People at a disadvantage are often inferior and dissatisfied with their own shortcomings. Appreciating yourself is the beginning of self-confidence, recognizing your uniqueness, treating your advantages and disadvantages rationally and objectively, and treating your gains and losses calmly. People who can often make appropriate comments on themselves can not only understand themselves, but also accept themselves and appreciate the value of their existence. A person who accepts himself can always understand the shortcomings and accept the advantages perfectly, and then he will constantly overcome the shortcomings, thus constantly improving himself, balancing his mentality and steadily moving towards success.
Take sophia loren as an example. When she first entered the film industry, she auditioned several times. The makeup artist said that her nose is too long, and some parts of her body are not ideal enough, so that the whole body is not harmonious enough. She advised her to have plastic surgery, but she refused to change her appearance. In the end, she won the favor of everyone with her unique acting skills, achieved success with her original appearance, and became one of the famous actors overnight.
It can be seen that learning to appreciate yourself is a good quality.
At the same time, appreciating others is also a kind of tolerance, discovery, understanding, wisdom and realm. In this world, you can't find perfection, and everything has defects. The thing is that people should be like this, so don't lose heart. Everyone has a bright side and a dark side, but to varying degrees. Therefore, we should accept others with a broad mind, strive to improve ourselves, work actively and enhance our personal value.
From ancient times to the present, there is an unchangeable rule in the change of Japan's view on China: in the heyday of China, Japan recognized China, while in the decline of China, Japan did not. At first, the Japanese regarded China as a civilized country and learned from it in all aspects. Lee Oe-hyun, a Japanese research expert, said, "At that time, the Japanese were hungry for all the knowledge about China. When they visited China, they even brought back newspapers from roadside stalls to study. These tabloids are now valuable materials for studying the ancient culture of China. "
If you are self-centered, selfish consideration will become a major flaw in your character, and it will also affect the people around you, thus hindering your progress and improvement; On the contrary, people who are good at understanding and appreciating others will always be appreciated and praised by more people, thus forming a good development space and creating harmonious interpersonal relationships.
Appreciating others is a state, being kind to others is a kind of happiness, uniting others is a kind of ability, forgiving others is a kind of connotation and learning from others is a kind of ability.
Look at others with appreciation, then life will be rich and colorful, and people will be harmonious.