A few years later, my husband went out to work with others and had an accident. Afterwards, the other party gave some compensation, but for this family, especially for Aunt Gu's in-laws, the pain of losing a child was unbearable. It wasn't long before the old couple passed away, leaving Aunt Gu and her daughter alone.
After the in-laws' funeral, a neighbor advised Aunt Gu to remarry. After all, she is still young, and Aunt Gu, who is already full of fear of marriage, never wants to step into marriage again. In this way, she raised her daughter by herself for her study until her daughter graduated from graduate school.
My daughter is 33 years old after finishing graduate school. If she hadn't gone to school, she would have married and had children at her age. However, after graduating from graduate school, my daughter has been busy with work and has no time to talk about the object. In addition, because of the particularity of her work, she has almost no friends of the opposite sex. Anxious Aunt Gu began to worry about her daughter's lifelong events, and she began to linger at the major blind date scenes, even at the expense of her daughter's blind date.
Although Aunt Gu suffered a lot when she was young and in her marriage, it was because she was afraid of poverty that Aunt Gu had a deep obsession with money. In Aunt Gu's cognition, as long as you have money, you can live a good life and your marriage can be happy.
In the process of giving her daughter a blind date, she first asked her about her work, whether she had a car or a house, and then made a wonderful request to her, that is, she wanted a bride price of 300 thousand, because in Aunt Gu's view, her daughter was a graduate student, and if she didn't want a bride price of 300 thousand, she would be sorry for her high education.
Naturally, no man promised Gu Ayi's wonderful request. When they meet a man with a little temper, they will look back at their aunt and say, "You are a 33-year-old girl, and you dare to ask for a bride price of 300,000 yuan. You are really crazy about money. " Aunt Gu was angry when she heard this, but she didn't change her wonderful request, but she became more determined.
After reading this story, Uncle Qiang felt sad, sad for Aunt Gu's daughter, and even more sad for Aunt Gu. For her daughter, her mother's morbid psychology will definitely become the biggest obstacle to her marriage, and what she can't accept is that her mother's starting point is deep love.
As for Aunt Gu's sadness, it is because she did not correctly guide the experience of that year, but let it develop freely until she formed this morbid psychology today.
At this point, Uncle Qiang still wants to reiterate that the bride price is not a necessity for marriage, and it is not the basis for a happy marriage. At best, it is icing on the cake. Therefore, I hope that everyone will treat the bride price rationally and put the truth of the bride price on the feelings of both sides. As for the problem of older young women, Uncle Qiang still holds the same view. Don't always follow other people's ideas, but follow your own heart. If your heart is sunny, it is warm everywhere.