Sugar Cube Reading Club? Weekly Report (Total Issue 08)

One issue at a time, sharing the sweetness of Sugar Cube with you

As of December 25, 2019, There are 444 global leaders of Fangtang Reading Club, located in 124 cities around the world. Since the official launch of this plan on June 28, 2018, all Fangtang leaders have worked together and relied entirely on the power of the system to grow from obscurity to flourishing and blooming everywhere.

Many new leaders decided to become a Sugar Cube after they participated in the Sugar Cube Reading Club and felt the power of it. I think this system truly achieves this: everyone influences everyone, everyone serves everyone, and everyone supports everyone.

Brother Dao and I, as co-founders of the Tangtang Book Club system, have never felt that Sugarcube belongs to both of us. From the moment it was born, it is what we want to give to the world. A seed. This seed will fly on its own, meet different people, take root in different soils, until it blooms into many flowers, fragrant and sweet in this world.

As founders, our original intention is: in this era,

We do not spread anxiety,

We do not sell knowledge,

We don’t sell emotions.

We just want to be down-to-earth, truthful, and honest, and popularize and disseminate the good things from our own spiritual practice and postmodern narrative therapy that have profoundly affected our lives, so that more people can fall in love with them. Fall in love with yourself, fall in love with the people around you, fall in love with this beautiful aqua blue planet.

——Founder of Fangtang Reading Club@马Ranran

?The scene of life stories?

01 Listening to other people’s stories is also listening to yourself< /p>

Teacher Wu Yundi, leader of Fangtang Reading Club in Ningbo, Zhejiang Province

A book friend said that it was only at this age that he realized that he needed to improve his cultivation. Originally, he must have gone to play mahjong, but now, he chose to come to the reading club. Because it is pure and simple, there is no need to pretend or brag to each other.

A book friend said that this kind of reading would be very interesting and fun. He said it was the most interesting one he had ever attended. (Although he keeps his eyes open during meditation) He said that he does not trust others easily, so he will not follow other people's instructions. I saw his sincerity and truth, and I accept you like this.

A book friend said that he has been very anxious recently, very anxious. When reading, you also want to get useful information as quickly as possible. Comparing yourself with others, you think that others are very good, but you think that you are not good enough. In my eyes, he is already very good. I saw his strength to work hard no matter what the situation was. His smile is very healing.

A book friend said that as soon as he opened this book, he felt the beauty, texture, and delicacy, and he couldn't stop reading the text. I felt that she was so connected that I gave her a copy on the spot. (Letting a book find its owner is my favorite thing)

She said that she felt this place was very warm and comfortable. She felt like a spiritual spa. She was on the verge of tears from the corners of her eyes while meditating. When she put her hands on her heart, she felt a warm energy.

A book friend completed the 2020 Jiugongge as soon as he returned home. I felt his strong desire to change and his seriousness and focus on himself.

In fact, when you listen to other people’s stories, you are also listening to yourself.

Because of a certain fate, this story appears around us.

02 Live your most dazzling self through soaking in sugar cubes!

Leader of Sugar Cube Reading Club in Zaozhuang, Shandong Province - Teacher Hu Le'e

Thank you Xiaoning and Wenjing for their encouragement, careful decoration, flowers and cakes, and wholehearted companionship.

At the end of 2019, I allowed myself to walk into a wider space and came to Shijing Bookstore to lead this reading meeting with my old friends. I broke through my previous fear of new environments, dare not show myself, and fear of not doing well, and stabilized myself. Be fully present in the present moment!

Although there are still many aspects that need to be improved, the language skills are more precise and more appropriate. I will no longer judge today! I’m so happy to take this step! I would also like to thank all my reading partners for their full cooperation, careful sharing, and the cohesiveness and centripetal force of the same frequency, which has brought me a lot of emotion.

I really enjoyed today’s reading, the connection of love, and touching the underlying vibrations of life. The sparkling tears are the awakening, seeing, and deeper understanding of wanting to live my own life! Be grateful for every life. Through soaking in sugar cubes, you can live your most dazzling self!

I was deeply attracted by these elegant mature aunts. Listening to their stories and their persistence in self-growth, my eyes became moist again and again. The beauty of life is like a flower blooming.

——@高晓宁, leader of Shandong Zaozhuang Fangtang Reading Club

Having you here, aunt, is stable and real. The reality of us Xuecheng people is particularly real. , I was nourished and healed, and my connection with Mother Earth became more and more real! Thank you, the most real you!

——@文婧, leader of the Fangtang Reading Club in Zaozhuang, Shandong

03 Writing makes the heart clearer and more powerful

Leader of the Fangtang Reading Club in Urumqi, Xinjiang Person - Teacher Yan Xin

On December 21, 2019, I am very grateful to the beautiful and gentle teacher Yan Xin for carefully preparing a rich review appointment for us. So far, what I remember most is the first reading club of 2019 I attended on January 18. I listened carefully to others and myself. As time went by, my heart became clearer, and I seemed to relax a lot. The days have become lighter...

