facts have proved that after ten years, the unequal treatment we received still exists.
If we still pay great attention to appearance and neglect to broaden our horizons, we should look at the people around us with respect, tolerance and appreciation.
Sooner or later, we will all be victims of narrow aesthetics.
I hope that one day, no matter how tall or thin, every girl and boy can live happily.