What are the advantages of being single?
1, single main mainstream value
Men, don't be afraid to be single! Even if you already have a girlfriend, your parents are eager to get married every day; All the friends around you have fallen into their love graves, and even your colleagues and friends are beginning to wonder if you are gay! Don't worry, when you want to live a life that one can completely control, you don't have to feel anxious or guilty about what others say. Because this is your own life.
2. Singles have their own time.
Time management can show a person's personality. Men who have a fixed relationship always live with the mentality of "waiting to go home". The most wonderful moment of such a person's day is often only from 6 pm to 10; If you can't get off work on time, then the evening will definitely be ruined. When you get home after the time, you will definitely be scolded by her! For a bachelor who lives alone, even the same time can be used more freely. For example, if you want to go to a bar with your colleagues and have a good time, you don't have to report to her; You don't have to wait for her to get off work downstairs with your head tilted; You can party with old friends and girlfriends on weekends, and you don't have to be a "human shopping cart" with her.
3. Being single has personal space.
For a bachelor, the refrigerator is very important. The greatest happiness of being a bachelor is to have a complete self and, of course, a complete home. You can show your tastes and hobbies at home, and you don't have to clean them up for anyone, let alone be forced to make a makeover. A bachelor's home is the happiest palace.
Singles need to control their budget.
According to statistics, a 30-year-old bachelor spends almost as much money every month as he earns; Singles are more easily attracted by advertisements and spend money on things. These surveys show that bachelors often spend a lot of unnecessary expenses, and most of them are impulsive consumption! Being single often relies on the mentality of "one person to support the whole family" and "I will spend the money I earn", which is indeed the advantage of being single, but it is also the achilles heel of being single!
5, you must know how to operate.
A bachelor is an absolute hedonist! But what we call "bachelors" does not include those ethnic groups who are "temporarily single" or "have to be single", but "absolute bachelors" who can really enjoy life.
What's it like to be single for a long time
1, paranoia: I always feel that I will be lonely in the future.
2. Numbness: I despise the love of others and always feel that it is not true love.
3. picky: I always feel that my lifestyle is right and others are wrong. I always feel that if I marry a non-ex, I am married. Now I realize that as long as I love, I will not surrender. If you marry someone you don't love, you will be wronged.
4, awesome: I did everything myself, and slowly developed a female language paper.
5. Enjoy being single: In a subtle way, I gradually get used to a person's life and feel that I can live well alone.
6, addicted to the internet, social fear: colleagues at work are busy with their own, almost do not talk, go home from work, a person, idle browsing the web. Too lazy to drink water.
7. Fear of marriage: I am afraid that others will talk to me about marriage and my future partner.
What do single people do?
1, don't want to go out, refuse friends' parties, just want to stay at home all day.
Is being a TV fan your greatest interest in life? Then you will always have only one TV that loves you. After leaving school, there are few opportunities to meet the opposite sex. The biggest opportunity is the invitation of friends around you, various parties, and bringing different boys and girls to the same place. "Friends of friends" is the most likely medium to promote love. The story of meeting the only thrill at the party in the movie will really happen!
2, only live in their own small world, indifferent to new things.
You may have a favorite interest or TV series. It is human nature to study your hobbies quietly, but you should also pay attention to social news and hot topics in time. You can read books that you rarely touch, or occasionally attend a sports party that you are not good at. These experiences will become small topics in the conversation box. You never know what the fascinating topic is. When he opens his mouth, you can just go online, so the chances of further development will be directly increased by 80%.
3. Take idol star as the highest ideal type.
This is really a big mine that can easily lead you to be single for 10 thousand years. Idol stars are beautiful things to appreciate, but it is really difficult to see such figures in real life. Many times, give him another chance to speak, maybe you will be amused by his excellent sense of humor; Maybe you find that you are like-minded, and falling in love with someone is often explosive. Put aside the strict rules in your heart, maybe Prince Charming is by your side.
4, too lazy to dress up, too casual
It is an eternal and well-known truth that men are all visual animals. Men who pay attention to the inside really exist, but they are involuntarily attracted by their beautiful appearance. Charming faces and eye-catching clothes are tickets to catch their eyes. It's really hard to be noticed if they are too casual. You don't need to wear heavy makeup or dress too sexy. Most men like simple and light makeup that looks good, and have their own style to show feminine dress. Let's try it tomorrow!
5, afraid of eye contact, wriggling unnatural
Unless you are an old friend for many years, when you successfully attract someone you like and start dating and watching movies, that "conversation" is bound to increase your chances of liking each other. Eye contact is a very easy moment for the other person to get an electric shock. When you speak, look into his eyes carefully and let him feel your sincere feelings. Of course, you didn't stare at him too much, but smiled with your eyes generously and naturally. This is called "discharge". If you avoid his eyes, it is easy for the other person to misunderstand that you are not interested in his topic, or don't call the other person, which often leads to the relationship being finally abandoned.
What do single people like to say best?
1. What happened to me?
After a long time, "am I not good enough?" Denying your own thoughts is like a negative energy wrapped around your body, which is difficult to get rid of easily. If you always hold this idea, the magnetic field emitted by your body will be very unhappy, and no one will want to make friends with someone who looks gloomy.
I will never meet love again.
Most people who can say this sentence have not come out of the shadow of their last relationship. You have been stuck in the story "Only what you have experienced in the world is unforgettable" for a long time. You are walking down the street, looking at a couple who are well matched, and thinking that maybe this sweet date has come out of my life. When you think about it, you will close your heart. When you close your already dark heart, how to take the first step to accept love again?
He is the only true love in my life.
Usually, a girl blinded by emotion will keep repeating this sentence to her friends, no matter what the reason for your separation is, but you have not forgotten him. You don't have a man like him in your heart, and your friends are tired of listening to you: "He is tall and handsome, and he is very kind to me. He knows all my hobbies and takes care of my family." 」
4. Am I not thin enough, fair enough and attractive enough?
Many girls point out that the problem of not conforming to the object is that the appearance is wrong and the appearance is absolutely correct. It is true that people are visual animals, and their pleasing appearance can easily win the first attention, but there are not so many good-looking people in the world. Besides appearance, personality is the first element of a long-term relationship. If you are busy losing weight or micro-shaping, but you don't make your personality more attractive for the shortcomings that can be improved, then you will never meet a good relationship.
My life circle is too small.
Love is not really like a movie. A very simple thing, you accidentally bumped into each other at the corner and fell in love with each other. That probability is very low, so if you just want to wander around the company and home, then love will definitely not find you, but love needs some help from fate. Of course, you have to go out of the house unless you want to fall in love with the noodle vendor in the corner. Go to more parties, attend more classes, meet some new friends, and new relationships will follow!