Tan Jie is a volunteer of psychological rescue and a terminally ill patient who needs a liver transplant to survive. Sun Yun is bent on death and survival. Sun Yun's world is barren, but the United world shines brightly. What kind of sparks will be generated when two completely different people collide?
What kind of miracle will it create? One day in early July, 2065438+2005, Li Xinhui Swimming Pool in Jinan City, Shandong Province. As soon as it enters the water, it is like a dragon, swimming far away with gentle strength. Sun Yun admired him, but warned that you would be tired. Tan Jie looked up from the water and said, "Don't worry, I will drift quietly." . Sun Yue followed him and learned to float in the water. He didn't expect to accept him so soon.
Sun Yun, a very special friend, was born in 1992. His father Deli Sun and his mother run a seafood processing company. Because of different business ideas, both of them are very strong, fighting for the company for a long time and even fighting. Living in such a family, Sun Yun was withdrawn and indifferent since childhood.
On September 20 1 1, Sun Yun was admitted to Wuxi Vocational and Technical College, Jiangsu Province. In my sophomore year, my mother ran away with the driver of the company, which was a great blow. Not only could I not communicate with my classmates normally, but I was also prone to conflict with others. All three roommates in the dormitory were scolded by him, so he couldn't live any more, so he had to rent a house off campus and live alone.
After Sun Yun graduated from 20 14, her father asked her to go back to the company to help and take charge of logistics management. He is in a bad mood, often suffering from insomnia and pain. In June this year, 1 1, he suddenly floated a lot of pills. Fortunately, his father found out and sent her to the hospital in time, so no one died. After her father took Sun Yun to the hospital for examination, the doctor diagnosed her with depression.
His father wouldn't let him work, so he hired a nanny to take care of him. In fact, he watches him every day. Sun Yun is having trouble with the nanny again. The nanny resigned in a rage. His father said a few words to him, and he became angry and fell down alone. Li Jiajing ran to the top of Qianfo Mountain. Fortunately, his father sent someone to follow him quietly, desperately pulling him and taking him home. Later, after repeated efforts by my father and relatives and friends, I begged Sun to give up the idea of suicide.
In April, 2065438+May, I was surprised by the recommendation of a friend of Deli Sun, and fell into the psychological intervention work run by a retired psychologist in Changqing District of Jinan City, seeking psychological consultation. Dr. Chen, who is in his sixties, talked with him for three hours. He also took him to the hepatology department of Qilu Hospital nearby and introduced him to a patient named Tan Jie. A 27-year-old from Weihai, whose hepatitis C has turned into liver failure, has been recruited as an online psychological counseling volunteer in Dr. Chen's studio.
Sun Yun looked at Tan Jie's left arm and right arm with infusion tubes, and said, everyone is a bottle and a tube, you. Tan Jie smiled. Myocarditis in these two days, four channels were infused at the same time. After Tan Jie and Sun Yun became friends, Sun Yun left the hospital. Since then, the two have often chatted on WeChat.
When studying at Shanghai University, Tan Jie fell in love with his classmate girlfriend in Nanchang for three years. After graduation, they went to Nanchang to work together, but his girlfriend left him less than a month after he got sick. He also had the idea of giving up on himself, and finally survived and began to learn to accept it. Now, I have become a volunteer of psychological assistance. Tan Jie said that death is easy, but if we can overcome the temptation of death, it proves that we are strong both physically and mentally.
Sun Yue also slowly opened her heart. I went on holiday, trying to suppress those twisted things in my soul, but it was useless, especially when I thought of my mother, and I became another person in a second. Mother is the deepest pain in Yu Sun's heart. Tan Jie knows that it needs to be rebuilt both materially and spiritually. Knowing that he loves swimming, Tan Jie invited him to go with him, so the scene at the beginning of this article appeared. Tan Jie is lucky when she is healthy. Go to see flowers and plants, or watch movies together.
One day, Sun Yun asked Tan Jie curiously, why do you want to be a volunteer? What is good for you? Tan Jie smiled and brushed away a little sense of existence. Our life is not completely barren. Sun Yun was moved by his concern and love for life. Unitti tried to untie the knot between Yu Sun and his mother. After divorcing Deli Sun, they got married with their lover in Shijiazhuang. Tan Jie managed to find Yang Juan's mobile phone number and then rushed to Shijiazhuang. After seeing Yang Juan, he advised him to go back to Jinan to see his daughter. Yang Juan knew that because he had hurt his daughter, it was almost a tragedy, and he couldn't help crying.
Yang Juan followed Tan Jie back to Jinan, and Qin Jie arranged for mother and daughter to meet. Yang Juan saw his daughter crying and said that he and his father had no substantive relationship for more than ten years. He couldn't stand this feeling. He didn't contact Yu Sun after he left because he was ashamed to see his daughter. I didn't do my duty to you, but no matter when you come, you will always be the most concerned person in my mother's heart, and my mother loves you.
