Thursday, March 31, 2022 Rain
Most people who have read "A Dream of Red Mansions" are deeply impressed by Jia Baoyu's words. He said: "Daughters are flesh and blood made of water, and men are flesh and blood made of mud. When I see a daughter, I feel refreshed, but when I see a man, I feel turbid and smelly." This sentence is really very appealing to women, No wonder the girls in Grand View Garden all like Baoyu. Women are indeed as beautiful as water, soft and intelligent.
"A Dream of Red Mansions" is really a daughter's world, a kingdom of youth. The success of this magnificent book is not only due to Mr. Cao Xueqin's profound knowledge, but also because he understands and understands women. The young girls in his works are like clusters of flowers, they are so charming and lovable. Daiyu is talented, charming, and full of worries, Baochai is plump, generous, considerate, and versatile, Xifeng is experienced, scheming, and good at maneuvering, Tanchun is shrewd, capable, and talented, and Miaoyu is aloof and arrogant.
Even the shrew Xia Jingui and the slut Duo girl, every woman in the book is extremely unique and lifelike. They are simply replicas of many little characters in reality, which leaves a very deep impression on people. There are only differences between women, including three religions and nine schools, high and low, and high and low grades. All we can give them is praise or contempt.
This era should be the best era for women. Women have obtained the same rights as men, enjoy education, medical care, work, etc., have become independent individuals who can survive without relying on men, and have gained Equality in the true sense of the word. In fact, women’s feet have been bound for thousands of years, and modern society should allow women to move forward freely.
Of course, except for the beautiful, intelligent and talented girls in "A Dream of Red Mansions" who are lovable. There was a time when I liked Zhang Ailing very much. I remember the writer Chi Li said that Zhang Ailing is a ray of sunshine on the plateau. She wears a cheongsam when she is born and wears a cheongsam when she dies. She loves China when she is alive and loves China until she dies...a woman full of talent and talent.
Zhang Ailing has always been a woman outside the world. Call her "the most sober and lonely person" or call her an "independent and lonely flower". In short, she has always been different from everyone else. Coming from a famous family brought Zhang Ailing a good education and vision. Zhang Ailing has her own position in the entire history of Chinese literature. Her unique writing style has influenced generations of literary youth.
In fact, both Zhang Ailing and ordinary women have their own opinions. It's hard to be a woman, but it's even harder to be a pure woman. I used to feel sad for those women who were so focused on pleasing men that they were thin and fat, but I admired the Queen Zetian who ruled the world and had great talents and strategies. In fact, this is not necessary. Every woman has her own plans and ideas for life. Some women are dependent on others, or they are not inferior to men. Each has its own merits, and they cannot be the same for everyone.
In fact, every woman has to go through life from Xiaodan to Huadan, then to Qingyi, and finally to Laodan. As a woman, of course, I hope that I will be beautiful at 20 years old, mature at 30 years old, still charming at 40 years old, and noble and graceful at 50 years old. This is actually a right that women should have. Every woman’s pursuit of beauty is always on the road.
No matter how many clothes a woman has, she will still feel like she has no clothes; no matter how thin a woman is, she will still be on the road to losing weight; no matter how beautiful a woman is, she will continue to work hard in the career of plastic surgery. In fact, it is not ridiculous or shameful to imitate others. Women’s pursuit of beauty is as tireless as men’s pursuit of career. Managing beauty is a natural career for women.
In addition to beauty, women are also naturally thirsty for love. They are not just obsessed with love, but also passionate. Women in love are beautiful and silly. They value selfishness, commitment and loyalty. Love is beyond life to them. You can't say that women and men are not equal in the scale of love. Women pay too much and are too easily satisfied. On the back of the photo that Zhang Ailing sent to Hu Lancheng, there was a sentence written on it: "After meeting him, she became very low." , low into the dust, flowers bloom from the dust." Love itself cannot be measured by "fairness", let alone a woman's willingness. She not only believes that harvesting love is a kind of happiness, but cultivating love is also a kind of happiness.
Women must have a noble personality and unyielding dignity as a strong backing. Don't be self-admiring, and don't give up on yourself. Neither being arrogant nor humble should be a woman's eternal temperament. When a woman does great things, it is always bitter and sweet.
Modern society requires more from women. They must be able to work in the hall and in the kitchen, and be a good hand both inside and outside. As a woman, you must also be brave enough to accept challenges and take on responsibilities. We cannot and should not push too many social and family responsibilities onto men.
We have seen that many women have become role models for mankind: Mrs. Thatcher, Mrs. Soong Ching Ling, Dr. Lin Qiaozhi, Ms. Wu Yi, Xie Bingxin, Lin Huiyin, Zhang Ailing... They all smile with every smile. Charming and moving, their every move is resolute; they can enjoy the romance of romance, and they can also have the spirit to guide the country and criticize the way.
Contemporary women must have their own sense of the times and responsibility. "Beauty from the inside out" can make people feel the inner elegance and beauty of a woman even when she gets older. Women are as gentle and beautiful as water.
When a woman achieves self-respect, self-love and self-improvement, she can be a pure woman and a happy woman.