Facing the last review of 2019, looking back on the entire 2019, there was laughter, peace, and peace of mind, but also anxiety, confusion, and hesitation. When I came to the venue, saw familiar faces, and read the words in the book about constantly seeing myself clearly, some things were released and some things were absorbed.

Yes, how to become strong within and have the ability to live happily? As an ordinary person, we always love expectations and fantasies. However, the reality is that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. If you get out of a relationship, how do you get out of the expectations of others and find yourself? This review raised a lot of questions for myself, and I seemed to have found the answers from the questions.

In 2020, this is a gift to yourself: love yourself well, come on!

——Fangtang Reading Club Partner@朱AMA

The first time I attended the Fangtang Reading Club was in January this year. I remember when it came to writing, I picked up the pen and I didn’t know What to write. But today, I picked up the pen and within a few minutes, I was able to write non-stop, writing about my mood, my own worries, and some of my thoughts. I didn’t have to think about the connection between sentences or the modification of words. I just wanted to write about it. Just keep writing. After I finished writing, I found that I felt much better, and I was thinking that maybe this was the role of the reading club.

When a book friend picked up a picture and expressed her thoughts about that picture, I discovered that it was actually the picture I chose when I first participated in a book club. The back view of a woman wearing a white dress and barefoot walking on a garden-like path. There are green plants on both sides and scattered leaves on the path.

This picture only shows the part of the woman below her knees. I chose this picture because I thought the woman in the picture was living a very comfortable life at that time and it felt romantic. Today’s book friends’ opinions: Some people think that the person in the picture is running away from marriage, while others think that the person in the picture is very strong and is walking on her own path of hope. At this time, I really felt that different people would have different results when looking at the same thing.

——Fangtang Reading Club Partner@小小

04 This warm winter is called “Fangtang”

Leader of Fangtang Reading Club in Binzhou, Shandong—— Teacher Wang Yun

Tonight’s theme is “Be Yourself”.

Being myself as I am is the beginning of each new round of "The more I write, the more I understand". Every new friend who walks into Fangtang is dusty and has the desolation and helplessness of life. I know that they are here to find themselves. However, because I have been lost for so long, I have a lot of questions: "Am I not myself?"

My own feelings, my own emotions, my own thoughts have been confused by others and us. Have you respected yourself?

In the face of life, are we too lazy to argue, have we sunk in obedience?

Starting from each story, lead your friends to see your own forbearance-desire-struggle-let go. This is a war, a war with yourself. Each of us is fully armed and goes all out. Over time, we have come out of our own stories, learned to comfort ourselves, learned to let ourselves go, allowed ourselves to try, and tried to fall in love with ourselves.

The stories come one after another, seemingly different stories, but behind them are the same tears and the same bravery. In the story, I followed the "me" in the story and saw myself again and again, accompanied me again and again, reunited again and again, and grew up again and again.

Although the nights are cold and the winter is long, every Thursday night, we walk back to our respective homes from Cube Sugar with warmth.

This warm winter is called sugar cube.

05 Be determined to do what you like, as long as you are happy

Leader of Fangtang Reading Club in Shenyang, Liaoning Province - Teacher Fang Qiuchi

Reading club is normal Now we are reading the first chapter of "The More I Write, the More I Understand". Following the process, I led everyone into the third link, "Please empty your mind, use your eyes, follow your heart, and find the picture that has the deepest connection with you. This picture can represent your mood at this time. You can also tell a story about something that happened around you recently." After everyone made their selections, we started sharing for 2 minutes each.

The girl, Little Whale, chose a picture with fireworks on a black background. She said that she hoped her life could be as dazzling as fireworks. In the following turns of reading and story deepening, she told a story:

Her mother has been a very obedient child since she was a child. She completely obeyed the family's arrangements, found a job that she didn't like but was stable, and got married. A husband who is not loved but whose family is satisfied. So his mother gave her free space to grow and encouraged her to do what she liked.

She runs a flower shop, works as an insurance agent, is single but not in a relationship, and her mother supports her. Other relatives in the family told her mother that she should take care of her children and stop worrying about getting married to seek a stable life. His mother took all the pressure off for her and just wanted her child to be happy.

In fact, she knew that her mother was living a very unhappy life, so her mother tried her best to just hope that she would be happy. But she thinks she is the girl who has accomplished nothing, with no money, no career, no savings, and no boyfriend. Wandering between marriage and freedom.

After 12 minutes of meditation to release her sadness, she wrote: You are yourself, and you are the master of your life. Be determined to do what you like and don't care about other people's opinions.

06 Listen carefully and dream together

Leader of Qinghai Xining Sugar Cube Reading Club - Teacher Wang Xiaoyan

Sponsored by Xining Inexplicable·Yuanshe Sugar Cube Reading Club The first themed salon - my exclusive life vision board, was filled with love, joy and warmth during the production process. During the five hours, we listened to ourselves attentively, explored the truest desires in our subconscious, and created our own Dreams of life.