Sun Yun turned his back on tears and asked Tan Jie to leave. Stay away from Yang Juan, auntie. I will do his work slowly. You must be patient. Looking at the back of her daughter's decisive departure, she cried. In the afternoon, due to the long journey, Tan Jie fell ill with headache, vomiting and unconsciousness. The doctor found that he suffered from liver disease because of fatigue, which further induced cerebral hernia, which was very dangerous.
Sun Yun has gone home, and he is worried that Tan Jie sent him many WeChat messages, but he didn't reply. The phone is ebony festival. Knowing that Tan Jie was in critical condition, he immediately took a taxi to the hospital. Two hours after the doctor saved him, Tan Jie was pushed out of the emergency room. His face was as white as a sheet and his hands were shaking all the time. His parents and Sun Yun called him, but he didn't respond. Sun Yun was very sad and blamed himself. Sun Yue stayed in the ward to help take care of him.
At noon on the third day, when I saw Tan Jie open his glasses, Sun Yun's tears welled up. Do you know me? Tan Jie said softly, Sun Yun. Sun Yun smiled through tears. One day, the doctor and Tan Fu talked about Sun Yun's liver transplant. Occasionally get in a word and ask Tan Jie's parents to give him a type A organ transplant, and his blood type is the same. The whole family is type A blood, but they have detected hepatitis B virus in their blood, so they can't complete the donation. Sun Yun's heart beat. He is also a type A blood. He quietly consulted the doctor and learned that the living donor liver must be a direct relative or husband and wife. After much deliberation, Sun Yun decided to do one thing.
When I went to the ward the next day, only the two of them were left. Sun Yun said to Tan Jie, "Can you do me a favor?" ? Tan Xiaojie, you can do anything. Then will you marry me? Pan Jie suddenly froze. Are you kidding? Yu Sun shook his head. I am serious. I want to see if I can find happiness and happiness in my marriage. Unity is red-faced, and the premise of marriage is first to be congenial and love each other. We don't have another one yet. As you know, my illness is unpredictable at any time Third, I am a volunteer and can't have emotional entanglements with patients. This is a rule.
Sun Yunxiao smiled. Anything else? Do you really think you are a psychiatrist? Forget it. I won't force you to answer. Take your time. Sun Yun spoke quickly and left. Looking at the back of his departure, Tan Jie suddenly shed tears. He is a psychological patient he counsels, more like an angel sent by God. Since then, Sun Yun mentioned marriage knowledge several times, and constantly encouraged him to jump off a cliff in Qianfo Mountain on the grounds that he didn't like it.
He acted very realistically. Tan Jie blamed himself and was anxious. He gradually changed his mind. If marriage can really save him, he might as well use his life to meet this angel of love. One day, Sun Yun asked Tan Jie again if she would marry him. Tan Jie bravely grabbed his hand and said, You are not afraid. What am I afraid of? I'm going to propose to you now. I don't know if you love me or not, but I really like you. Sun Yun burst into tears like a man.
2065438+September 2005, the two began to convince their families separately. Although Deli Sun was grateful to Tan Jie, he was still shocked when he heard that his daughter was going to marry Tan Jie. He said, aren't you jumping into the fire pit? Sun Yun said, with him, I think. Living is exciting and getting married is not the end of the world. If we don't get along well, I will leave him. Sun of the deli was speechless. For this daughter, she has too much incomprehension. He was afraid that something would happen if he refused, so he had to let nature take its course. Tan Jie's parents are also worried that Sun Yun will be dragged down. Sister Tan explained to her parents that you don't understand how terrible depression is. You see that he is fine and may leave at any time. We satisfy each other. His parents were persuaded by him.
2065438+On September 30th, 2005, they got a marriage certificate from the Civil Affairs Bureau of Changqing District, Jinan. Tan Jie's parents were afraid of abusing their daughter-in-law and offered to hold a wedding for them. Sun Yun said gently that Tan Jie was still in treatment, and it was not appropriate to experience that noisy scene before he got better. My parents-in-law were moved to tears. On the tenth day of marriage, Sun Yun was alone in the ward. The doctor came over and told Tan Jie that the liver stick had not been found. Tan Jie was in a daze. After the doctor left, both of them were thinking silently about their own worries. Sun Yun put down his glass and suddenly said, You can do it with me. Tan Jie was stunned by his words. Are you kidding me, Sun Yue? Looking at Tan Jie with a smile, you know I'm not kidding. Tan Jie shook his head in despair. You are my wife. I can't use your liver Sun Yun said, this is because I am your wife, and I want to do this. Sister Tan suddenly remembered that a few days ago, she saw on her mobile phone that she was inquiring about liver donation, and suddenly understood, did you marry me because you wanted to donate my liver? Sun Yun looked at him and said, it doesn't matter. Now I'm your wife, and that's what I should do, you know? Looking at Sun Yun's tearful glasses, Tan Jie burst into tears.
