Although with the blending of Chinese and western cultures, our thoughts are becoming more and more open. But in rural areas, women who have been married twice will still be discriminated against. If an unmarried man marries a second-married woman, he will certainly be laughed at by some people who are not afraid of big things.
Unmarried men marrying second wives will give people the illusion that the man is in poor condition and will choose to marry second wives. Such a man either has no economic conditions or his personal conditions are not high, so he will be looked down upon. In rural areas, second-married women generally marry three types of people.
One is divorced or widowed men in rural areas. This kind of person has married experience because he has been married. In the eyes of divorced women, such people are their best choice.
Second, unmarried men over the age of 35 in rural areas. In the eyes of divorced women, at this age, with certain life experience, mature thinking and caring for others, they will choose to marry these older bachelors.
The third kind is young people, who have less money and are difficult to marry. In rural areas, many rural families are worried about finding a partner for their children because of "fewer girls and higher bride price". Even during the Chinese New Year, some girls don't come back, and there are no relatives in the countryside. In this case, many young men who can't find a wife will find a second wife.
Most married women have suffered a lot in marriage, because in their feelings, most women have always been passive and weak, so women are the most vulnerable party.
There are quite a few women who will change their personality after being hurt, and they no longer believe in marriage at all, and some even have some revenge psychology, so many people will not choose a woman who has been married twice.
Even if a woman has never been hurt, divorce means that this woman can't handle her feelings well, and many unmarried men won't choose to marry them.