As a formal husband and wife family, women can't avoid contact with their husbands every day, so even if they exclude each other from their hearts, they can only show their attitude and appearance of putting marriage first. However, the person who knows her best is always her husband who sleeps with her.
Of course, as a woman's husband, it is easy to perceive the change of his wife, especially his perfunctory attitude towards himself, which makes him more disappointed and chilling. Among them, the derailed woman will have three perfunctory attitudes that are almost intentionally or unintentionally conveyed to him.
One: deliberately avoid her husband's approach when sleeping at night.
A married woman with another man in her heart, even if her own husband touches her, will make every cell in her resist. Therefore, what women who cheat are most afraid of is the coming of night, sharing a bed with their husbands.
Therefore, women will use various methods to avoid intimate contact with their husbands, either feeling unwell or pretending to go to bed early. For such a wife, men will not be reluctant, and even choose to believe it again and again. Until they can't convince themselves, they will start investigating and begging for words.
However, when a woman feels that it is inevitable, she can only make concessions and compromise, and perfunctory her husband once with false physical feelings. In fact, as a husband who knows her very well, I can feel it at once. However, some of them are bitter, and there is no evidence. I dare not be too explicit for the time being.
Two: Caring for the busy husband in a perfunctory manner.
Women occasionally feel ashamed of their husbands' infidelity, but as soon as they come into contact with men outside, they will quickly put this idea behind them, and then they will start to feel ashamed after the passion and always want to do something to make up for their marriage.
But this is only a short-lived emotion, and practical actions are difficult to implement. And when you see your husband working hard for the family, women will also care about her husband's health in a perfunctory way, but this is only a hypocritical concern.
As her husband, I can tell from my wife's eyes and attitude whether I care about her or not. This perfunctory attitude again and again will only make him more suspicious of his wife, and then start to pay attention to some clues about her.
Three: communicate with your husband about things at home and hurry up.
When couples live together, they will face many things about their families. Neither children nor elders can avoid the facts that can be discussed together. For cheating women, these have become very light in their hearts and are not so important.
Therefore, when communicating with family affairs, we can obviously feel the perfunctory attitude of women, and men will slowly fade away their enthusiasm and finally become their own masters. It doesn't matter whether this wife is involved or not.
Even the basic daily family communication, women are perfunctory, which only shows that her derailment has penetrated into the bone marrow, and it is almost difficult to return to marriage and family. A man divorces if he has evidence, and waits patiently for her to be mercilessly abandoned by her lover if he has no evidence. This is the result of high probability!