You can tell your girlfriend that you want to have a quiet and meaningful wedding. In fact, many girls have dream weddings. After all, most people only have one in their lifetime. Resisting the sense of grand ceremony brought by weddings is essentially resisting the order and rules of society. This is human nature, just because people are born with a desire for freedom, so they hate restraint, hate systems, and hate rules and regulations. Weddings, which are unwritten conventions in the families of both men and women, and Chinese traditions that have been passed down for thousands of years, are like a shackles. Not only the subject, but also any ordinary young man in China who is trapped in it wants to escape and break out of the mold. Find another way.
However, before persuading, you must be mentally prepared. After all, if the persuasion is not good, it can easily lead to quarrels. If the consequences of the price are no longer bearable, I sincerely suggest that the subject take advantage of the situation. In fact, if you want to get your girlfriend to accept a simple wedding, you must show your desire to have a luxurious wedding, and be the kind of person who spends all your savings at once and does not care about the rest of her life. Most women They all belong to: they want a grand wedding, just to see how much you love her; and when you show enough courage and romance, they will be surprisingly sensible.