2015165438+10/7, Tan Jie suddenly suffered from hepatic coma. The doctor said that the patient's liver was almost completely necrotic, and only immediate transplantation could save his life. Sun Yue said to the doctor trembling, I am his wife. In my job, he and I are both type A blood. The doctor said that although they have the same blood type, there are still risks. Please think it over. Tan Jie's parents were very moved, but they asked Sun Yun to discuss it with his father. After asking for his father's permission, he immediately called his father Deli Sun to make him hesitate. I have repeatedly said that although I love you dearly, he is your husband. If you want to donate your liver to save him, I can only respect your choice.
Sun Yun cried, and all that remained was to raise money. Tan Jie's second uncle borrowed 500,000 yuan to do real estate business, and he had a deposit of 6,543,800+500,000 at home, making up 650,000. Sun Yuanxiang submitted her and Tan Jie's certificates to Qilu Hospital, and the doctor gave him various examinations and evaluations to determine the operation time.
At165438+1October 19 am 10, Qilu Hospital performed two operations at the same time. Considering the condition of the recipient, the doctor decided to cut off Sun Yun's 1/3 liver and transplant it to Cross for examination. Five hours later, Sun Yuxian woke up from anesthesia and asked about Tan Jie. His parents said the operation went well. The nurse told him that your liver had started working in Tan Jie's body. He has a large dose of anesthesia and will wake up in two hours. At six o'clock in the afternoon, Tan Jie woke up and learned what had happened in the past 48 hours. He was very moved.
He asked his parents to take care of Sun Yun, fearing that he would suffer from depression due to physical reasons. Symptoms worsened, and Tan Jie's mother stayed with Sun Yun for 24 hours. He helped Sun Yun with his mobile phone, so that Sun Yun and Tan Jie could have video communication. Yangquan learned of her daughter's situation and rushed from Shijiazhuang to take care of it. Sun Yun, who experienced this life change, began to tolerate his mother, and there were some exchanges between mother and daughter. Tan Jie was very happy to know.
About two weeks after transplantation, Tan Jie suddenly developed fever, abdominal pain and liver discomfort. The doctor said that this was caused by hepatomegaly, increased the dose of immunosuppressant for him, and told him to pay attention to prevent complications such as infection and digestive tract ulcer. Sun Yun offered me to take care of her. Mother-in-law and Yang Juan are not worried about his health. He said that if there was something I couldn't do, I would ask my parents for help. He took good care of Tan Jie. Tan Jie often doesn't talk, just looks at him quietly. Sun Yun didn't bother him. He held out his hand and held Tan Jie's hand tightly.
On March 20 16, Tan went home and moved to Tan's home to live with him. I don't know when it started. He felt that he could not live without him. In the next three months, Tan Jie was rejected twice, and each time he struggled with death. Sun Yun accompanied him and took care of him. During this period, she also felt that she was suffering from depression, even to the moment of suffocation. But whenever I think that Tan Jie is still fighting death, his attention will shift to Tan Jie, ignoring self-doubt and self-denial. He controlled himself a little, and he was surprised and moved by the progress and unity in his eyes.
2065438+June 2006, Sun, Sun, Sun went to the hospital for reexamination. The doctor told Sun Yun that all the indicators were normal, and the couple cried happily. When Tan Jie recovered, Sun Yun got rid of his worries and fell into a trance from time to time. Just then, he felt a little sick. Tan Jie took him to the hospital for examination and learned that she was pregnant. Tan Jie took good care of her when she got pregnant in October. Sun Yun experienced the whole process of a life gestating and growing in her body, and felt the novelty and surprise that had never been seen before, as well as this curiosity about life. Let him feel reborn.
From 2065438 to March 2007, Sun Yu gave birth to a healthy baby boy named Papa. Once, he was nursing his baby, and the baby suddenly stopped and looked at him and grinned. Sun Yun shouted excitedly, "Tan Jie, look, he smiled at me, smiled at me." . Pan Jie laughed at him. Where can such a small child laugh? Sun Yun was unconvinced and thought it was the child's extra love for him. He looked at the baby with a full belly full of milk in his arms and felt that the whole world was at peace. At that moment, he even thought of his mother. This gang has mushroomed. Sun Yun felt very warm and happy when she stood, walked and mumbled her mother's voice for the first time. When he got up in the morning and took a group of people out for a walk, he felt the bright afternoon in Zhao Xia. When he watched the insects on the grass with the gang, he found the freshness of the world. At night, the child fell asleep quietly in his arms. For the first time, he found that the night sky was not black, but dark blue, as if it had been washed by water. ?
From July 2065438 to July 2008, after examination by Peking Union Medical College Hospital, doctors all thought that Sun Yun's depression had completely recovered. On August 17 Tanabata, Tan Jie and Sun Yunhe took a family photo. In the evening, Sun Yun cooked some exquisite dishes. Tan Jie conjured a rose from nowhere and gave it to his wife and son. Sun Yun took the rose, and Tan Jie conveniently held his wife's hand, big hand and small hand, and the family of three held tightly together. They became attached to each other because of depression and redeemed each other out of kindness, but they didn't realize it, but they gained sincere love. Under the coordination of Tan Jie, the relationship between Sun Yun and his parents was further harmonious. At present, Delisun has retired and handed over the company to his daughter and son-in-law, and their lives have turned a new page.