When I "visit" the life vision board of each reading club partner, I will be amazed. It turns out that he likes this kind of life and decoration style... It turns out that he still has such dreams and desires... It turns out that he likes this kind of life and decoration style... It turns out that he still has such dreams and desires... He is a little different from the one I knew before. Visual images truly reveal everyone’s inner most authentic thoughts. Those beautiful pictures warm everyone’s heart and give us more firm strength.

The moment they finished, everyone stared at their vision boards and sat there in silence for a long time, as if they had realized their dreams and were living in that beautiful and enjoyable life.

I am also so touched. Since starting the Fangtang Reading Club on May 10, I have met the most beautiful reading partner and best friend in my life.

Gathering of leaders from the same city?

As the end of the year approaches, Fangtang from all over the country leads people to take stock of their own year in their own way with a ceremonial annual meeting. of leadership and harvest.

In addition, book club leaders in the same city also meet face-to-face in a venue to share their sugar cube stories, warm each other, and nourish each other's lives.

Love is connection. Every sugar cube leader shines so brightly. Companionship nourishes each other. We have many similarities and many differences. Learning from each partner is such a rich treasure. ! I was very happy to attend yesterday's gathering and met so many outstanding leaders. I am also very happy that I am one of them.

——Leader of Kunming Sugar Cube Reading Club@Zhanzhan

The warm and sweet sugar cubes have been soaked with everyone for nearly four hours. I feel welcomed because of our enthusiasm, warmed by our love, touched by our stories, and inspired by our desire to help others. In 2020, let’s warm this city together!

——@白雅丽, leader of Kunming Fangtang Reading Club

In this gathering, I originally had the intention of communicating easily and sharing freely, and the purpose was to organize everyone to meet. So I initiated an invitation in the group. I didn’t do anything, I just wanted to connect everyone. I am moved by every partner, who comes from different industries and fields and exudes unique wisdom! We were so moved by this gathering that we all cheered together. In just two hours, we planned a "Sugar Cube New Year's Eve Reading Party"!

——Kunming Fangtang Reading Club City Manager @江小xia

Happiness blooms like a flower, and the leaders of the Fangtang Reading Club in Heze City gathered together. In the early morning, everyone gathered in Heze from all directions, bringing everyone's nourishment and gains from the sugar cubes, happiness and joy, and more importantly, transformation and growth, and opened their hearts to talk about the past, present and future of their own sugar cubes.

Add Cube Sugar and you will become a big family. First of all, live your life well and pass on warmth and nourishment to the people around you.

Growth really only happens to those who are willing to give themselves a chance, and we ourselves are the best spokespersons.

——Heze Sugar Cube Reading Club City Manager @Mengjianghua

A partner said that he had three very big breakthroughs, one is "dare" and the other is "give" , one is "comparison" and praise these three breakthroughs of mine. I set limits for myself in my heart. When I hold a book club, I must give something to others. I have to have the talent within myself to give to others. Otherwise, I don’t dare. I always want to give too much to others, always feel that I am not very good at learning, and cannot give more to others, which also makes me afraid to do the things I like. Regarding comparison, I will no longer compare myself with others. Comparing is also with myself and my yesterday. Seeing my progress gives myself confidence and strength.

A friend said that reading is very challenging. During the process, there are times of passion and times of withdrawal. He candidly shared his journey along the way. When he wanted to do it, he wanted to be a powerful fighter. Then there will be reasons not to do it, and no matter what, you have no choice to give up.

A friend said that he has led 66 sessions in a little over half a year. The youth reading club has become very popular, with morning sessions and afternoon sessions every Sunday. Giving children not only sight and hospitality, but also a very strong sense of ritual. Witnessing their growth from form to content has made a lot of changes in the children's lives.

——Xinxiang Fangtang Reading Club City Manager @成yanping

Monthly internal training for leaders?

The last monthly internal training in 2019, in Completely completed this Monday night. In this monthly internal training, Teacher Ran Ran teamed up with Teacher Wu Bin, the leader of Guiyang Fangtang Reading Club, to share with everyone the secret of how leaders can achieve influence.

Based on his own personal experience, Teacher Wu Bin shared his community operation experience, leadership creativity, etc., and opened up the leadership ideas of his partners.

Teacher Ran Ran starts from the heart, shares the mental taboos of leaders, and leads everyone to build their own reading club blueprint with "a heart of service, a heart of hospitality, and a heart of self-confidence".

For a long time, the monthly internal training of Fangtang leaders has not only focused on the mentality and techniques of leading a reading club, but also on how to run your own small business, how to operate a community, and how to improve yourself In terms of influence, as well as the growth of people's character, they provide very different guidance that directly touches the heart.

On this aqua blue planet, we wish that Sugar Cube Reading Club can be opened in every city with Chinese people around the world, and become a spiritual spa that nourishes Chinese people around the world. In order to improve the quality of life of Chinese people, Make your own contribution.

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